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Alicia1984

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Alicia1984 last won the day on June 16 2012

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  • Birthday 07/04/1984

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  1. I've been to Vegas a bunch of times, and check out OG more than once. The couples dances with females are really erotic. They can be with men too, but in my experience, letting her get a dance alone first, then letting the same guy give her one in a couples setting is the easiest way towards what you want. And the men at OG take signals very well, and it can be anything from a typical lapdance, to a whole lot more, depending on your comfort level. PM me if you need more info.
  2. Everything else was amazing, and my issue was similar to yours. I swallow all the time for my husband, but I wasn't sure if I wanted another guy busting in my mouth, at least not the first few times. That said, I agree with the poster who had the quote about not putting a dick in your mouth if you don't want cum in it, so I really wasn't mad, just surprised.It wasn't anything that upset me, or made it situationally awkward after the sex was over, just in that moment I was taken by surprise, and I figured this was a common problem so if I posted, people would say oh yea, it happenes. I'm convinced it was not done on purpose, and was just a guy really enjoying the fact that he was getting his dick sucked who lost control at the wrong moment. We have no formal "rules" because we think it would be silly to restrict ourselves by saying, "You can do this, but not this." It was simply a preference at that time, but I also think the entire thing is something we can joke about somewhere down the line, after more successful encounters. We jumped back on the horse last night, and the first thing I did after playing with my husband for a bit was suck his dick, and there was no issue. He was a lot more talkative after lasting a more normal amount of time, so it looks like a humorous story and nothing more. My inclination was to take it slow, and think it over, but we decided it would be silly to dwell on something so irrelevant, and that getting right back on would clarify the situation rather quickly. "Problem" solved, and now for a middle of the early morning nap to unwind! Thanks for the advice, and keep it coming to anybody who hasn't responded but wants to. The mroe input the better.
  3. I probably should not have said "Secret" as everyone was made aware after. I meant that in the heat of the moment, I downplayed it and didn't put him on the spot, which I felt would have made him feel worse than he already did.
  4. Yea, I had been willing to chalk it up to first time over zealousness, but it can't hurt to ask around. I don't have any reason to think he was doing anything intentionally, but sometimes when you continuously think about something, you create new angles in your mind. It wasn't a huge deal to me, and I definitely didn't want to embarrass him, although I mentioned it to my husband after since there's no secrets. After they left I even thought that if it was just a mishap, it was a funny ice breaker, and an easy way to know that the next time will definitely be better!
  5. So as you can see, I'm new to the board (and swinging in general), and got into a situation last night that I wanted to get a fresh set of ears (well, eyes) on. So our good friends come over, and we all sort of got into the idea of swinging with each other. We had all discussed it within our own relationships, but girl talk led to the revelation that the other couple had had a discussion and mentioned us as a couple they felt comfy with (as we did them, in private). Started as casual conversation, over months it progressed bit, and lately we'd been doing some soft swapping. Sex on the same bed, a little mutual stroking, but nothing major. Feeling ready to take the plunge, but obviously nervous as I'm sure everyone is when they progress to a new level. So we all get comfortable, and I'm sitting on the other man's lap in the hot tub. At the end, I invite him to come help me "look for towels" (this was pre-approved by hubby, he said take five minutes alone if it feels awkward at first). We go to the spare bedroom and I let him play with me for a while, the way we typically do, but it began to progress, with my encouragement, to more intense rubbing when he started to finger me. I let him go down on me for a while, but after five minutes or so, I told him to lay back and I'd give him a blow job. After a minute of doing it, and him squirming a lot mostly out of excitement since I don't think he expected it to go that far, I realized I would be more comfortable with our partners in the room, so I retrieved the two of them. Before going, I told the other male that I'd blow him, but don't cum in my mouth, do it in your wife's, and he agreed. We all begin to play with each other, with my hubby getting a bit more attention when I diverted to resume the promised blow job. My husband comes around to have sex with me, and all is awesome, I'm with two guys, the other wife is playing with my husband and me, when boom. Not one minute into the blow job my mouth is full of cum. I feel his hand kind of tap me but as I look up I can see he is horrified. When it hit me I swallowed by instinct, leaving me getting fucked from behind with a limp dick in my mouth, an embarrassed male on the one end looking me in the eye almost begging without words that I keep his cover for a few minutes and pretend to be sucking it, and my husband behind me. After another minute in my mouth I figured the way out was to turn and give my husband a bj so his wife would slide in and play with him, and she did, he went down on her and when me and my husband finished so did they. Now, after everything was over, he apologized privately, and said it wouldn't happen again and he was caught completely off guard and just lost control, realizing it too late. It was definitely an intense situation, both of our first experiences with sex acts, but I was conflicted. I know when I am about to have an orgasm, and in my experience, so do men. This was the first time we had been together, and had he not finished early, there likely would have been intercourse because it was going great. Now my mind tells me it was an accident, but there's also a creeping feeling that maybe he figured I'd get cold feet at any moment and decided to steal a blowjob, because I feel like he certainly could have pulled my head back, or whatever. Yeah, it would be embarrassing to finish so quickly, but it wouldn't have bothered me, or anyone else involved. Everything else was spectacular, but I'm wondering: a.) has anyone had an agreed upon rule broken by what the person claims was a mistake, and b.) how did you handle it? I never heard stories of quick ejaculation from his wife, so it could be that it was the heat of the moment, but it has given me pause about letting him inside my mouth again until I see him last at least a little while with his wife!
  6. Being new is pretty fun, since each experience is a new revelation. We've been trying things out for half a year now, but lack the experience of many of the previous posters. So far we've had two mff with separate women, but then decided couples would be more intriguing to the both of us. Got involved with a couple we've known for a few years that were also interested in trying it out (started as casual fireplace chat) and hit it off instantly. Took a weekend trip to Mexico and did some naked hot tubbing, groping, and during the same bed sex session, it turned into a gropfest quasi foursome. I hadn't planned to go as far as I did, but in the heat of the moment we just got into that zone (gave him head, ate her out, got eaten out by all three including hubby, got fingered in the anus during intercourse and vaginally beforehand) but in the heat of the moment you can't stop passion! I still haven't been penetrated with a penis by anybody else, but we're right there!
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