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wetrafters

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About wetrafters

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 01/23/1980

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Oregon
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. Thank you all! After talking and talking and talking some more, we have decided to not go any further. We weren't on the same page, and aren't going to proceed until we are!
  2. Hello, my husband (of 14 years) and I have decided to try swinging, however, I have some reservations about him being with another woman. He expresses that it's ok that I don't do something I don't want to, after all, it's about having fun, and he agrees we try MFM. I am truly appreciative that he isn't pressuring and is supportive and doing and saying all the right stuff. But I feel selfish now, like I'm getting what I want and I'm not doing as much for him as he is for me. We are moving slowly, I am not saying MFMF will never happen, but what if it doesn't, if I can't ever get there? He is saying he'll be satisfied either way, but I am struggling now even with MFM. I don't want guilt and selfishness to have any part of our fun.
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