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Grillo last won the day on July 15 2013

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  1. Thank you to everyone who replied...I'm really grateful that this community exists, because otherwise it's hard to get perspective sometimes, and perspective is exactly what I needed. The more I've thought about it, and considered what everyone has said, the more comfortable I've felt. The most important thing, as a few people mentioned, is that ultimately she's coming home with me. I do think our relationship is actually stronger because we have the love and trust to explore these kinds of things. Our sex life has actually been super-great since this last encounter, which I was nervous about. And now it's mostly just turning us both on. The thing is, this was always kind of like my ultimate fear in swinging, and now that it's actually happened, I strangely feel much more comfortable in general. Thank you all again. I really can't stress how much everyone's responses--and good points all around--helped dig me out of that insecurity and get my head on straight again...I owe you all!
  2. My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for several years now, though we do a lot of separate swinging. There haven't really been many issues, and we're very much in love and committed to each other. Today, however, I ran into a new situation that I'm having some problems with, and would appreciate any help or advice anyone has. My wife was just with this guy who has a massive dick, like seriously huge. The first time they were together it actually hurt her really bad. The second time though she had an incredible experience and came three times. Now, I'm average in size...about 6.5" long and on the lower end of average in girth. This is the first time she's been with anyone this large, and she described how the sensation of him hitting her deep inside, though initially painful, just sent her over the top with pleasure. Now, one part of me is of course incredibly turned on by this. And part of me is happy for her, I mean, shouldn't that be the idea? And I do trust the situation in all other aspects. However, part of me is extremely insecure and jealous. Realistically, I can't possibly give her that sort of stimulation with what I'm packing. She's never even been multi-orgasmic before today, so...I'm feeling pretty inadequate. My fear is that she's going to enjoy sex with him so much more that our sex life is now going to pale in comparison, and just not be nearly as enjoyable, and as it's a physical issue, there's nothing I can do about it. Does anyone have any experience with this situation? I would really appreciate any feedback, advice, or stories!
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