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stcharles

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About stcharles

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 01/29/1975

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    M. Male
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    USA
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  1. Cheating is subjective but that aside I wasn't asking for a moral judgment on my relationship with my wife here so much as asking about my relationship with this other couple, signs that they may be giving off about wanting to play, etc. This thread has turned into a potential cheaters bash-fest! If I just wanted to cheat, I could have done so many times since we've been together. That's not what this is!! I just wanna play with this couple from time to time, if they're game that is. It's just sex - nothing more. I'm not looking to cheat on an emotional, romantic level. Also, I find it a bit ironic that a group of people most of whom lie about their true selves to satisfy their sexual needs and to maintain protection from potentially judgmental communities would judge me for merely contemplating having a threesome to satisfy my sexual needs without informing my immediate community (i.e. my wife) - that's just hypocritical imho Focus, people
  2. Ok, enough with the judgments already! If I'd wanted fire & brimstone, I'd have gone to church, not to a swingers discussion board Now, back to the business at hand, I'm considering a few different methods of approaching this couple to find out if they "play" with others: 1) next time we're all together and drinking, pull the husband aside and ask if they've seen the live sex show yet, and go from there. 2) when we're alone together, ask the same thing of the wife. They're the kind who would likely ask me if I (or our couple) would like to go with them. I could say that it's not my wife's thing (and it's not), and then their reaction to the three of us going together might be indicative of their inclinations towards to three of us having our own live sex show Any non-judgmental thoughts??
  3. My wife is well aware of my past experiences with threesomes but has never judged me even though she never played. I have told her of my fantasies and that I'd be happy to share her with other guys in 3sums/swinging. She entertained the idea but decided it wasn't for her. She's old school. During sex she will humor me, however, with dirty talk about wanting two dicks, etc. and will allow me to penetrate her ass with my fingers while screwing her from behind, maybe a little mfm porn - but that's about as far as she seems willing to go. I'm sure she's attracted to the other male in this situation - he's cool and clean, good-looking and well built - but I doubt that will matter to her. I'm extremely attracted to my female coworker and I think she's attracted to me too. Last week we spoke on the phone one night for almost 2 hours. We click but more like friends who could have benefits, not romantic love. Anyway, I fantasize about her often. In fact, if they are swingers and possibly reading this, just let me know that you read this and want to play. In private...simply say "we'd like to play" in person or via email/facebook Thanks for the advice y'all
  4. I'm new here but not completely new to the lifestyle. As a young, single male I participated in several mfm threesomes - they're my favorite, my fetish, because I love hot women who want and can handle more than one cock at a time Anyway, I'm now happily married but my wife isn't open to the lifestyle Over the past year, I've become very close with a married female coworker but we've never been intimate. She's stunning, fun to be around, a confidant, etc... My wife and I have had her and her husband over to our home on multiple occasions for parties... her husband is very touchy-feely with my wife, when drinking he also talks openly about sexual topics (like wanting to attend a live sex show) and his wife mentions that he's open-minded regarding sex - one time she even told me how he shows her porn. She's always coming to me at work to talk in private, getting close, touching me, bending over to show off her tits and ass... you could cut the sexual tension between us with a knife. So my questions here are: 1) are they swingers trying to let us/me know? 2) if they are and game and since my wife isn't into the lifestyle, would it be okay to engage in a threesome with them just for fun? In order to be sexually satisfied, I feel like I need to let my freak flag fly again Any help/advise would be greatly appreciated Thanks!
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