twofortwomaybe

We are planning a trip to Mexico, and would like to stay at Desire. There looks to be 3 properties, are they adjacent, do they each attract different types of people? Any clarity to this would be great.

Yes, as a follow up. It was GHB, had confirmation today from an at home test kit. Anyone looking for something like this can find at home kits on testclear. We also sent some urine to an actual lab, you need to search for independent forensic labs such as:abqcrimelab, thecarlsoncompany, and toxassociates.com They will run urine collected within a few days of the incident, and hair 30 days after event. They are pricey.

Thanks for the thought. I have been on the same meds for a number of years, and am a frequent drinker, moderate amounts-I have never had a reaction before and know that even if I did my pupils wouldn't be dilated to the size they were. And there is no way that the amount of liquor I had (2 drinks worth) would have related like that. If you haven't done drugs, there are usually two types of experiences. This is something I need to flush out (water, bathroom, vomit) vs something I have to ride out (wait it out, like a bad trip). This was definitely the later and not something I had ever cared to experience again.

me too!

Up until yesterday, I worried mostly about STDs. But I think after getting slipped something, I am way more worried about being drugged or being taken advantage of while drugged. I am seriously doubting about going to clubs or parties when the number of people I don't know if larger than the number of people I do know. Sorry, I am on rant mode, and trying to process what happened yesterday.

We are new this swinging thing, but not new to parties or drugs. I spent time in my youth doing a lot of stupid things, but I have never blacked out or lost control to the point I did last night. And my partner worked in a club in London during the 90s. I haven't touched anything but booze since 1995, but I remember enough to know what being drugged feels like. We got to a house party with hosts we know, but a lot of people attending we did not know. We brought our own bottle, fixed drinks with communal mixer, cups and ice. This afternoon, I recall that I set my drink down a few feet away from the table, and had to lean in to grab the diet soda. I added soda, put back the bottle tasted it and needed to add more, the drink tasted way too strong. Leaned in again to grab the diet coke add more to the drink and put it back. We sat down and caught up with some good friends we haven't seen in awhile, we moved locations and I finished my first drink. Mid-way through the first drink, I remember become acutely aware small things, like bugs flying around, and the patio lights feeling really bright. I also remember feeling shaky and I told my partner that I took my meds but I feel like I haven't. I soon forgot this, and went on with the evening. What he tells me happened next, I have very little recollection of. I am normally pretty introverted, and I went to full on social mode: dancing, being very blunt with intentions, and way more suggestive than I normally am. He didn't think anything of it at the time, other than two drinks hit me much harder than usual. He continued to fix me ice water from this point forward from my same cup and he stopped drinking. We kept making trips to the bathroom, I had to pee much more than I usually do--which is saying a lot. He said I was walking straight but looked like I could fall over at any time. The next thing I remember is sitting in a chair, not really talking. I couldn't feel my pulse, my face felt numb as did most of my limbs. The word "dissociated" is the only thing I could describe it as. I remember it was harder to breath than normal and time passed extremely slow. At this point he got concerned. We went to the bathroom, where he got a look at my pupils. They were very dilated (not as much as they would be on LSD) but dilated enough with poor reaction time and constriction when light was shone into them. We sat for awhile, and I started to feel shaky, and panicked yet extremely relaxed. He had stopped drinking when I had first showed signs of being drunk. We spoke to hosts, there was a nurse on sight, and I know they were hesitant to believe that I only had two drinks. I probably looked and sounded like I had 8-10 drinks. When I only had two, in two hours, and this was nearing four hours after arrival. My pulse at that point was erratic, and I had tremors. She advised if it got worse go to an ER, and that it seemed like I was having anxiety or a panic attack. I know it was not that. On the way home, I shivered and was trembling. We contemplated going to the ER, but were at least 40 minutes from any hospital and I kept saying I just need to ride it out. It took a long while for my breathing and pulse to return to normal. Even this morning (10 hours after my first drink) my pulse was at 124, and my BP was 110/68, where I normally run 125/80. He kept me awake until I was breathing more regularly, and then he sat up and watched me sleep for a couple of hours. None of the walk in clinics will run a GHB tox screen, and it isn't worth going to the hospital. We saved urine that I passed about 5 hours after we got to the party, and will send it to a lab that does screen for this. I finally passed out, in a heavy sleep around 1030 AM (12 hours after arriving at the party) when I woke up around 100PM I felt as if I had just woken up after taking 2 doses of children's benadryl. I am really sensitive to medications/drugs/chemicals and I assume the dose I was given was small, but I run on a low toxin and chemical food program, and I am allergic to everything, so what would have probably just made a normal person a little more relaxed, hit me like a ton of bricks and close enough that I would have gone to the hospital if we had been closer to one than we were to home. What we are bothered by, is that in FL, the couple of people I have talked to, said this isn't uncommon. I almost two decades living in NYC, did tons of partying and never had anything like this happen. It is so shameful and disgusting that people in their mid-thirties behave like this. I have medical problems, which is why I chose to stop doing drugs in my teenage years. And getting dosed with something, unknowingly, by people who are lying about their intentions really sits poorly. Part of me wanted to vent and another part of me wants to cry. What if we both had been given something? What if he didn't recognize signs of drug usage and know to keep me safe? I had no idea what was happening. I needed to talk to someone, and rant about the situation. We've done tons of crazy things and I never imagined anything like this would ever happen. In all the years I lived in the city, and all the parties and shows and sex clubs I have been to, I never heard of anyone having this happen. Based on internet reading, it sounds like GHB. Has anyone else had something like this happen? Is this frequent in the lifestyle? Is it worse in places like FL?