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  • Birthday 11/03/1973

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
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    Ohio
  • Interests
    Card games, Ham Radio, Computer stuff, meeting people, people watching
  • Occupation
    self employed
  • Swinging Experience
    10 yrs
  • Anniversary
    6/19/2005

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    wingsonabris
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    wingsonabris
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Princeton

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  1. Sunbucks, I agree. The more you know a couple, the less I want to get attached, but the friendship endures. So sex happens less often, and in some cases never again. I'm rotten, there you have it.
  2. Being that we are both fixed, we always do bareback. The only risk for us is std, and we have a really simple way to find out. Ask each member, separately.
  3. You know what? Hooray for married men sticking to their morals. Sorry for the strike out, but perhaps check for rings next time. (or maybe that's the point here? I'm dense sometimes).
  4. Bumping this old thread because I had an app question also. Does anyone play games like truth or dare with their swinger friends? There are tons of truth or dare apps on the Google Play store for Android type mobile and tablet devices. I have yet to try one, but I was wondering if anyone uses something like that. I want an app that's "Guaranteed to break the ice at naughty parties" (Eric Idle -Monty Python)
  5. Current situation - Jealous partner = Wife (5 years ago), resurfaced = no Past marriage... I had jealousy the day after a separate room encounter while being told "we just kissed for hours, you wouldn't understand how amazing he makes me feel - and then I made love to him." I quietly pouted about that for a while. Boo hoo.
  6. Had this situation happen to us exactly twice. Here's what we did. Case #1: The animal. This was a pretty younger newbie couple with a host of minor issues. The biggest one was the male half used way too much "locker room talk". I gave him polite suggestions along the way to try being a gentleman. When that didn't work, I pulled him aside and directly told him to cool it, that the women in the room don't like it. That worked for a while, but he couldn't help himself when things got physical. That was the last straw. Bri and I agreed that was the first and last time with them. But the texts and emails kept coming steadily from him. A full week of ignoring this only amplified his resolve to text both of us - several times daily, and even calling at times. The woman never texted either of us. Solution: I called and told him in a polite register "Look, I think you should know that we're not interested in your company." "Really? Why dude?" he asked "Because of your crude behavior. Remember how I warned you to cool it? I meant it. It's not sexy. And now, I am asking you to leave us be. Is that clear?" I replied. "Whatever." he sulkily said, hung up and never contacted us again. Case #2: The ugly party. We went to a house party quickly discovered no one was physically attractive in our view. No problem, we didn't have to get physical, but it didn't take long for the ham-handed, touchy advances to begin. Yuck. We left. But the following day, I started getting texts from the host. I chickened out at first and texted him that our "kids needed us". That got him to go away, but then I started getting texts from one of the female party goers! I wasn't happy about this at all. And she was like a jack hammer with "hey hun, please call. I NEED to talk to you, it's important." and "we're all praying for you" etc. Grrr! I finally texted back after two days of this shit. "We aren't attracted to your party group." No one out of those folks ever texted again. So in my experience, telling the truth to the offender works the best.
  7. I wish you the very best of luck in this situation my man. Thank you for sharing! I hope that this all works out for you. I would wager that if you both feel that your marriage is still the core of everything, you and your wife will always triumph - regardless of all the noise around you. Would your wife be mad if you shared your feelings about how much you sincerely love her and your family? Of course she wouldn't! She only doesn't like sharing "feelings" for another woman. Hell, I wouldn't blame her a bit about that. It sounds as if this fifth wheel girl y'all have hanging around is using some dirty home wrecker words ("I gave you my heart. Don't break it.") I think the sister has the answer to your problem here... no counselors needed. Just drop this chick. She can go giving away hearts somewhere else. Anyone want to second my opinion?
  8. Cool that this forum is still rolling along! Well people have asked for details, and well.... if you must know (omg of course, here you go guys, my pleasure to share)... Details details... We meet in public (local fair). Attractive nice people! Country folk to be sure, not to pushy or anything etc. Watch the fireworks, no real touchy feely action at all really. He touched Bri's side. Lol. We go to the bar for some spicy conversation on how they frequent local clubs and have major action (kewl for them!). It's getting late, so goodnight, see you tomorrow for dinner at our place. Hug goodbye. Well alright, no sweat, kinda off-ish on the contact, but whatever maybe that's the way it is with them? Next visit our place. Sloooow texters. Like 30 min between replies. late by 2 hours. We already ate, but they hadn't and what we had ready was cold. So they ordered pizza. So we play euchre, and they picked themselves as partners. First time for us swingers to not have playmate partners? yea, that was off, but alright why not. They kicked our ass badly at cards. But that's partly because I started to loose my will to win when they began discussing their sexual adventures. Why would that be a bad topic? Well, these two are longtime sweethearts from highschool and now in mid thirties. And apparently she has a very keen memory about their first swinging play time way back in college days. With a raised eyebrow and a cold steely eyed look staring down her man, she told us how everything was great until he "just had to jump her friend". A pregnant pause as our two euchre partners appear to have hit a bad note. But then she pops back in with a smile over to Bri "But... *sigh* that's the past and we're moving on of course," she says But he retorts with "Of course! Just like you moved on with (dude name) and then over with (other dude name)!" Uh oh. I am now standing. They have to go now. But I am noticing that she is now standing and leaning over to Bri taking her to the kitchen. Lord... ok so I take a smoke break outside with our gentleman's guest. You can imagine this conversation. (To my readers, I'll answer your questions, but I won't give everything away right here. Ask if you want.) Going back inside, women smiling and having a drink. The room has lightened a bit, and well... I'm still done with these two, but what the hell, I figure we let her finish this drink and we'll be polite and call it. We find out that in these last few minutes about their club adventures. I couldn't wait to hear about this! Apparently, has her way with any willing man she wants there, but he may not touch or proposition the girls. I am beside myself. "Well, why did you answer our MW4MW?" I ask. "We're taking it slow, and I think in time we will be ready for it once we get to know you better", he says. Dear reader, I understand this mentality to a point. But roping us into drama territory and wasting time on a Saturday isn't our cup of tea. It is now time to bid each other good night. As politely as possible. A few terse texts from him came in after a few days wondering what was up, and I politely wished them luck saying we're probably not a good fit. A pout and a goodbye. So that's the full story gang. Whaddya think?
  9. I read this sad story and totally wanted to give the guy a hug. Question: Where does jealousy come from, nature or nurture?
  10. 1. Yes you need thick skin. 2. Focus on each other after the `no`. A few times we've made play dates only to be stood up. All dressed up, hot and bothered, right? Blah, we just go home and fuck like animals by ourselves. My wife and I are in sales so it's not a big deal to us to be told no. As soon as the no comes out, you just move on. It just is what it is. I do admit, it does suck tho if you get a long string of no's. But, there's a lot of fish out there. Cast your line further
  11. Ya gotta let it go if you want to swing, plain and simple bro. That's all there is to it my man. How to do it? It's a personal thing that you gotta soul search for, ya know? Mental architecture... for me, it's like this. She gets hers, I get mine, we go home happy. Make sense now? PS, threesomes are a bad idea for newbs because it's one sided. Ya read me now? So think about what I said before. If she's having an amazing time, and you can't have the same, well... you're not ready! Have a great day!
  12. Hmm... i stare into my crystal ball and see the future for one sided jealous swingers. You're going to get dressed up exactly twice. Once to swing, and once for divorce court. Don't bring it up ever again unless she does first and her new rules include equal play. Got it?
  13. Our experience - doesn't matter if they hot or young.... newbs are shy and boring in a big group. Drown 'em in booze, and you get dramatic party crashers. Newbs alone one on one is a coin toss. If the newb girl is in horny and in charge, you stand a chance. Otherwise more boring dramatic bullshit. Oh hey here's another weird fact - the more we pay for parties, the less action we get. The best parties i've been to were free.
  14. Are you jealous? Try this test on for size bro: Imagine her doing everything with everyone wearing a big smile, moaning loudly and having the time of her life. If it pisses you off, don't swing. Who's with me?
  15. I did ask tonight... The girl homeschools her kids...has some kind of deep fear that her children would be poisoned ir something by swears...so she erraticated it from her world....entirely i guess. By evenings end, no play. Seems cursing was only the tip of a bigger dramatic iceberg in this couples seriously FUCKED world. Oops, did I cusss? Lol!
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