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For those of you who have not followed our introduction to swinging on here, my wife and I started swinging a little over six months ago. So far our fun has been limited to her playing while I watch. She has met with men for 1 on 1, threeways, and gangbangs. We will soon be experiencing our first house party. The party is hosted by a couple we met through some of the contacts we have already met. We were told there will be approximately 15 couple attending, plus 1-2 single women and 5-6 single men. The house has a no play zone in the kitchen, two bedrooms set aside for going 'private,' a 'women only' room, and the family room is a group fun room. With the info on the house and the size and breakdown of the group, what should we expect? Any red flags based on what we posted? Thank you in advance for the advice. -
My wife and I are starting to set up meetings with single men. We are meeting the first later in the week. He was a participant in her first gangbang and she really clicked with him sexually. We got to know him somewhat well and we are comfortable having him over to our house. We are still relatively new to the lifestyle and we are looking for any do's and dont's of playing at home. We just want to make sure no rock is left unturned before we commit to playing here. Thanks in advance.
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Why are men fascinated with cumming on the face?
X53 replied to pinkroses's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
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Why are men fascinated with cumming on the face?
X53 replied to pinkroses's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
Having been a voyeur at both of Pink's gang bangs, I would say that the fact that there were all single men there and no other women may have been a contributing factor to the many facials. In addition, our organizer told us from the beginning that facials were a big turn on for him and asked if she would be cool if they were to happen. After we arrived, it was specifically made clear to the men that facials were ok ( and I am all but certain that they knew in advance as well and may even have been encouraged). That being said, I am sure many fell into the novelty category. Guys did it just because they could and may never have had an opportunity to. There are a million other reasons probably, but it sounds like our experience is not "normal" in the lifestyle. -
Julie, great site you have here. My wife (pinkroses) and I both very much enjoy it. At the suggestion of mauijanedoe, I already posted this in stories. Feel free to promote it as you wish.
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Re: How do I bring up swinging to the wife??? Well folks, we had our first experience last night. It was truely awesome for both of us and we can't wait to do it again. Monica looked fantastic as we left our house. She was wearing a silk while blouse, black skirt and stockings, and heels. The ride to the hotel was about 30 minutes. We were both nervous, but excited about what was about to happen and the nerves were causing the car ride to be very quiet. At one point, I simply looked at her as said "excited?" She gave me a big smile and said "yes, are you?" We assured each other that we were cool with what would happen and we agreed that we could both throw in the towel at any point if something was not going as we liked. Once we were in the parking lot, we sent a text to Pete, our "organizer" to let him know we were there. We wanted to make sure all the men were there before we went up to the room. He quickly replied to our text that the men were there and waiting. We then proceded up to the room. During our discussions with Pete, we determined that the ideal number of men would be four. Pete agreed that that was a good number but he wanted to have some flexability to assure he could get four. Pete wanted to set a range of four to six so he could be sure of showing up. Pete also agreed that if playtime came and six was too many, he would exclude himself from play. Monica was shown pictures of about thirty men that she could choose from. She simply looked at the pictures, and told Pete that she had no objections and no preferences. The hotel selected was a Hyatt Place which feature a large open floor plan, king bed, sofa with chase lounge, leather ottoman, and a desk. Pete's selection of a hotel turned oiut to be perfect for group activity. We knocked at the door and Pete answered and welcomed us in. We entered the room, and we noticed there were six men in the room including Pete. Pete introduced Monica to the guys and asked her if she was cool with the number. Monica said she was cool with it as long as she could put the red light on whenever she wanted. Pete told her everyone was briefed on the rules we set down and poured her a glass of wine which she finished rather quickly. After a couple sips of her next glass, she told us she wanted to get started before she lost her nerve. I took my place in the rooms office chair and told Monica and the men to act like I was not there. The five men sat on the sofa and the ottoman, and I sat opposite them in the office chair. Pete and Monica stood facing the five men. Monica gave me once last glance to make sure I was ok with this and I nodded back and said "have fun." She smiled and faced the men. Pete then slowly started stripping my wife while the guys watched. Pete started by removing her blouse. He then had her turn around and he was teasing them by pulling her skirt up a few times before finally removing it. He then continuted until Monica was finally standing naked in the middle. Once she was naked, Pete invited the men to "come check her out." The five men quickly had Monica surrounded and she had twelve hands attempting to caress her body. One of the men fingered her, felt her moistness and said "I think your enjoying this." She responded with "its awesome!" Then, Pete led Monica to the bed. Monica laid down on the bed, and two other men followed into the room. Pete laid down beside her and began to play with her right breast and lick and suck her nipple. Another of the men did the same on the other side while a third began to perform cunnilingus on her. Monica then exclaimed "Oh my God, this is awesome." While these three were taking care of her orally, the other three were undressing. It didnt take long to realise my wife was about to have her first orgasm of the night. Soon thereafter, the three men left her side where they were quickly replaced by the other three men. As the second group got Monica off for the second time orally, the first three undressed. After Monica's second orgasm, Pete led her by the hand back into the living room area. Pete then stopped in the middle of the room where one of the men had placed the pillows from the sofa on the floor. Pete then told Monica "we enjoyed checking you out so we thought you might want to check us out." Monica got the 'hint' and got on her knees. She was quickly surrounded by the men and began to service all of them orally. Unfortunately, this was the one time of the night that I couldn't see very well since she was very tightly surrounded. Monica made no effort to end the 'blowbang' part of the night, and the men were certainly enjoying her oral pleasure. After what I thought was a long time doing that, Pete again took the lead and led Monica back to the bedroom area. The two of them got on the bed, the other five men stood around the bed, and I continued to watch from a little further away. Pete then got on top of Monica and slid his cock inside her. I saw her get the "crazy" look she gets in her eyes when she first starts to fuck. Pete started to fuck her and quickly worked up a good pace. As she started to moan I heard one of the men say "fuck her!" Another said "give it to her!" I thought the men's comments were as hot as the action itself. Monica later told me she enjoyed that immensely. Pete gave her a vigorous, but quick, fucking. After a few minutes, he was replaced by another of the men who did the same. This repeated until each man had at least one turn. Then, between men, Monica turned over and said "do me like this." The cylce then repeated itself with each man fucking her doggie style. The vigorous fucking made Monica cum hard, the fact that the men fucked for just a couple minutes at a time each allowed them to stay fresh to go again. The men and Monica changed it up several times between, doggy style, missionary, and her lying on her side. The fucking lasted an extremely (in my opinion) long time and I lost count of how many times she orgasmed. She told me on the way home that her orgasms were happening so close to one another that it was like a constant orgasm. After what seemed like an hour, Pete again led Monica to the living room. He said, "Round Robin" to the men and the others immediately got in a circle around her. Pete told her to bend over and suck him while another stood behind her to fuck her. The men on the sides of her were caressing her breasts, legs and back. After another vigorous fuck, the men shifted do that she had another two in front and behind her. I noticed that a couple of the men were taking condoms off after fucking her this way and as things continued, more came off. While I didn't expect it when we planned things, it was begoming obvious to me that the guys were planning on trying to do a bukkake on my wife. After Pete saw the last guy removed his condom, he told Monica to "kneel now" which she did on the pillows. Again, this was a point where I couldn't see as much detail as I would have liked. As soon as she was on the pillows, the men were in on her close. One of them quickly started to cum, and from the position, I knew she was taking it in the face. The other men quickly followed suit. By the time I saw Monica's face again, she was completely covered. Monica has reluctantly taken facials from me before but I know she is not really a fan. She was extremely into the moment and was willing to do it as a thnk you to Pete and the guys. Pete later told me that of the many gangbangs that the group did, that was their first successfull bukkake. The night did not end there. We continued to hang out in the room. Throughout the night, Monica went back to the bed for one on one sex with each of the guys while the rest of us watched. This on the way home, and this morning, Monica told me that was the best night of sex in her life. She told me that she was sore, but said it was a good sore. She and I are both looking forward to another encounter with Pete and company. We are also going to more agressively seek out opportunites to meet groups like Pete's as we have the opportunity to travel. I also want to send out a thank you for all the advice we have recieved on the board. The advice I/we have recieved here. The board was instrumental in bringing our relationship to the point where we could talk openly with each other about our fantasies and desires.
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Hi everyone. My wife and I have been exploring swinging and we decided to start posting on the Swingers Board to get advice on how to start. Several months later we had our first experience that satisfied both of our fantasies. We found an "organizer" and set up a gangbang. The following is a copy of a post I made on the swingers Board to let everyone know how our experience turned out. Enjoy! Re: How do I bring up swinging to the wife??? Well folks, we had our first experience last night. It was truly awesome for both of us and we can't wait to do it again. Monica looked fantastic as we left our house. She was wearing a silk while blouse, black skirt and stockings, and heels. The ride to the hotel was about 30 minutes. We were both nervous, but excited about what was about to happen and the nerves were causing the car ride to be very quiet. At one point, I simply looked at her as said "excited?" She gave me a big smile and said "yes, are you?" We assured each other that we were cool with what would happen and we agreed that we could both throw in the towel at any point if something was not going as we liked. Once we were in the parking lot, we sent a text to Pete, our "organizer" to let him know we were there. We wanted to make sure all the men were there before we went up to the room. He quickly replied to our text that the men were there and waiting. We then proceeded up to the room. During our discussions with Pete, we determined that the ideal number of men would be four. Pete agreed that that was a good number but he wanted to have some flexibility to assure he could get four. Pete wanted to set a range of four to six so he could be sure of showing up. Pete also agreed that if playtime came and six was too many, he would exclude himself from play. Monica was shown pictures of about thirty men that she could choose from. She simply looked at the pictures, and told Pete that she had no objections and no preferences. The hotel selected was a Hyatt Place which feature a large open floor plan, king bed, sofa with chase lounge, leather ottoman, and a desk. Pete's selection of a hotel turned out to be perfect for group activity. We knocked at the door and Pete answered and welcomed us in. We entered the room, and we noticed there were six men in the room including Pete. Pete introduced Monica to the guys and asked her if she was cool with the number. Monica said she was cool with it as long as she could put the red light on whenever she wanted. Pete told her everyone was briefed on the rules we set down and poured her a glass of wine which she finished rather quickly. After a couple sips of her next glass, she told us she wanted to get started before she lost her nerve. I took my place in the rooms office chair and told Monica and the men to act like I was not there. The five men sat on the sofa and the ottoman, and I sat opposite them in the office chair. Pete and Monica stood facing the five men. Monica gave me once last glance to make sure I was ok with this and I nodded back and said "have fun." She smiled and faced the men. Pete then slowly started stripping my wife while the guys watched. Pete started by removing her blouse. He then had her turn around and he was teasing them by pulling her skirt up a few times before finally removing it. He then continued until Monica was finally standing naked in the middle. Once she was naked, Pete invited the men to "come check her out." The five men quickly had Monica surrounded and she had twelve hands attempting to caress her body. One of the men fingered her, felt her moistness and said "I think your enjoying this." She responded with "its awesome!" Then, Pete led Monica to the bed. Monica laid down on the bed, and two other men followed into the room. Pete laid down beside her and began to play with her right breast and lick and suck her nipple. Another of the men did the same on the other side while a third began to perform cunnilingus on her. Monica then exclaimed "Oh my God, this is awesome." While these three were taking care of her orally, the other three were undressing. It didn't take long to realize my wife was about to have her first orgasm of the night. Soon thereafter, the three men left her side where they were quickly replaced by the other three men. As the second group got Monica off for the second time orally, the first three undressed. After Monica's second orgasm, Pete led her by the hand back into the living room area. Pete then stopped in the middle of the room where one of the men had placed the pillows from the sofa on the floor. Pete then told Monica "we enjoyed checking you out so we thought you might want to check us out." Monica got the 'hint' and got on her knees. She was quickly surrounded by the men and began to service all of them orally. Unfortunately, this was the one time of the night that I couldn't see very well since she was very tightly surrounded. Monica made no effort to end the 'blowbang' part of the night, and the men were certainly enjoying her oral pleasure. After what I thought was a long time doing that, Pete again took the lead and led Monica back to the bedroom area. The two of them got on the bed, the other five men stood around the bed, and I continued to watch from a little further away. Pete then got on top of Monica and slid his cock inside her. I saw her get the "crazy" look she gets in her eyes when she first starts to fuck. Pete started to fuck her and quickly worked up a good pace. As she started to moan I heard one of the men say "fuck her!" Another said "give it to her!" I thought the men's comments were as hot as the action itself. Monica later told me she enjoyed that immensely. Pete gave her a vigorous, but quick, fucking. After a few minutes, he was replaced by another of the men who did the same. This repeated until each man had at least one turn. Then, between men, Monica turned over and said "do me like this." The cycle then repeated itself with each man fucking her doggie style. The vigorous fucking made Monica cum hard, the fact that the men fucked for just a couple minutes at a time each allowed them to stay fresh to go again. The men and Monica changed it up several times between, doggy style, missionary, and her lying on her side. The fucking lasted an extremely (in my opinion) long time and I lost count of how many times she orgasmed. She told me on the way home that her orgasms were happening so close to one another that it was like a constant orgasm. After what seemed like an hour, Pete again led Monica to the living room. He said, "Round Robin" to the men and the others immediately got in a circle around her. Pete told her to bend over and suck him while another stood behind her to fuck her. The men on the sides of her were caressing her breasts, legs and back. After another vigorous fuck, the men shifted do that she had another two in front and behind her. I noticed that a couple of the men were taking condoms off after fucking her this way and as things continued, more came off. While I didn't expect it when we planned things, it was becoming obvious to me that the guys were planning on trying to do a bukkake on my wife. After Pete saw the last guy removed his condom, he told Monica to "kneel now" which she did on the pillows. Again, this was a point where I couldn't see as much detail as I would have liked. As soon as she was on the pillows, the men were in on her close. One of them quickly started to cum, and from the position, I knew she was taking it in the face. The other men quickly followed suit. By the time I saw Monica's face again, she was completely covered. Monica has reluctantly taken facials from me before but I know she is not really a fan. She was extremely into the moment and was willing to do it as a think you to Pete and the guys. Pete later told me that of the many gangbangs that the group did, that was their first successful bukkake. The night did not end there. We continued to hang out in the room. Throughout the night, Monica went back to the bed for one on one sex with each of the guys while the rest of us watched. This on the way home, and this morning, Monica told me that was the best night of sex in her life. She told me that she was sore, but said it was a good sore. She and I are both looking forward to another encounter with Pete and company. We are also going to more aggressively seek out opportunities to meet groups like Pete's as we have the opportunity to travel. I also want to send out a thank you for all the advice we have received on the board. The advice I/we have received here. The board was instrumental in bringing our relationship to the point where we could talk openly with each other about our fantasies and desires.
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Well folks, we had our first experience last night. It was truely awesome for both of us and we can't wait to do it again. Monica looked fantastic as we left our house. She was wearing a silk while blouse, black skirt and stockings, and heels. The ride to the hotel was about 30 minutes. We were both nervous, but excited about what was about to happen and the nerves were causing the car ride to be very quiet. At one point, I simply looked at her as said "excited?" She gave me a big smile and said "yes, are you?" We assured each other that we were cool with what would happen and we agreed that we could both throw in the towel at any point if something was not going as we liked. Once we were in the parking lot, we sent a text to Pete, our "organizer" to let him know we were there. We wanted to make sure all the men were there before we went up to the room. He quickly replied to our text that the men were there and waiting. We then proceded up to the room. During our discussions with Pete, we determined that the ideal number of men would be four. Pete agreed that that was a good number but he wanted to have some flexability to assure he could get four. Pete wanted to set a range of four to six so he could be sure of showing up. Pete also agreed that if playtime came and six was too many, he would exclude himself from play. Monica was shown pictures of about thirty men that she could choose from. She simply looked at the pictures, and told Pete that she had no objections and no preferences. The hotel selected was a Hyatt Place which feature a large open floor plan, king bed, sofa with chase lounge, leather ottoman, and a desk. Pete's selection of a hotel turned oiut to be perfect for group activity. We knocked at the door and Pete answered and welcomed us in. We entered the room, and we noticed there were six men in the room including Pete. Pete introduced Monica to the guys and asked her if she was cool with the number. Monica said she was cool with it as long as she could put the red light on whenever she wanted. Pete told her everyone was briefed on the rules we set down and poured her a glass of wine which she finished rather quickly. After a couple sips of her next glass, she told us she wanted to get started before she lost her nerve. I took my place in the rooms office chair and told Monica and the men to act like I was not there. The five men sat on the sofa and the ottoman, and I sat opposite them in the office chair. Pete and Monica stood facing the five men. Monica gave me once last glance to make sure I was ok with this and I nodded back and said "have fun." She smiled and faced the men. Pete then slowly started stripping my wife while the guys watched. Pete started by removing her blouse. He then had her turn around and he was teasing them by pulling her skirt up a few times before finally removing it. He then continuted until Monica was finally standing naked in the middle. Once she was naked, Pete invited the men to "come check her out." The five men quickly had Monica surrounded and she had twelve hands attempting to caress her body. One of the men fingered her, felt her moistness and said "I think your enjoying this." She responded with "its awesome!" Then, Pete led Monica to the bed. Monica laid down on the bed, and two other men followed into the room. Pete laid down beside her and began to play with her right breast and lick and suck her nipple. Another of the men did the same on the other side while a third began to perform cunnilingus on her. Monica then exclaimed "Oh my God, this is awesome." While these three were taking care of her orally, the other three were undressing. It didnt take long to realise my wife was about to have her first orgasm of the night. Soon thereafter, the three men left her side where they were quickly replaced by the other three men. As the second group got Monica off for the second time orally, the first three undressed. After Monica's second orgasm, Pete led her by the hand back into the living room area. Pete then stopped in the middle of the room where one of the men had placed the pillows from the sofa on the floor. Pete then told Monica "we enjoyed checking you out so we thought you might want to check us out." Monica got the 'hint' and got on her knees. She was quickly surrounded by the men and began to service all of them orally. Unfortunately, this was the one time of the night that I couldn't see very well since she was very tightly surrounded. Monica made no effort to end the 'blowbang' part of the night, and the men were certainly enjoying her oral pleasure. After what I thought was a long time doing that, Pete again took the lead and led Monica back to the bedroom area. The two of them got on the bed, the other five men stood around the bed, and I continued to watch from a little further away. Pete then got on top of Monica and slid his cock inside her. I saw her get the "crazy" look she gets in her eyes when she first starts to fuck. Pete started to fuck her and quickly worked up a good pace. As she started to moan I heard one of the men say "fuck her!" Another said "give it to her!" I thought the men's comments were as hot as the action itself. Monica later told me she enjoyed that immensely. Pete gave her a vigorous, but quick, fucking. After a few minutes, he was replaced by another of the men who did the same. This repeated until each man had at least one turn. Then, between men, Monica turned over and said "do me like this." The cylce then repeated itself with each man fucking her doggie style. The vigorous fucking made Monica cum hard, the fact that the men fucked for just a couple minutes at a time each allowed them to stay fresh to go again. The men and Monica changed it up several times between, doggy style, missionary, and her lying on her side. The fucking lasted an extremely (in my opinion) long time and I lost count of how many times she orgasmed. She told me on the way home that her orgasms were happening so close to one another that it was like a constant orgasm. After what seemed like an hour, Pete again led Monica to the living room. He said, "Round Robin" to the men and the others immediately got in a circle around her. Pete told her to bend over and suck him while another stood behind her to fuck her. The men on the sides of her were caressing her breasts, legs and back. After another vigorous fuck, the men shifted do that she had another two in front and behind her. I noticed that a couple of the men were taking condoms off after fucking her this way and as things continued, more came off. While I didn't expect it when we planned things, it was begoming obvious to me that the guys were planning on trying to do a bukkake on my wife. After Pete saw the last guy removed his condom, he told Monica to "kneel now" which she did on the pillows. Again, this was a point where I couldn't see as much detail as I would have liked. As soon as she was on the pillows, the men were in on her close. One of them quickly started to cum, and from the position, I knew she was taking it in the face. The other men quickly followed suit. By the time I saw Monica's face again, she was completely covered. Monica has reluctantly taken facials from me before but I know she is not really a fan. She was extremely into the moment and was willing to do it as a thnk you to Pete and the guys. Pete later told me that of the many gangbangs that the group did, that was their first successfull bukkake. The night did not end there. We continued to hang out in the room. Throughout the night, Monica went back to the bed for one on one sex with each of the guys while the rest of us watched. This on the way home, and this morning, Monica told me that was the best night of sex in her life. She told me that she was sore, but said it was a good sore. She and I are both looking forward to another encounter with Pete and company. We are also going to more agressively seek out opportunites to meet groups like Pete's as we have the opportunity to travel. I also want to send out a thank you for all the advice we have recieved on the board. The advice I/we have recieved here. The board was instrumental in bringing our relationship to the point where we could talk openly with each other about our fantasies and desires.
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Hello all. I know it has been some time since I last posted but there are some exciting developments. Over the last few months, we have been looking to set up a gangbang situation for my wife. About a month ago, we found a lead about a group of men that are organized and can set things up. We met with the "organizer" about a month ago. It was simply a meet and greet to make sure we were all on the same page about what everyone wants to happen. We were very impress eye with him and we have our "party" with him arraigned for Friday, October 4th. We will let you know how things go. We are both very excited!
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Cplnuswing, You brought up a point I didn't consider. While I hope this wont be a one time thing, I don't think I made that clear to her. Thanks for helping us stay on the same page.
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Oh she was sober this morning. Tuesday, Wednesday, and thursday this coming week will give us another chance to talk.
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Again, I need to talk in more detail with her. I did get the impression that she wants to try several.
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I though of that myself. It's up to her and the conversation obviously has to go a bit deeper before we proceed.
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Thank you everyone for all of the advice over the last few days. Yesterday I brought the subject up during our 2 hour drive home from the beach. I used Fundamental Law's advice as a rough guideline. I was met with a simple "I didn't think you would be into that." Then silence and a complete topic change. During the ride home, about 11 hours after the initial conversation and after several glasses of wine, my wife told me she has always had the fantasy of being with more than one guy but never really let it out. I asked her what she specifically fantasizes about and she said "six or more men." Soon thereafter, she passed out (or faked being out to avoid further talk not he subject). Nothing else was said until an hour into our drive back this morning. I told her that I would love to help her with all of her fantasies and that it's my fantasy to watch her. I think she is slightly skeptical about my claim of no interest in other women, but we will see. Anyway, I asked her what she though and she told me to "look into it." Now I guess the next step is to start inning suitable guys. I will get o a post on just how to do that, but I am open to any and all suggestions.
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Thanks for the advice. Lots of good stuff in there. I like the idea of kissing her as another guy enters her. I wish I thought of that.
