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- Birthday 01/25/1965
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Relationship Status
Couple - Living the dream
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Location
Saraland, AL
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Interests
Casino's, boating, camping, dancing, swimming in our pool, and of course lots of sex!
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Occupation
Captain & Nurse
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Swinging Experience
Two years
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Anniversary
12/12/2012
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CaptainAndNurse403
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SwingTowns Username
captainandnurse403
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SDC Username
captainandnurse403
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Collete's, Emerald Coast Social
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CaptainAndNurse started following First time threesome issues, could use some advice, Swinging in the Military, Our first club trip and and 4 others
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Colette's in New Orleans is a cool club. There are a few others, but the one place we want to check out is The Dive Inn. It has an indoor pool and is a swinger's B&B. ~Captain
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Swinging in the Military
CaptainAndNurse replied to natalie3442's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Oh, and I also want to point out than Fran and I don't have intercourse with other people. So, is that adultery in the eyes of the UCMJ? They could use article 92 as a general conduct thing about discredit of the service or something. ~Tom -
Swinging in the Military
CaptainAndNurse replied to natalie3442's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I'm a military officer, but I'm nearly at my 30 year mark so it would be a retirement for me I guess. However it seems the UCMJ has been relaxed somewhat due to the repeal of DADT. I just prefer to keep our lifestyle choice private due to my position as a commanding officer. In about 18 months it'll be different after I'm retired. ~Tom -
A safe way to see if your partner is interested
CaptainAndNurse replied to naughty_kitten's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Okay, I'm gonna get Nurse to do this with me. Thanks for the link and all the comments! ~Captain -
Nurse and I have three FB accounts. Super vanilla for parents, children, and the holy rollers, semi-vanilla for our cool friends who like to get crazy and obnoxious, and then our swinger profile. None of the previous friends except one couple appears in or knows about our swingers profile. ~Captain
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Breast Augmentation/Implant Surgery Questions
CaptainAndNurse replied to La Ti Da's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
Nurse had implants about seven years ago to tighten and enhance. She then went back a year ago to have a reduction and lift due to back pain. She did not lose any sensation in her nipples and is much happier this time. One recommendation - rub vitamin E on your scars after in incision heals. Do it at least twice a day for about three to six months. It works wonders. We bought a bottle of capsules and just broke the capsules and rubbed the liquid on the scars. ~Captain -
Welcome to the forums. Awesome people here to give awesome advice. How long have y'all been married? Have either of you ever had a threesome, or you play with another girl? Those are potential icebreakers on the subject of swinging. Only you know your husband and his attitude about sex, right, wrong, and morals. I'm not implying that swinging is immoral, just that some people believe it to be. I guess a better way to put it is his openness to live and let live. Nurse first discussed a threesome she had in a previous relationship many years ago. That planted the seed and she let it soak in for a few weeks, then she brought it up again and finally mentioned the lifestyle. Believe me, I was thinking woah, where is this going? But I was also very intrigued and tried not to show my excitement. It was the best thing to ever happen for us besides finding each other. You know your hubby better than anyone. You probably already know how to broach the subject, but you're uncertain of his response. As everyone else said, you'll probably be surprised at how he responds - meaning pleasantly surprised. I wish you luck and look forward to seeing you both posting here. Happy journey! ~Captain
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What sex toys to start with?
CaptainAndNurse replied to Texasluv2011's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
I bought a stripper pole at Lovers. Just make sure you read the carton because one of the poles they sell is a novelty and not load bearing. The load bearing pole costs more. -
Awesome closing comments! I get it. Sounds like y'all on a great course to discover what exactly it is you desire from the lifestyle. I am certain you'll find it and the people you can enjoy the journey with if that's what you're wanting. I'm not judging or really implying anything. Just writing down my thoughts. Never worry about the "norm." Normal isn't normal in the lifestyle. I think that is one of the things that draws me to it. It is so dynamic. There are no typical rules except the "no means no," so keep on keeping on. ~Captain