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Lava&Spike

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About Lava&Spike

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  • Birthday 09/06/1963

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    Colorado
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    Lava&spike

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  1. I would say this is a very personal decision. It is what is inside you that makes you a truly magnificent person. If you are looking at health issues and future health issues than good on you. Those who love you and are truly your friends will support you.
  2. Told me about a threesome she had prior to our meeting. The thought has just kept me wanting to have her do it again. Only with me there. We are working on it!
  3. Thanks folks! Mrs. Spike here. You have made me see the light. He is a good friend of mine and my husband and I have discussed this at great length at this point. My husband let me know that if his wife was not on board that he would not support this. Additionally, he is apprehensive about doing anything with a friend that we don't know if they (as in both of them) are in the lifestyle. We are new to this but want to get off to a good start. I just want to feel safe about what we do and with whom we do it. I feel VERY safe with my friend but see the points all of you have made. Thank you! We will try going to our local club and see what happens. Thanks again. Glad he posted this!
  4. Great advice from both of you! This is exactly what I think. I will show her this post.
  5. Wife and I are about to have our first experience. She has a friend that we both know and trust. There is attraction there and she is willing to "put her toe in the water" in the form of a threesome with this guy. She wants to have a first experience go well. We have talked about taking the plunge extensively and we feel we are ready. The only points of hesitation are the fact we do not want to ruin a friendship and his wife does not know. We don't want to be part of ruining a marriage. However, he has stepped out on his wife in the past and is willing to play with us. Do any of you have experiences or advice on this?
  6. First wife was VERY inexperienced when we married That was a disaster. The sex was horrible for 14 years. Met and married my current wife who was a sexual free spirit and life has never been better (in and out of the bedroom).
  7. You really don't know until you get there. Sometimes the one who is most enthralled and adventurous will be the party who is awkward the next day. And the one who was hesitant is now all for it. Communication is key. Just keep talking. Talk before during and after
  8. First any polite man will let her know he is coming. Second, both of you should discuss in advance preferences. Not a deal breaker at all for me. Most of the time I do not cum in a partners mouth unless she specifies that is what she wants. My wife only allows me to cum in her mouth. That is just our rule.
  9. Mr. is retired military now Teacher/coach Mrs. is a Graphic designer
  10. Genital pics are a turn off for us. We want to know more about you than just your junk.
  11. For me Gwen Stefani, Kathryn Heigel, Katy Perry….. For Mrs. Spike: Jon Bonjovi
  12. It is not an issue.... Its is about more than your tats. It is about the rest of you!
  13. Right after I was divorced I had sex with a barber in a small shop on a military installation. The fun took place in the barber's chair. My wife (true life partner) has more experience laughs when I say she had some great experiences. She loves this one.
  14. MY wife is like you. She prefers I cum on her belly for the same reasons. As far as I am concerned I am happy to do as she pleases. I am very well taken care of and her preferences are important to me. She sometimes feels guilty that I always cum outside. When I want to cum inside her I just wear a condom. No problem...
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