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Guycurious

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About Guycurious

  • Rank
    Carpe Diem !
  • Birthday 10/01/1970

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    IL
  • Swinging Experience
    About 9 years
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    MrMrsGuycurious
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Couples Choice

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  1. Male here. My wife and I have been involved with the lifestyle for several years now. It was easy for me, a struggle for her. I've always been able to separate sex from intimacy. Sex is a physical act that makes two (or more) people feel good. Intimacy is shared with my wife. These days I am curious about polyamory. It seems natural to be able to share a physical and emotional attraction to others. Maybe it's my bisexuality that leads me in this direction. I've started doing some research, joined a few online groups. My wife struggled to accept swinging into our lives, I'm not sure how this new found part of me will sit with her. But if I'm not being true to myself, then I'm not being who I really am.
  2. We had a no kissing on the lips rule when we started swinging. One night in the hot tub w/ another couple I turned to see my wife in a full on lip lock w/ the other guy. It caught me off guard but I found it kinda erotic. I brought it up later in bed and she said she was curious to see what it felt like kissing a guy w/ a goatee. And that was the end of that rule !
  3. We had attended the previous month's party and ended up on a bed next to another couple. Well, one thing lead to another and the four of us hit it off. We exchanged numbers and made plans to meet again. The next party was for Halloween. Both women were sporting strap-ons with their costumes After a few drinks we headed upstairs and proceeded to wreck the bed. The other female and myself dp'd her boyfriend at one point. My wife used her toy on me, we swapped blowjobs, multiple orgams, etc. It was an AWESOME night. I have a pic of both women posing with their "equipment" in hand The four of us had quite an audience at one point.
  4. I love anal, wife doesn't. I love 69, wife will only do so for a few minutes. So if we are playing w/ another couple and she is into anal and 69 then I take advantage (not in a bad way) and indulge. Licking while being sucked feels INCREDIBLE and will usually bring me to orgasm within minutes.
  5. T & K put on a great party. We came home from the Halloween party smiling and exhausted.
  6. My wife and I have attended a bi oriented party a few times that is held at a place in country club hills. Is this the party you are referring to?
  7. We had this rule for a while until one night in the hot tub I turned to see my wife kissing the other guy. I mentioned it later and she said, "I was curious to see what it feels like to kiss a guy with a goatee." And the kissing rule was no more.
  8. Wow, I wish I could talk my wife into trying something like this.
  9. Morning, She does sorta' get involved but not to the level I wish. I would love for her to be more verbal, suggestive, demanding, dominating, etc. She has a more passive, conservative personality so just getting her to the point of visiting our first lifestyle club took YEARS of suggestive comments. For a while now we have been searching for a unicorn, a bi guy that is interested in an ongoing FWB relationship. While we have met and entertained a few guys we have met via Craigslist none of them have worked out long term so the search continues. I didn't face my repressed bisexuality until I was married and had kids. Coming out to my wife was terrifying but our sex life is much better since doing so. I hold out hope that someday my wife will embrace a more open view on sexuality and take an active interest in exploring other avenues. She says she has a difficult time separating sex and intimacy whereas I view sex as an act between or more people that makes everyone feel good. Intimacy is something only she and I share.
  10. I have been with other guys in front of my wife and I am reserved/nervous. I told her back in 2006 that I was bi and even though she is fine with it I still have this fear in my head that if I go all out with a guy she will not like it. I'm talking about telling him how good it feels, telling him to pound harder, slap my ass, telling him to cum in my mouth or on my face, etc. Just worried she will not be okay with it anymore.
  11. For me it's making him orgasm. When a guy says, "I'm going to cum" I start bobbing my head up and down faster until he explodes. I love the sounds and face he makes when I go all the way down. My best to date is being able to deep throat a 9". It made my eyes water but I did it. My wife gags on my 6.5". Hopefully some day we find a guy that we can trust enough to let him cum inside my ass.
  12. Oh yeah. I will go either way but I prefer to be face down, ass up with a guy dominating me. Even better is when the wife is on her back in front of me and I can give her oral at the same time. 69 w/ another guy is fun too.
  13. Bi husband here with a bi comfortable wife meaning she will go w/ the flow if the other woman initiates but my wife does not pursue other woman, much to my dismay We have played w/ a few bi couples and for me it's the best! There's nothing like eight hands moving freely about the hot tub. But trying to find a bi couple is difficult.
  14. I (husband) would like to try separate rooms but I'm not sure the wife would be comfortable with that. I am still a bit reserved with the amount of attention I pay to the other female, always worried my wife will become uncomfortable.
  15. We had a rule against kissing and then one night in the hot tub with another couple I looked over and my wife was all over this guy's face. At first I was WTH?!? but after watching them for a few seconds it just made the night hotter. Later I asked her why she did it and she said the guy had a gotee and she was curious what it felt like.
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