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About Dancing2Some

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  • Birthday 09/01/1967

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Reno,NV
  • Swinging Experience
    7 years
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

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  • SLS Name
    Dancing2Some
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Dilligas Saloon

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  1. LOL, I must be lucky, as hubby gives me both! But for the record, I'll take the talented tongue over the louisville slugger anyday. I'm thinking many girls would agree with me, or there wouldn't be so many of us that like girl play,lol. HWP!!!! Let's forget that I've seen those three letters to describe everything in body shape from crack-ho to humpty dumpty, if you're super fit and want others just like you, just say it like that. Otherwise I might assume you're looking for, Hot White Protestants, Huge Wide Pricks or maybe even Hung Wet Ponies.
  2. We've found that meeting couples via the internet alone is more difficult than it needs to be. Since our chosen means of meeting others these days is face to face through a local club, or various lifestyle events, pics are slightly less important to us. Not to say that we'd ever "plan" to meet others at the club without seeing something first, we wouldn't. It's hard enough to connect with others that are on the same level personality wise, so let's just get be sure there's a physical interest before we look for more. We can't imagine having to go back to the blind internet dating stage at this point, but can really relate to those who must do that because of a lack of lifestyle venues nearby. When we lived in a small town back east, we played the blind date scene, and it grew to be frustrating in having to deal with so many flakes, fakes and wannabees. In our opinion to try and do that without any pictures in your profile would just further stack the odds against you in finding any suitable playmates. Like others have said, you have total control over what you choose to show as public on sls. For instance, we've personally elected to blur our faces in our public album, and have arranged our pic order so the first 5 shots are private. This keeps free members from viewing them, or used to anyway, as when they open a profile they can only see the first five pics. We've nothing against free members, and happily open our pics if they e-mail us, but it helps keep the lookiloos, who set up a free membership just to see if they recognize anyone they know. It's helped tremendously to weed out the BS e-mails and chat invites too. Additionally, we only open our private pics to those we already know or actually have planned to meet.
  3. We dislike very sparse profiles. It's ok to have a short profile as long as it has some real content, but the profiles that have two or three sentences per category, we tend to breeze by. We just feel that your profile should represent who you are, and if it lacks any kind of creativity, intrigue or entertainment value, then for us it would probably make for a less than exciting first meeting. Usually these profiles announce themselves with the same tired, or long expired tagline too. Our profile is a little wordy, but we try and keep it somewhat fun spirited and entertaining Ages? We think they should honestly represent reality. The same with weights, though in all honesty we can understand why some leave the weights blank. In our cases, we removed weight a couple of months ago when we both decided to undergo some lifestyle changes (no, not this lifestyle). It's true, we let life's comforts sneak up on us the past few years. It just didn't make sense to have to keep changing these numbers every few weeks as we shed a little extra weight. We just figure that we have plenty of pics and are always adding more, and since we don't use the websites to arrange blind dates anymore, but rather find others that attend the same lifestyle bar and swinger events that we do, it was somewhat a mute point.
  4. For me it's all about the total experience and not just penetration. If a partner gives good oral, I've usually reached an orgasm or three before it ever goes further.
  5. We're experienced. We've been in the lifestyle for 8 years now. We're not what I'd call "hardcore" as we know people that have been in it far less time, with many more experiences. We started attending club parties when we lived back in NY, and when we moved to NV four years ago, just found new clubs and events. We're regulars at a local swingers bar here in Reno, and also attend an annual swingers couples campout that typically sees 60 or so happy, naked couples. We also are becoming somewhat regular adventurers to Hedo, with our third trip a few months away.
  6. You'll absolutely fit in! We've been twice so far, the last time was just this past Halloween & 30th Anniversary, and are already planning a return trip for this April. We've never been to any resort that was so welcoming to everyone!
  7. Like others said, it depends on the circumstances and environment. Sometimes it can be hot thinking that my actions are causing this. However, don't invade our personal space without being invited.
  8. No double standard here either. We choose not to play with "singles" that we know to be cheating. Part of it may be self preservation as we have no desire to get drawn into any kind of drama they may result when a cheating spouse is eventually outed. The other is, like someone said, we're open-minded enough to call ourselves lifestylers, and cheating just goes against everything the lifestyle is about. We just can't help but feel sad for the spouse that doesn't know, male or female.
  9. We occasionally play with single men, and single women too We don't entertain the notion of meeting singles via the internet though. We respond to e-mail from singles simply by telling them what club we go to,and if we should meet them there one night, we'd be happy to chat with them.
  10. We've used CL to sell and have even looked at the personals from time to time. Something about hooking up that way would make me feel a little bit skeezy though. Don't know why, but it just would. Of course all of our meets these days are face to face at a local club and not through on-line connections, so that has much to do with it I'm sure. I suppose if you don't have a local club available to you, it's just another option, though I'd put more faith into sites like sls myself.
  11. First post from new board members... Our "standard disclaimers list" from our own SLS profile ............................................................................................................ No humping, No pushing, No sniffing heinys No bathroom activities; ok,maybe a shared shower,but nothing yucky No drugs, gerbils or other small herbivores, especially in combination. Gerbils are not nearly as mellow as you would think when they are stoned. No rough stuff.(While we may tolerate the occasional wet willy; tittie-twisters, purple-nurples, noogies and charlie horses are absolutely out) Don't expect her to swallow, You wouldn't swallow a strangers manchowder, would you? Of course if you do, there's more than enough to go around. Be courteous, the time to announce that you're going to cum, is not after the eruption. Trust me, she won't leave you hanging, she just prefers to "call the shots". No anal, that's reserved for us,so when it comes to DP,he gets the back door. Of course with all of these extra orifices,we're sure we can work out something that's beneficial for all. Before you jump to any conclusions, no he doesn't play "catcher" in the game of heiny-sex either. We'll consider waving the "no-anal clause" if you're man enough to be the recipient of her brand new strap-on, but remember....you first. Single guys, Well-hung is nice, and looks especially cool in the pictures, but remember even the hardest of wood splits when you try and force too large a drill bit into it. Tight grain here, so the finesse of a fly fisherman is required if you're packing a huge rod. Remember, the esophagus may go all the way to the stomach, but inducing the lady's gag reflex, is not a surefire way to be invited back! Single guys, You're responsible to bring the towel. It's your mess, you should wipe it up. Single women, we'll provide the towels, however, if you're a squirter, as she does on occasion, please give us advance warning, and we'll make it a beach towel. Ladies, the male half (the funny one, as opposed to the hottie) is obsessed with performing oral on hot females, actually quite good too (president of college Muff-Diving Team), so if you're not into receiving oral, please bring a deck of cards so we'll have something to do. Yes the "wedding tackle" gets plenty hard and is entirely rideable, just prefer to "lick it before you stick it"! Squeaky clean only; should we really have to mention this? Doesn't everyone shower and brush their teeth before going out? If you don't, please sit downwind from us and not waste your time creating small talk with us. Same room always, same bed usually
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