bigdandlola12

Wow how bad is this ...we've only been in this for 6mths and have met or seen just about everyone of them...sigh..roflol...omg this is an awesome thread!!

The Stage 5 clinger Couple.... The couple that sign up for every party that you are going to so they can poss have the chance of hooking up....even when you have repeatedly told them your not interested!!! lol...

OMG I sooo know a couple like that!!!

This also adds The Swinger Snob The swingers who when you meet online and chat and when you realize its not gonna be a match, see you at a club with another couple you came with and are rude and hardly acknowledge you exist. Even though her spouse was into you..lol.. At least people if your not a match....you can be nice to everyone!!

Here are some of our rules... 1. No taking one for the team! 2. No Anal (thats just for us) 3. No means NO! 4. Same Room, NO EXCEPTIONS!! 5. Last but not least...and I know there are some debates on this one....NO KISSING on the LIPS (FACE) ...Anywhere else is fine. *on the last one...before I get bashed....let me explain, not that i really need too but....recently we had a threesome where BIGD was kissing the other woman passionately...I was not ok...but he went down on her, he had sex with her and I was??? so that led me to realize that kissing btwn me and BIGD is something that i find sensual and erotic. I can't explain that part but that's a big part of our connection. As long as we both can kiss anywhere else...neck, shoulders, breasts... its still good...you can still kiss and be sensual without making out! Since we are still sort of new, it might change down the road, who knows.

Big D 35 Me 39 Big D and I have been together 6mths...the happiest i've ever been in my life ...

I think so, BigD and I met a couple on SLS and went for drinks at applebees. It wasn't a horrible time but we didn't click. So we said our byes and that was it. It did feel weird, but not everyone is gonna wanna hook up. You cant take it personally!

Tell him how u are feeling. He probably doesn't even realize those times he talks about her breasts bother you. Sometimes men think we are ok since the encounter so if they talk about stuff and it bothers her, she would tell me right? My hubby after our threesome told me some stuff and it bothered me to hear it, but i got over it So continue with the open lines of communication and good luck...

Well said Desdemona1980. Our first experience we expected it to be an awesome place. The website was fabulous and we were excited. The cost was a bit much but we were wanting to have a good time. We got there and it was nothing like the website said. We did nothing paid 60.00 and walked out in 30min. Even though we literally did nothing we still feel like we were F****d. Then just recently we went to a club in Tampa (eyzwide). We went there with no expectation and it was by far the best time we have had in a club scene. We fit in and felt very welcomed. Have fun...

Pat and I have been in the lifestyle for about 6 mths....still going strong but it has had its ups and downs. Good Communication seems to be the key to making it work. We look at it as being in it together..."us" as opposed to him and me. We play together and only together...never separate...So far its working for us...