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PNWCouple

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About PNWCouple

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 04/04/1971

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Seattle Area
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. My wife and I are fairly new to this (handful of experiences), but spent nearly a year listening to podcasts, reading and figuring out what we were and weren't comfortable with in terms of our internal rules. Before any party, date, we check in with each to make sure the general rules are the same and haven't had a situation where of us felt really left out or not "heard" (knock on wood). We met a couple that we had a fun time with at a hotel takeover. The second time we met them, we went to their house. We had asked them if they had any off limits things at the first event (answer was no), but didn't ask before the second meeting. Admittedly, everyone had a lot to drink. We were on the same bed playing and having fun for a couple hours until my wife did something the guy requesting she do (prefer not to give details, but something a lot of men/women do together - I will clarify we're not talking barebacking). Suddenly the crap hit the fan and the female was yelling at her husband that the activity was a private act for them. They starting yelling back and forth about why were they together, etc. They said the night was over, but offered to let us sleep over due to the alcohol. We hit the streets as quickly as we could get dressed. They apologized profusely the next day and I indicated IF we were to meet again it would be with a lot less alcohol involved (or sober). I do think alcohol was a major factor, but we do like a drink or two to relax. And we are going to ask about boundaries like crazy now. We're not against sober play, the drinks just help us relax a little (we have played sober, so it's not a requirement). Here's my question: Has anyone had an experience with a couple where it was major drama one night, but ended up being a good relationship over time. Or is it once drama, always drama... Not sure whether to discuss it with them over coffee or write it off.
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