We recently met a couple and become fast friends. So this last weekend we met for dinner and plans for play later. All went great until play time came. My husband and his wife hit it off and were getting it on without isssues.(They were hot to watch) I and my friends husband played and it was, well not good. I was polite and tried not to make him uncomfortable. We took a break watched our partners and had a drink. After we said our good byes and they went home my husband says, " so what happened I could tell things were a bit off". I explained that there was just no chemistry and I gave it my best shot however, I don' think I want to hook up with him again. My husband understands yet he is disappointed because he and the wife did hit it off so well.
Now here is my problem, i called the wife and explained. Told her I love hanging out with them and glad her and my husband had a great time, But there was just nothing between her husband and me. Now they arent speaking to us. She understood , her husband not so much. I wanted to be honest. I can not be fake and would never want anyone to be fake with us. I wish I knew how to handle this without peoples feelings getting hurt and all of us being able to remain friends. Really sucks! Any advice?