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Wayne&Gwen

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About Wayne&Gwen

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 10/18/1959

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Northern California
  • Interests
    live music, some blues, jazz, good country-bluegrass
  • Occupation
    self employed
  • Swinging Experience
    Gwen has some experience, but that was over 25 years ago. Wayne has none
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    don't have one...as of yet
  1. Thanks for the advice. Not sure why you couldn't see our profile, will have to double check the settings.
  2. Gwen swapped a few times with her first husband and had some group fun after her divorce, but that was over 25 years ago. I have no experience. we've talked about it but still have yet to move to the next step. "life" gets in the way, but we've been discussing that daily life details will always be there but we must work around them and instead of focusing on other things, to set aside some time to focus on ourselves (if that makes sense).
  3. Well, what we've learned so far...only used one around base of penis...did seem to make erection harder (or was that wishful thinking on our part)... Couldn't really get it over scrotum and behind balls and over shaft but will try again, in hindsight best to try putting on out of a hot shower...if it's cold and the "boys" are clinging close to your body for warmth, makes it a little tougher to get on...lol Also, much easier if you were totally shaved down there which I'm not... This is probably one of the most boring posts ever...sorry...wish I had real exciting details to share but not as yet.
  4. thanks to all who responded.....We love this site...we have learned so much....even if we haven't "done it" yet....at least we know if/when we do we will be somewhat informed on certain things..THANKS !
  5. so funny and so well written...thanks for sharing
  6. So I bought him a cock ring. Well, rings actually. A packet of rubber ones in various circumferences/sizes. Can only imagine what the guys that use the large one are carrying...lol...but that's a different conversation. Any way...no directions came with them... We're wondering which is best way...around the base of the penis...or over the base of the penis and then stretched over and behind his balls. Does one method work better than the other or does each have distinct advantages? Also, is it true it is best to remove right after orgasm to prevent any "problems"? Basically looking for something that will help a late 50's male stay harder longer... We would like to hear from the mature men in the crowd who have used them or have other ideas for "lasting longer". As for lasting longer, does stuff like Swiss Navy Endurance Spray 15Ml really work?
  7. Gwen swapped a few times with her first husband. She had a few flings once she found out her first husband was having affairs. I have no experience in the lifestyle. We have talked about spicing things up for a few years now.....but talking about it and taking that first big step are two different things. The bridge between the two is much wider than we thought. I (Wayne) seemed to be interested in it a bit more than Gwen. We have taken advice of sites like this and others and have avoided craigslist. We had a profile at a popular swingers site, and did get a few inquires from people in our general area, but never went further than a few emails So how do you make that first big step to actually "doing it"? Gwen is having a bit of a body issue. We all get older and gravity does it thing, but that's the way life is. I try to tell her not everyone who swings is barbie and ken...and I don't have the body of a porn star by any means. I try to tell her enjoy what you got. We have talked about our "vanilla friends" and it seems when Gwen finds the husband someone she would consider if the right situation occurred, to me the wife is not someone I would consider...and of course when I find the wife a bit interesting she finds her husband a bore. Not that we would approach any of our vanilla friends, we would like to keep vanilla friends very separate from swinging friends. Just wondering if anyone (who started later in life like us) has advice. Would like to stick with people close to our age (50's to early 60's). We are casual people and don't see ourselves in the hip club scene or high brow wine and cheese crowd.
  8. We like seeing the wedding rings....makes it seem more real. We'd rather see someone in the movie that looks like someone you might see in line in front of you at the grocery store or at a Starbucks.... We are new to watching porn. So far what our cable provider offers has not been too enjoyable, just too staged and too phony. One was the handy man coming to help a woman, all three scenes seemed the same and not very creative. We ended up only watching about a 1/3 of the movie.
  9. A while back bought Gwen a vibrator...rabbit type. Bought it a Good Vibrations in SF. When I bought it for her I asked the person working there a lot of questions and she was very helpful. She explained the pro's and con's of different styles... One thing we have noticed...she likes that it vibrates, pulses, and spins....but man the noise. It seems loud. Just curious if the women here tend to enjoy vibrators or life like dildos....or perhaps both. Thinking of surpassing her with a new toy, perhaps a dildo with the suction cup on it so it can be set on a chair or the wall in the shower... Any recommendations welcomed....
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