Baakpon

Yes that is a party foul. He may be uncomfortable around you because he is afraid you will be jealous. That sadly means that he is not comfortable with himself. If the male half of a couple is not comfortable with me "first" I would never chat up the couple. A single man has to be comfortable being around both of you or he does not play well with others.

I am a single male. I met a girl at work who was in a commited relationship(engaged). We were drawn to eachother physically. Intelleactually we were more than compatible. Nerds too . We hung out some and let me know they were swingers. We did some stuff and spent some time togather and when I felt comfortable( I am very private) I told her I was bi and it turns out her fiancee is as well. hmm freinds and friends and friends. My best story about that. Edit: Sorry... just realized this question is reffering to couples only. Remove if you need to, I would but I do not know how atm.