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SMarti021

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About SMarti021

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 01/09/1988

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    Wa
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  1. I understand, we are going to talk to him and there is a chance we will stop. This forum has great advice but it just that. Advice... I appreciate the feedback and we are using it to make a decision on what we plan to do. First we talk to him then if that goes well work the mfmf thing if the talk works out. Thanks again everyone.
  2. So we talked, it was a very light hearted talk, not stressful at all. We decided to talk with him and also make this a mfmf thing and bring in a girl as well. That works for me! And she is happy. We agreed to take it one at a time and re evaluate it and talk after every time to see how we both feel. I feel good about our talk so let's see how it goes! Thanks for all the advice!
  3. Wow I really appreciate all the feedback everyone. It's great to get a outsiders view on the situation since we're new to this all still after we talk ill fill you all in with how it went.
  4. Thanks for the Info, Yes its something that just started clicking in my head recently and wanted some input. I know my wife would stop right away if i asked her. Angelkin would it bother you in any way if your husband told you you had to cut ties with someone you enjoyed? Or is it a none issue and you can move in without feeling disappointed or let down? Like i said i just dont want to make her feel bad or let down for something out of her control that's all.
  5. Thanks for the info! Yea like I said before I feel a threesome is something enjoyed between everyone and when it's with other people its great! But when one guy just covers your wife and keeps you from touching her at all that's where it gets annoying... I guess it's worth noting we have done a MFM with another girl that's not my wife and he acts the same way. Does that change anything or is he just possessive and not really the sharing type?.. I do know that if he had a GF or wife he would NEVER let his woman do anything like swing, you can't even talk about his EX's without him getting jelious. And that just plays along with his possessive personality. My next thing is when I tell my wife about this later tonight I can't help but feel like I would feel bad for telling her that we need to possibly cut it off with him if he can't respect the rules. It's nothing she did and she has been nothing but honest to me and really enjoys having 3 ways with him. I feel like I'd be punishing her some way but that's just my guilty side of my mind.
  6. Thanks for the advice. I guess because I truly do know my wife loves me and isn't in it in that way I was just letting it go. But like I said last night in between sessions in a 5 way where he was there my wife told me he was telling her how beautiful she was while rubbing her hair while I wasn't in the room... At first glance I can look at that as no big deal but when I think about it and see how he goes about with my wife it is alittle questionable... Any more of people two cents would be great! Also if anyone else has had this simular experience please share with me and let me know how it turned out!
  7. Ok so me and my wife are a young couple she is 21 and I'm 24. We're new to this stuff but comfortable with each other and love each other very much. We have a couple we swing with and play with single girls and guys as well and even have done 5 ways. My one friend who we have MFM with though is really into my wife, she likes him for the sex and I trust her completely! Absolutely no issues there, but he is the type of guy who likes the girl to himself if you know what I mean? Our MFM 3 ways usually end with him covering himself over my wife and almost hiding her from me while he has his way. He will also talk to her on the side and my wife says he tells her how beautiful she is. He has told my wife he doesn't like 3 ways and wants to have her to himself which is a rule breaker on our part. For us having this lifestyle is about enjoying this stuff together as a couple and not a way to get away from one another. This guy is a good friend it's just his personality to act that way, he is really possessive with women in bed. So with that said this bothers me and I'm not really into it yet I enjoy letting my wife 3 way with him and me. She is very sexually attracted to him but that's it, he on the other hands if he could would steal her from me if he had the chance in a heartbeat. Is this normal for guys to get that way? If I trust my wife should I let it go? Or is this a nono in people books? Our other guy has no problem sharing and taking turns etc and can go without trying to swoop her away from me lol. On one hand I can't blame him though, my wife is 21, absolutely gorgeous athletic build, deep black hair, and a amazing personality. I'm truly a lucky guy to have her.
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