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  • Birthday 08/13/1962

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    Couple
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    Ottawa Ontario
  • Occupation
    Having Fun Specialist
  • Anniversary
    07/04/1980

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    funlovincpl80

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  1. We think that it should be a natural that this would excite you and you comfortable with it and even encourage it, that is if you are totally secure in you relationship and with swinging. If you are completely confident that your relationship is secure and you can wrap your mind around this (she will love you even more because of the total trust that she knows you have in her), then you will feel totally comfortable which then allows you to reach that exhilarating high of lustful feeling knowing that she is out there not just being fucked or made love to, but knowing that right now she is so totally blowing some lucky guy's mind. You know what she does for you, you can almost feel that in your groin, and you know that her playmate is having a good time and is going go home with such hot memories. When my hottie comes home freshly fucked, she wants more, she is wet with excitement, and if after play with a few select gentlemen, will be wet with a creamy filling, it is so good to get her when she is all fired up on this sexual high. So yes it is good and normal for you to be excited knowing that your special lady is out having a good time.
  2. We both have hall passes although I have yet to use mine (I have interest/desire to do so but I work very long hours which limits my time and energy for play), but when I come home from work and my wife is freshly fucked, I do find the energy to thoroughly enjoy her...lol Often when my wife is out on a play date, or as is more often the case "in on a playdate" with the fella being at our house, I am at work and not thinking about her having this date but definitely when my mind wanders to her being on a date I am excited for her and then think "mmmm, she should be having a good time". We are both very comfortable with this with absolutely no jealousy or uneasiness.......I don't want my work demands which limit my time for couple swapping to limit these sweet pleasure in life, and therefore I totally embrace her being out playing. In fact we have recently taken this to a new level as tonight I am picking her up at the airport upon her return from a week at Hedo. I eagerly read her e-mail each morning of her fun of the day before...we will have fun tonight!!!!!!! Often when she is playing at home, when her playmate leaves, she will call me at work luring me home.... when I come through the door my sweetie will always have some sexy number on and her hair will be a bit tousled, there is a smile on her face and a sparkle in her eyes that all makes me lust for her......life is good, enjoy it and embrace the awesome pleasures. mmmmmm.
  3. We both have hall passes. We definitely enjoy playing together as a couple both in the same room or separate rooms. However I have a very demanding job, working 70 - 90 hours a week whiih significantly limits my play time and energy for play. There are numerous ladies that I could play with seperately but I have not yet used my hall pass although I know that my wife is 100% cool with me using it. I enjoy and am pleased that my wife does use hers frequently and not miss out on this in her life....I would feel guilty that my work demands would so short change her if she did not have this hall pass. We enjoy sharing the details of her play. Mrs. funlovin never hides what she is doing, I may not always know in advance of play, but I ultimately always know of the play.
  4. If we are playing same room we play in our bedroom - king size bed makes for more play area. If we are playing separately, one of us picks a spare bedroom. When we host parties we also offer our bedroom as an option for playing - again because of the king size bed. Like OCC we have hosted couples who have fallen asleep with us...always fun and cozy!
  5. We have hosted several successful house parties. We agree with all of the previous posters. Here are some of our preparation and planning tools. Clean, clean, clean - we make our house spotless. If the environment is clean I think that people are extra cautious to keep it that way. We stock each 'play station' with a mattress or air mattress made up with clean sheets and pillows. We supply a basket of absorbent towels and a laundry basket, muted lighting, a box of tissues, condoms, lube and a waste basket lined with plastic bag. Each bathroom/powder room has a stack of washclothes and a basket to put the soiled ones in. We also stock each bathroom with disposable wipes. We decorate the house in theme. Usually play some ice breaker games - 1 - 2 depending on the group. Our parties are BYOB and a food item. We have hosted potluck dinners and parties that are munchies only. We invite people we know but those couples can suggest someone they know to be invited. We put a ceiling on the number of invites and stick to it. We do not have a problem with 'no shows'. Every party we have hosted the folks that have said they are coming show up. It is a lot of work but we always have such a wonderful time. I keep notes from one party to the next to make sure that they just keep getting better and better - we've been told by our guests that it is working!!!
  6. We met a couple at a club. We flirted, danced and had a great evening but Mrs Funlovin wasn't quite sure (or ready) for a swap. At the end of the evening we exchanged emails and phone numbers. The following week the couple invited us for dinner at their place. We went for dinner, all went well but best of all was the evenings 'dessert'. Our first swap was everything we had hoped for and we are still friends with that couple to this day.
  7. Scars are the trophies of life. Scars represent battles won and progress made - nothing to be ashamed of or feared of turn off.
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