Hi,
My wife and I have been married for 10 years, during that time we've had repeated conversations about swinging and bringing others into the relationship. She's very open to the idea and bi-curious. I am too. Although neither of us are really sure about how to start, and what the rules should be.
(Distant) friends of ours have been involved in the lifestyle for several years, and ended up swapping partners 100% - neither of us wants that to happen.
We've read some confusing info online - but this place seems to be the 'sanest' - so right now we're both looking for guidance on what to do next.