We are so new to this but I will say that we know what to much is. The first couple of months we seemed to be going constantly and there can be to much of a good thing. For us having kids at home still we've learned if we can get 2 dates in a month we're good. We would absolutely love to play more but we just don't have the time and family comes first. Fortunatly we have met a really great group of people that understand our play time is limited and being that we have the youngest kids they can usually work around us. In fact Friday night is our next night out and we're going on a date with a couple that we've met once before in a group setting, can't wait to see how it turns out