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tree&he

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About tree&he

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  • Birthday 06/25/1974

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    mi
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  1. tried that for a solid week. nope. cold as ice wont talk to me. shes moving out. all those fuckin years and she acts like it meant nothing. im done with this. i didnt know her like i thought i did. our whole marriage was a lie
  2. i dont know. its gone very very bad. i shoulda never considered this for her. maybe she woulda done it anyway. i dont know. taking some time apart so she can think, i guess. she still hasnt actually talked to me. bummer. we'll figure it out either way i guess...looks like i didnt know her like i thought i did
  3. i know we did it wrong . i should have went with her or at least had her come home after.
  4. they were intimate. i gave her my blessing to do so,now she cant face me. she stayed the night with him, she came home the next day a differant person. i love her more than ever. it took me all week to see my wife in her eyes again. she puts up a wall and shuts down her feelings. i thought we were beyond that. i havnt seen it in 10 years. i didnt think we needed that person anymore. i sent her a link to this thread again.
  5. we knew it was a possibility. just not to this extent. she doesnt want to feel like a slut, her words not mine. therefore she has to have feelings i would never think anything of her other than she is perfect. anyone know how to deal with this guilt? tips?
  6. not quite what happend. now she is dealing with massive amounts of guilt. pushing me away. help us deal with the guilt. i sending her a link to this thread again. godamit i was a fool to let her do this. i knew what she needed and wanted her to have it. she said she could seperate her feelings. i keep telling her there is no shame, no guilt for wanting what she wants. but she cant look me in the eyes knowing shes sleeping with someone else. i love her more than ever. there is no anger. no hate. not for either of us. we just need her to get past her guilt.
  7. update.....well, we think she found a single guy. he is totally aware of our situation and expectations. shes been talking to him for about a week. just happened to click with him out of the blue at a vanilla party. we were not really looking. just figured someone would pop up if it was meant to be. seems to be alot like me before i got injured. we talked about it some more agreed they are going to have a "night out" to get to know each other a little better. (dinner and a movie) they are both worried about me and i want her to be able to be herself and have a good time. they have had normal conversations and sexual. lotsa texting. her and i have been reading the texts together i have not seen her like this in a long time. i can tell she has butterflys. its adorable. i am probably as nervous as she is.
  8. the ones that usually bark the loudest about their penis size are usually the smallest acording to my better half
  9. i think her dirty side would take it as an insult if i suggested this. i think she gets a thrill out of the "hunt" she is a major flirt..
  10. i dont think she will have a problem. sex is sex. weve discussed it outside the bedroom and our views match. been married 17 yrs. eventually i probably wont be able to walk. as we talk about it I/we would rather cross the bridge now and deal with any emotional problems we dont forsee PLUS... be able to enjoy with her rather than wait. just for everyones info. ive told her about the board, and about posting. but she hasnt been here yet to read responses. shes also the bread winner while im at home whining about my back
  11. my problems are with my back. ruptured discs. and the medication assosiated with pain manegement, the problem were most afraid of is whomever she invites would want to have a relationship, not really what were after. weve looked on and off for 2 years. we hadnt thought of it but a married man would fit the bill. except we would have to be absolutely certain it would not cause relationship problems on the other end as far as "she would like it" shes always tried to hide her dirty side. only breaks it out on special occasions. LOL in the last 3-4 years its came out more and more. shes getting better with age and im getting worse
  12. Hubby here... I'm just gonna dive right into this. Never discussed it in public before LOL First off, I have no interest in other women. My wife is the center of my universe. We've talked many times about mfm threesomes, we even tried it when we were younger. We both concluded we chose the wrong partner. It turns both of us on, we even talk about it during sex. During these times she orgasms like crazy as do I. Up until the last couple years our sex life has been amazing. Still is, just not as frequent as she would like. I've had medical problems/injuries that hurt us in the bedroom performance area. I want her to be pleased like she should be in the bedroom. She wants to be picked up and put against the wall and pounded. I cannot do that. Her biggest concern about involving another man is that "she will like it" her words. The other problem is finding her a boy toy that she can send away when she's done with him. I fantasize about watching her, and doing her after or even during. We talk openly about it, it is even a playtime foreplay conversation for us Any input from the experts would be appreciated! We'll both be following the thread to see if we're weird or not LOL
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