Nightvoyeur

Thanks for all the advise. Everything worked out just fine no jealousy whatsoever. I know the word friends raised a flag but even though we have known them for a long while we actually were more or less acquaintances. So much fun. The wildest night of our lives.

Thank you so much for your advise.

Yes we have met our first playmates. They are mutual friends of ours. We have known them for many years. We think soft swinging would be fun, exciting, adventurous and spice up our sex life. We both realize how excited another person can make you just because of the newness regardless of how much you love your partner and both feel that our marriage is bound together by more than monogamous sex. We have a strong relationship and a great marriage and wouldn't trade that for anything but feel that we can have fun with this and not affect our marriage in a negative way. Very interested in the book by the way. I think it would answer most all our questions.

Thank you for the advise. We plan to keep things fun and lighthearted, we have set our boundaries and have a game in mind as well to break the ice so to speak. Sounds like we have the basics covered. One other thing though. My wife has confided in me that she is afraid the other woman will be prettier than her. My wife is pretty by any ones standards (she has younger, hot girls hitting on her all the time) I have told her how pretty she is and she has nothing to worry about as far as someone else getting my attention more than her. Is there any ideas on how to make her more secure with her body?

Hi, me and Mrs. Nightvoyeur are going to have our first soft swap experience soon. We have been married 21 years and only been with each other. We are of course starting in to this slowly and would like to hear any advise anyone might have on the subject. We are both just turned 40 and are in great shape for our age. Hoping to find some information for dealing with jealousy just in case.