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  1. We like many others on here didn't have much luck the first time we tried anal. Luckily for me my wife was on a forum site with a group of women and the topic came up and a surprising number of them did it and really enjoyed it. This got my wife back into the idea and we tried again after a lot of internet research on how and managed it successfully and now it is a regular part of our sex life. We also have a collection of different sized plugs which I use starting with a small one and work up to one the same diameter as me while licking her, once she is relaxed and ready I enter her. This ensures it does not hurt her on entry and the more she enjoys it the more she wants. Dp with 2 men not just me and a toy is now top of her things to do with friends list.
  2. Well down here in New Zealand everyone is uptight when it comes to talking about sex and even at parties it can be difficult getting people to talk about it. The kink and BDSM scene is however quite large. We only have about 5 clubs in the whole country and most swinging is done privately, with I assume hookups from the online community. I assume this as we have never met anyone from an online site that we have wanted to play with, and there appear to be a lot of fakes on the sites here. However we have met some great people at a club and the local regular house party we attend. These genuine people have all been very welcoming and friendly but a little slow to accept new people.
  3. I think you might be onto something with this as when my Wife and I were trying for our second child it was some of the most intimate sex we have ever had. Now that I have had a vasectomy and can no longer get anyone pregnant the sex is different and I think it is all in my head. The subconscious idea that I can not impregnate a woman is somehow screwing with my screwing.
  4. It doesn't help that for so many couples the wife has looked after herself but the husband has not. It would seem that there is far less pressure on men in general to look after them selves and stay in shape once they are married and have a family. Maybe some of the hot wives need to offer their husbands some guidance or point out to them that they are not in fact "all that" even though they get to sleep with a very attractive woman every night. I spend a lot of time at the gym keeping in shape and when we go to our favourite club I have no problems finding a playmate, I intend to stay in good shape as long as I can and I hope it continues to pay off.
  5. There is a good chance no one here has a really bad outed story, Because if you were outed and it did not end well you probably would duck for cover and become less active in the lifestyle. I have been thinking about this and as much as it would not bother me if everyone knew what we got up to, I have a wife who would be horrified if her friends found out. We also have children who are almost teenagers and it could affect them as well. So we will continue to have our dirty little secret.
  6. We keep our online profiles very private because we do not want family or friends to know what we get up to. But I recently came across the profile of a couple I know, I messaged them to let them know I had recognized them and what they needed to change to remain anonymous. We are now having dinner with them tomorrow night, I may be back here soon with an outed story.
  7. I'm still monogamous, I only sleep with one person at at time. My wife on the other hand... No, we were not sad to end the monogamy, variety is the spice of life.
  8. The fact my wife genuinely loves doing it makes it so much better. If she plays with herself while giving me a bj she will cum before me, and feeling her moaning on me feels incredible. She also likes to show off, so it often finished in a rather messy fashion.
  9. Definitely makes us hornier. After our last club visit we both wanted it when we got back to our hotel room at 3 a.m. then again at 7:30 a.m. when I had to get up. Normally I can't perform when I am really tired, swinging fixes that for at least 48 hours.
  10. I am short sighted but can see well enough to not need glasses during, but I do wear them up until we get to bed. They are just too annoying and slip down my face when I start getting vigorous. I might have to get some disposable contacts for future parties.
  11. Hearing a woman moaning and shouting "don't stop" is always an ego booster.
  12. We both prefer inside of her, either mouth or pussy. Sometimes I will give my wife a facial but I don't cum huge volume's. With playmates we use condoms but she prefers to have them cum in her mouth. I will cum where ever my playmate wants it.
  13. I never intended to come across as having "monogamy envy". In fact I considered myself non monogamous until reading that article. Then I formed a different opinion, Monogamy is defined by the boundaries of your relationship and your own personal definition of the word not necessarily what the dictionary defines it as being.
  14. I have been reading an article based on a survey that asked swingers if they thought were monogamous. At first I thought it was a silly question as swingers by definition are having sex with people outside of their relationship. But the more I thought about it the more it thought that maybe a swinging relationship is still monogamous. My reasoning is that you are still in a relationship with one person, and as a swinger you have a very different point of view on sex and what it means emotionally. As a successful swinger you have to be able to separate sex from emotion and attachment, having sex with someone at a club is purely a physical interaction similar to a vanilla friend giving you a hug or a kiss on the cheek, well maybe it's not that simple but close. Our relationship is based on an emotional level and we don't share that with anyone else, if we did we would then be in a poly relationship. So does anyone else share this opinion or am I slightly crazy for thinking that even though I have sex with others I am still in a monogamous relationship? after all it is only a physical interaction with another person. Maybe we should be classed as social monogamy not sexual monogamy.
  15. I don't wear mine at work for safety reasons but I wear it when we go out and during play. Mine is a cheap stainless ring that is great for opening bottles so it as a second purpose.
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