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About husband

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 08/11/1980

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  • Relationship Status
    married
  • Location
    Washington State
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. I do want to be desired. That is very important to me. This stuff is really complicated it is funny how you learn things about yourself you didn't know. I guess the big question comes to why are we doing this and what do you gain from it. I am happy to say that I have the best lover I could ever hope for in my wife. She rocks my world and is everything I could ever hope for. I really like meeting new people and the excitement that leads up to it all. I also think that a lot of woman think it is expected of them to be into girls and the thought of women playing together for the sake of it or to put on a show is a real turn off to me. I can't tell you exactly why, but it just is. Another thing is that I think of my wife as a hetero sexual woman, and she is at least 98% straight. Soooo, seeing her in that position is really odd to me as it looks forced. So anyway, this is something I have found out about myself and appreciate everyone's insight. I look at this lifestyle as a way to meet new fun people and to spice up our sex-life. If anything has been gained through all of this it is the connection and incredible passion that the wife and I have. It's absolutley in-fucking-credible!!
  2. Thank you everyone for all the responses. I guess for me, even if it sounds selfish, I want the other woman to be all about me! My wife has the other guy and if she has the other woman too then that's a problem for me. As "the wife" posted above about that certain couple, that one really bothers me and brought this to the forefront. We had a super connection the first time and in an effort to not shove it my wife's face I have been real low key with her, this was also at my wifes request as well. Well now we have what is going on now. I personally think we either not play with this couple anymore or we have a conversation with them or drop direct hints. According to my wife she likes the ff as foreplay but can take it or leave it. But when we are with others she either chickens out or maybe is just really into it at the time and it turns into full on girl/girl fest. This is something we need to work on together and learn to respect each others feelings. We are only 7+ months into this so we are still learning. The more I think about it this may be a boundry / trust thing my wife and I need to work out. I think we can and I am enjoying this lifestyle quite a bit.
  3. So obviously. Yes!! Just basically looking for feedback and if others dealt with this and if so, how? I feel like this isn't a common issue....
  4. This is my first post but my wife has been posting for a while. I have my very own question so here it is. The wife is Bi or has a strong "flare" for the ladies. I have no jelousy issues with her but what I am struggling with is with the other ladies. When the girls flirt and play it bothers me. I feel left out. I also do not get much out of the visual aspect of the two ladies together after 30 seconds or more. I know most guys are really into this but it is not my thing. I feel jipped in the matter. I also know that this may be a self confidence thing but I sometimes feel like I am the second choice. My wife is super hot and I can understand that to some extent but at the same time this is something we are doing together and I am looking for great sex for me as well and would like the female to be all about me. I think I'm a decently attractive guy and I do admit that some of these feelings may be in my head but at the same time. I guess my question is, Does anyone else have the same feelings about being a guy with 2 bi women? Every time we have played it has been with other couples and it seems like the other guys are in to it. I just don't know. This is really the one thing in this lifestyle that bothers me. I don't have these feelings with the other men and my wife, just the other women and my wife. I have no problem with the men doating all over her and I take that as a huge compliment.... I need some advice on how to work through this as I don't want to hamper the wife's good time. In my perfect world we would play with 100% straight couples but I know the wife likes lady time. It may sound selfish but it makes me feel left out and sometimes hurts my feelings...
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