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  1. It took convincing, but the Mrs and I have gone to Gunnison a few times and we loved it. She didn't realize that it was about freedom, not sex. It was an enlightening experience! I'm not the only one with a less than perfect body and nobody cares anyway!
  2. In so glad you posted this! I have often wondered how well the implants worked.
  3. I read the first few posts and jumped to the end to reply, so I apologize ahead of time if anything I say it's repetition. Married 26 years (tonight is our anniversary) and haven't had an"O" in over 22 years (and I'm the guy). Please do yourself a huge favor and discuss it with him and, if necessary, with a therapist. I don't think swinging, not swinging or exhibitionism is the answer. You need to discuss things and find out what you need to do in order to feel the one on one connection with him. Denying yourself starts out as discomfort and leads to frustration. Eventually you may end up feeling that you don't matter, or that you don't deserve to enjoy the intimacy. This is dangerous territory. I know first hand. I was made to feel undeserving, and as such I lost the ability to orgasm at all. The Dr's have ruled out medical/physical reasons. We are trying to resolve the emotional issues, but we may have simply waited too long and recovery of the feelings (in my case) may be impossible. Please don't wait! I'm not looking to scare you. I just don't want another person (male our female) to go through what I am going through. We discussed swinging as a last ditch effort to FIX my problem. Don't know if it will work for me because we really aren't doing anything with it. I have to wait on her to decide it's worth (I'm worth?) trying. Talk about it and get what ever help you need. You don't want to suffer through it and you don't want to resent him. All the best, Greg P.S. - Please feel free to ask me anything, publicly or privately!
  4. Comfort and safety are important to the game. Play with whom you will, but just don't be rude to the ones you have no interest in. There was a time where the Mrs liked the guy but neither of us were thrilled by the lady. I went out of my comfort zone to make things good for the Mrs and found that my initial thoughts about the lady were inaccurate. Making things great for the ladies comes first because if she's happy we may play more often.
  5. I have wanted a PA for years, but the Mrs doesn't like the looks of it so it's a no go. But if she ever changes her mind...
  6. Some people just live to gossip. If people question you (which they shouldn't), I would say something along the lines of "you can't believe everything you hear". It's neither a denial or confirmation. Again it's easy for me to say that, as I'm not the one going through it. Wishing you the best.
  7. I'm no expert by any means, but I would assume she at least has a fantasy about it. Having a fantasy and wanting to actually do it can be very different. My best advice is to ask her. If she's watching it sometime you could ask her something like " Do you think that is something you'd like to try?" or even straight out ask if it's fantasy or something she'd hope to try. Reassure her that there is no wrong answer.(and mean it) keep everything judgment free.
  8. Mrs and I are heading out tomorrow in our travel trailer. I don't think we're quite geezers yet. While scoping out a campground we met a couple with the same travel trailer and tow vehicle combination. We exchanged numbers and hope to camp together sometime. Don't know if they're swingers or not. Nice people either way.
  9. It's not painless, but it's worth the pain. I personally would have more than I do but DW is not big on tattoos. On a side note there is a video, on YouTube, of a woman who has orgasms from getting tattooed. If that were me, my tattoos might have tattoos!
  10. Piercings don't bother me either. Maybe it's the artist in me. Years ago there was a swinger couple I knew where she wouldn't do anything with a pierced guy (pierced penis) and one day she did because she really liked the guy. The last time I saw them, she would actually look for the guys that were pierced. She said the sex was 10x better.
  11. I am mega turned on by a woman with tatts. My wife doesn't care for them but wouldn't let that decide anything. I only have one tatt, on my arm, but run a tattoo, piercing and body paint group on Flickr. Tatts are a huge plus for me.
  12. Not to sound like a conspiracy person, but cures for many diseases probably exist already. There is more money to be made in treating illness, than there ever will be curing it. Crazy is more complicated than most people think. ~ Dr. Walter Bishop
  13. I would, simply out of respect for who I would be with. I would check the NIH website to see how prevalent it is, risks and treatability. Just my two cents worth. Crazy is more complicated than most people think. ~ Dr. Walter Bishop
  14. 1) All women are beautiful! 2) Women with glasses are hot! (even nerdy women with nerdy glasses)
  15. I just got my new glasses and my daughter (the fashion expert) asked me who picked out the frames. I told her I did and asked why she asked. She just looked at my wife and said, "You better keep an eye on him! He's getting stylish!" It made me think of this thread immediately.
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