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Hotgenie

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About Hotgenie

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 01/01/1981

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    Single female
  • Location
    Australia
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  1. Just an update here. I decided that the general viewpoint shared on this board was right and so decided not to go to the local club as it puts people in an unfair situation. What we did decide to do was join an online site and look for couples that way, while being honest about our situation. That way, we give people the choice to decline upfront and make their own decisions based upon their full knowledge of our situation. Surprisingly to me, we are currently chatting with 4 other couples, none of whom have stated they would be unwilling to play with us because of our situation. Yesterday, we met with one of the couples and so I had my first swinging experience, which did not go as I expected but still was fun. So I just wanted to thank u all for your opinions as it has been helpful in cementing my decision to be honest with people so they can choose their own response.
  2. Thanks to everyone for your responses. You have all given me a lot to think about. To the people who suggested I attend counseling, I have been seeing one for about a year, and although she has helped me plan how I can leave my husband, I've still not got the courage to actually do it. Maybe someday. Someone suggested I lie at the club and don't say I'm married. Well as insane as this sounds, I don't want to lie to perfect strangers, although I know it is a contradiction considering I lie to my husband regularly. Ive always been such an honest person apart from this that I feel it is totally wrong to bring someone else into this without their informed consent. Not to mention that my husband is incredibly violent and wouldn't hesitate to hurt someone if he found out about us, and it would not be right of me to put a man in that situation without his knowledge.
  3. Hi everyone, I'm new here although I've been reading these boards for about 6 months. Just wanted to get experienced swingers view of my problem, although my post may be a little long, please bear with me Well I've been married 5 yrs but been with him since high school. He was my first boyfriend. We do not have children. Now, I'm not an awful person but I am doing something horrible - I'm cheating on him, totally without his knowledge or consent. I won't go into my many reasons why as no excuse can possibly cover why I am doing this, but I will say I am incredibly unhappy in my marriage and if I was more courageous, I would leave him. Now my boyfriend (for want of a better term) is also married and has a family. Unlike me, he has cheated many times before. He has asked me to go with him to a local swingers group. I am really interested in this, not for him but for me. I want to experience things I haven't been able to before. Before I met him, sex was always painful for me and an orgasm during intercourse was absolutely unheard of. So I want to try it with others. So my question is, would people decide not to play with us because we are doing so without our spouses consent or knowledge??
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