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candycane3

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About candycane3

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 05/10/1974

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    Ohio
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  1. Lol. Well we showed up and it was just not comfortable from the start. Their photos on their profile were a little dated however they were who they appeared to be. Great people, just not a good scene. Dinner was not private at all. Hard to get to know one another when there are 200 people in an open environment. The mrs. just did not click at all with the mr. and they kept discussing their bad experiences. Our personalities just did not mesh. When we returned, my mrs. just said she was not comfortable and we left. It was a lesson learned and we now know never to put us in that atmosphere again. Therefore, we adopted the rule to never play with anyone on the first meet. Just the expectation and obligation was a let down for all parties. Ended up at a hotel with my mrs. and then a vanilla bar where it is hard to have the kind of fun we enjoy. Overall, a great lesson learned. Again, thanks for all the advice.
  2. Well, it was a bust but wife and I made the best of it as much as we could. We learned a valuable lesson and although it was not a good experience, we have come away from it smarter. Thanks for all the advice.
  3. Well we are headed that way just to see how dinner goes. I am not canceling but I have already told them that if things don't go well, I am going to pull the plug. Live and Learn they say. I will let you know how it goes and sure do appreciate the help.
  4. Yes two, and we now know better for next time to make it a two part deal. Kind of late for that now.....
  5. Well, the more we talk and the closer it gets, the sexual likes and dislikes have spawned off from what we originally were told, well just more in detail I guess. Her wants and desires are far different from what I am even comfortable with and although I am sure I can get around doing some of the stuff she wants done, the attraction has been lost some. I just have some things to ponder and I really need to discuss this in detail with my wife (well I guess I just did since she read it, lol) but I would rather halt things and piss them off than not and piss off myself. I have to live with myself.
  6. Yes, that is a good analogy and advice. I would rather ring the bell than deal with the issue after the fact. I do however hate this OBLIGATED feeling I have since so many plans have been made. The fact we are sharing a two room hotel room might make for a long night however since it is quite far away. I guess I could just get another room if things don't work.
  7. Hi everyone. Semi-Newbie couple here, however been reading this site for a year now. Thought I would ask some advice if possible. Kind of a new couple at swinging, (limited experience, a few full swaps, couples only, etc) and have plans made for this weekend with another couple. Here is the issue. Not sure if we want to play with them or not. We have made and paid for reservations, etc. (rather expensive ones at that) and been talking with this couple a lot. Everything seems to click right now, but for some reason, I (the Mr.) and not feeling too much towards the other (the other Mrs.) but everyone else is. We are meeting for dinner first, but we got a big two room suite and I know after a few drinks anything is bound to happen. My question is, should I even attempt to go when I already have a preconceived bad feeling about this one? or maybe go and tell them at dinner we can do things with our own partners or what? Any advice would be great. I hate to just up an cancel at the last minute because so many plans have been made, but I really don't want to end up taking one for the team. I am sure however my wife would have a great time and I do like the other Mr. personality, (which is rare, as we usually end up with pushy couples) but I am just not feeling it. The closer it gets the more I learn about her, the worse it gets. Anyone ran into this before? Thanks for reading my long question...
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