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Timeforus

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About Timeforus

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 12/31/1963

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    UK
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  1. We are a married couple who have just had a few problems. To make a long story short my wife joined a swingers site without my knowledge... had sex with a man off the site. Forgot her phone so I found out. We are now back together but my wife has made it clear that she wants to swing after this experience. As I have no real knowledge of this I hope you can help clear a few things up... Is this what swinging is, a partner having sex without the others knowledge as my wife claims that this is the swinging lifestyle? I disagreed but she told me I know nothing Is it normal for one or both of a swinging couple to be married to another person who is unaware? Is it accepted as normal when a couple meets either a girl or man for a FFM or MMF that the single person could be married and there without their spouse's knowledge and this is OK? Sorry for those questions but my wife is convinced that this is how swinging works. We tried to discuss rules in an encounter and have hit a big problem. Are there any sort of standard rules for married couples to follow in their adventures or a guide or really any help? lol I suggested that kissing may be a problem for me and my wife stated she had to kiss... but there was to be no stroking or touching hair... and no fondling but for breasts. I then made idiotic comment that would it be ok to lick sweat off my partner's body after riding me and ended up being shouted at as I had never done that with my wife and obviously I shouldn't do anything when swinging I had not already done with her. So at this we are no nearer resolving anything so really hope you guys can help. I guess I should mention I have concerns about this lifestyle but can accept the change. My wife was previously very jealous and would never have considered it. Another concern of mine in this being my wife wants to get to know the couple well, wine and dine good friends first, which seems to me to be more than recreational fun. Now we just argue all the time about the fact I know nothing about swinging as she has talked to loads of people on the site she was on. (Fabswingers) Thanks to all those that help.
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