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  1. Hi, this is "the husband" here. Thank you all for your great advice. We are going slow, but we are very excited about the fun we've had and will have as swingers. I have kinda a silly question - my wife is right, I have this fantasy that she will just get picked up in a bar. Some cute young woman will have a few drinks with her, and by the end of the night they are making out. Best case scenario is that I'm not even there - she just comes home and tells me about it! Does this ever really happen? It kinda sounds like a penthouse forum post or something, so I'm wondering if I should drop the fantasy and move on, or continue hoping... We've been going out to bars that have a reputation as cougar hangouts in hopes that something will occur. Does anyone have any experience with the "casual" hook-up, or are they mostly pre-planned? How about experiences with friends or casual acquaintences? We don't know anyone in our circle that are swingers, at least not that we know of, but we sure wish a few of them are... Thanks again, we appreciate all of the advice.
  2. Well we are totally satisfied with finding people our own age and older. Like I said, we surf porn together quite often, and the porn that we like is all older, "real" women and couples. If someone were to say "all the younger swingers hang out at X", then we'd check it out and see what we could find. My husband is hoping that a young woman just comes up and starts flirting with me and we end up making out - yeah right!
  3. Thank you all for your responses. We will check out those sites, but swingwife - you have a good point about family obligations. We would never have been ready to swing 10 years ago! Also, who can stay awake until 2 am!!?? Chicup - I've never heard of a couples cruise, how do we find out about those? Our escort experience was fun - I wouldn't say it was any better, just different and fun. Since we are new to this whole thing, we are checking out every option, and that was great since we could really be in total control. I guess that's why we are interested in finding younger women and couples - to try every option. Is craigslist always really bad? It seems like we are tending away from it, but it's funny - the people who sell you stuff and have bought stuff from us are all normal and not flakey. Why is it different with sex?
  4. Hi, we are a couple in our mid forties and we have recently started swinging. Most of the other swingers that we have found have all been in our age group. That is absolutely fine, since we are very attracted to people our age and older. However, we were thinking that it would be great to also find some younger people to add a little more energy to the night! The question is, are there younger people - couples and women in their late 20's to early 30's - who are swingers? I assume there are, but how do we find them? So far craigslist, AFF and SexyAds are where we find people, and those people have all been older. Heck, even the porn we surf is all "Milf" sites since they just seem more real. The sites that feature younger people all seem to be pros, or fake. Last weekend we even hired an escort to have an experience with a younger woman. Any advice? Will we find them at sex clubs? We haven't been to one yet, but we're thinking of trying out a club this summer. Thank you!!
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