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About Sensualbicouple

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  • Birthday 04/14/1980

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    Couple - she posts
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    Australia
  • Swinging Experience
    2+ year
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    02/17/2007

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  1. Thank you to the contributions thus far. @Wornsilver; thank you for your compliments on the tag line. I thought up of tag line when we joined TSB. It's the motto we go by whenever we get chatting to people and the subject comes up about how we entered the lifestyle. And it continues to be our motto considering the avenues swinging has taken us. Yes I feel like I need to know our playmates very well before they are invited into our play sessions. I believe sex begins in the mind and the body will follow. If I can't relate to the person on a non-sexual level then I just can't get into it on a sexual level (if that makes sense). @Lionheart You stated that you are one of the friends with benefits. My definition of a friends with benefits would entail a connection with that particular playmate(s) but not to the point of say living out of each others' pockets. Does that exist with you and your friends? @Sunbuckus Thank you for that. I have read some posts from the second poly family you mentioned. I'm curious though, for a husband of a couple having a second partner, you said the dynamic exists but is prevalent if the husband is bisexual. Can you elaborate on what your opinion is of this?
  2. My husband and I were discussing polyamory and the particular subject of one of our conversations was the dynamics within the polyamorous relationship. I offered to post this question on his behalf. My husband says that the main dynamic he has heard about or read about has been wife / husband / wife's boyfriend and/or girlfriend. The other main dynamic you hear about in society is the husband / wife no. 1 / wife no. 2 / wife no. 3 etc etc and this predominantly lies within people who are part of the orthodox Mormon church (for example). He is curious to know about other dynamics of polyamory that exist (or from those here who are polyamorous) as to what makes up the polyamorous family of the members here, as he says many women would not be able to handle another woman or man becoming a life partner of their husband (except the religious folk maybe).
  3. Yes I too had my first bi experience with a beautiful politely aggressive woman. It was surreal and I still get tingles when I think about her and what we did to each other. :-)
  4. We may possibly have found a bi guy to play with and is more than happy for me to watch hubby and him play first and then I will join in on subsequent play dates. If this happens, it will be the first time we have tried this method of wheedling out the true bi guys from the fake bi guys who use it to get to the woman (and we too have experienced that particular con).
  5. I really do hate answering a question with another question, so I would say in answer to your question, I would suggest you hire a male escort since money will be involved in said transaction. Now my question to you is this; does your wife actually want to be seduced by another man, or is this something you want for her?
  6. Interesting question and we have found ourselves in this situation before with another guy from a couple we played with. To answer your question, the answer would be no. Because of previous experiences with people who have told us "yes my wife knows and supports me and wants me to experience things", more times than not, we have found ourselves face to face with the wife who was definitely not OK with it all. And we're open and honest people when we play. Getting caught up in lies or half-truths or people who can't seem to walk as they talk, has just made us very much more aware of the backgrounds of people whom we choose to play with.
  7. We have recently been approached by a married guy (who claims to be in an open relationship with his wife, but his wife does not know he is bi-curious at the very least). He says he has and I quote him here; "sounded her out" about it and he says she is not ready to hear the truth. Now granted my husband and I are bi, and openly so, I understand other people may not be openly bi. I can't help but wonder if his marriage and his open relationship hall pass would be a lot smoother if he just told her. Needless to say this guy has red flags in regards to possible future play. But this thread got me thinking about this guy we know and his situation.
  8. I'm actually hoping that one day, out of the blue, the go-to vibe will be created and I will never look back (wishful thinking I know). Either that or I'm going to have to invest in a backpack so I can carry my Hitachi Magic Wand around with me...I will feel like an armed vigilante, taking matters into my own hands...lol :-)
  9. Yes I suppose that's correct - my search has ended - sort of - at least for now.
  10. What the tipping point was for me, was being more open minded and within the company of like-minded individuals who didn't necessarily glamorize or trivialize their own bisexuality. When I was able to look at myself involved in an activity that was consensual as well as mutually satisfying, I was able to stop enforcing my own limitations because of the unknown factor. Sometimes you have to just jump in, knowing at the very least your feet will get wet. For hubby, and I'm only speaking on his behalf but without knowing the exact moment he was able to pinpoint it with absolute certainty, was when a certain male of a couple we were speaking to, began to speak with him in depth about his own journey of discovery into bisexualism. The conversation wasn't obscene and raw to the core, but rather a true and honest declaration of why it's OK to accept who you are and though you may have feelings of fear or trepidation, nevertheless, remain true to thy self. The discussions hubby had whet the appetite and though he was at first fearful of my reaction to his bisexualism, in time, we were able to discuss it responsibly and embrace his emerging interest in the same sex. We have never looked back since. :-)
  11. Well I have purchased for myself another slimline rocket type vibe (similar to my original go-to vibe in the past). So far it has been excellent and it was only $10 and it doesn't fail to arouse me at all. I will however keep looking for a vibe that is powerful, less phallic and is easily stowed away in my handbag as I love the idea of being able to play on the go. :-) I have been on the receiving end of a "fuck saw" and it was amazing. But not quite what I'm looking for. As for the Hitachi, well maybe one day I will give that a go, but it is nigh impossible to get the Australian equivalent as I believe there are issues with the voltage compared to the USA counterparts and the Hitachi Magic Wands just can't handle themselves here and blow up. Or maybe it is just Aussies (or in this case me a Kiwi) would run them into the ground. My attempt at putting a humorous spin on this has been pitiful, but it is true about the voltage.
  12. The more we get to know the couple, the more I (Mrs) feels more comfortable at the possibility of engaging them in sex. Providing that we have attraction/chemistry/similar personalities etc. I can't have sex with anyone where I'm purely attracted to them physically. I need to have my mind stimulated before the rest of my body follows. Hubby on the other hand understands the value in getting to know more about them before he engages sexually with them, but he does prefer one nighters or out of towners. We have had to compromise, because we don't play alone. And I have to say, that as a couple, we get to know our play partners for a little while before we engage them in sex. Having said that though, we have met couples and singles, become really friendly with them and had chemistry, we've played with them and then it doesn't happen again for various reasons (ie, they move on, we've had couples where one of them begins to object to the friendship even though they knew beforehand how we prefer to roll and according to their profiles, they were the same, or people have moved on or moved away or we just can't seem to tee up a day/time that suits everyone). We have yet to play with a couple more than once, but we have played with singles more than once before. Maybe that's a silent hint....:-)
  13. I totally understand where you are coming from. In fact I always envisioned my first bi experience to be exactly like that. It was sort-of like that. We were in a dark room with just a little bit of mood lighting in a room just outside to make us ladies feel a bit more comfortable. And it was fantastic. Us ladies started off with kissing in the room without the guys, a little light touching and caressing and it moved on from there once the guys joined us. They couldn't wait long in the other room...he he lol :-) But yes once the feelings of "this is just a show for the voyeuristic hubbies" went away, I felt like I could relax and just let things unfold naturally and they did. I hear you and second you on that. :-)
  14. I was present when hubby had his first bi experience. My role was to watch only; that was his request and I was happy for him to set the tone for that play meet because I wanted him to be happy with what he was doing. We talked about it at great lengths, about what he wanted to try, who he wanted to have his experience with, what I was to and what I wasn't to do, even how we would feel if either of us did not like the experience or even if we did. To my surprise, I loved every minute of watching him play with another man right in front of me. I was pleasantly surprised by how aroused it made me and I was proud that he handled it so well. Afterwards on the drive home we joked about how he could finally appreciate what I enjoy about going down on a guy....:-) I have since seen him play with another guy in front of me. It was a MMF, but at times they played together right in front of me and I was not always involved. It was hot to say the least. And personally, I can't wait to play like that again if and when the time arises. :-)
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