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eriefun

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About eriefun

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  • Birthday 05/01/1974

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Cleveland
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  1. For me, the male, I think it has decreased, but for the Mrs., it has increased in frequency. We also began working out more since we started this journey so that may be the reason for my decline.
  2. I believe the month of August they are opening it up to a single woman add-on, but no single men.
  3. We went to a house party 90 miles away from us, our first house party, and we asked the host who was coming. They knew we were interested in attending, and they were more than happy to share other profiles that were going to be in attendance. We actually contacted a few of the couples, and had dinner with one prior to the party.
  4. We are in northern Ohio and it seems SLS is very popular. The only time we use Kasidie and SDC is for travel.
  5. Now we are new, and we are only soft swap, but I have been suprised in the mrs choices in the few experiences we have had. Our last experience was with a very HOT couple, and we both found them extremely attractive. She was great, but he said some things that I really had to do a double take on. He was saying things I was sure my wife would take offense to, killing his chances with her. We ended up playing. The next day I asked her about it and she said she was not paying attention to the conversation the four of us were having. She was also in the mood and didn't think that would have bothered her too much. I can't help but wonder if the situation would have been different if they had been less attractive.
  6. We have been to Desire twice (RM and Pearl,) and the entertainment staff did a great job. Desire is an interesting place. We met a few couples who were nudist. On day one, they would be telling us how they have no desire to go to the rooftop hot tub, by day 3 they were on one of the beds! We saw no conflict between nudists and swingers. We booked both of our trips through a lifestyle travel agent (castaways travel,) and they were very helpful. Most of these agencies have groups going throughout the year and can help you decide if you fit into one of them. It is a good way to meet others before you go. I would also recommend joining one of the many yahoo groups, and the desire forum at forums.desiremexico.com.
  7. We are new to the lifestyle, but started out in a similar way. We would go on AFF and put on a show. She loved reading comments, and wanted to be on the most viewed cams. It excited her very much. The good thing is she is open to being sexy. Maybe swinging isn't the next step. Maybe she would like to take her exhibitionism to the next level, and have sex in front of others, while watching others have sex. A swing/sex club can be a good place to try this, or take a sexy vacation to Hedo, Desire, Sea Mountain, etc., where you are in a sexually charged environment. We have been around the lifestyle for a few years now, but have taken it very slow. For us, it is fun to be around good people who like to be sexy.
  8. We are a couple in our late thirties who have been around the lifestyle a decent amount (been to Desire Resort twice, and a lifestyle halloween party,) but have not participated much (touching, flirting, exhibitionism.) We decided to push our boundaries some on a recent trip to Vegas, and posted hot dates and travel plans on different sites to find others. Our rules were no sex, and no kissing, but everything else was fine as long as it was the right situation. On our last night, we were at a meet and greet, and met some great couples. Later, two soft swap couples asked us if we wanted to go up to their room. If nothing else, we could just watch. My wife indicated she is not bi, and is not interested in any girl play, and although disappointed, they were fine with that. In the room, we all talked for about 10 minutes, then the action started. The two couples were playing on the bed opposite us, and we began to play with each other. After about ten minutes, one of the other women came over to our bed, and asked if she could play with my wife. Although my wife states she is not interested in women, she said that would be fine. After about five more minutes, my wife had three people pleasing her at once. It was a night of firsts. This ended up being a great experience for us, mostly because of the other couples. They were very considerate and asked before doing anything. They did not pressure us at all. The only issue we had was some performance anxiety, which cut our night short. It got to the point that my frustration with myself, and my inability to perform, made my situation worse. My wife also had some performance anxiety. Although she was enjoying everything, she was unable to fully let go. After about an hour of play we decided to head back to our hotel. Later, when my wife an I reconnected, we had some of the best sex we have ever had. We are still getting sexual benefits from that first experience, and can't wait to have another.
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