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VanessaV

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  1. Thank you for your replies!! They are really very helpful and I totally take them into account For the hills is right where I'm heading!!!! V
  2. Also, the issue about the yeast infections and bacterial vaginosis is very interesting and that I really had no idea about. All those add up to the weight of the "bareback exclusive" argument. Those things, even when not serious illnesses, are something really uncomfortable and not nice to deal with (specially the vaginosis :S )
  3. Hello! Thank you for all your replies Yes, you are right, the fact of him not being upfront since the beginning and his totally wrong attitude is a complete deal breaker. This teaches that in future, things must always be clear since the beginning and yes, assume that if a man is willing to go bareback with me, most likely he is doing the same with others. True, there are bigger assholes out there, but the level of 'assholedness' of this one is enough for me to run... ahh well... everyday we get a new lesson I guess
  4. Chicup, if it is possible for you to get into the long biological explanation about that, or if you could tell me where to find it, it would be very much appreciated Thank you!!
  5. Thank you for your responses They have helped me seeing the situation much more clearly Yeah... seems that I must definitely say good bye to this guy... Too bad.. I really liked him.. but yeah, I am totally disappointed and discouraged about him with his attitude. He is showing that he only cares about having things done his way and not a bit about me... (or.. anyone actually). That sucks.
  6. Hello again all and thank you for your inputs Well, things just got more... interesting.. to call them that way... I talked to him and told him that honestly I was not very comfortable with the idea, so we would have to go with latex only since he doesn't bareback exclusively with me. He got soooo pissed off!! He started telling me things such as, it's not fair that I am changing things now, that we were having something so good and that he doesn't want to go back to latex because he feels that I am 'downgrading' him... that he loves feeling me skin to skin and we have such a great thing together and now with my issues I am ruining everything, that he cares a lot about me and that makes him feel very bad that I treat him that way. That he is not someone who goes and fucks anyone like that and etc etc... o.O You see.. he just won't stop 'barebacking' with those other girls.. specially with one of them because now I learned that she is a former/current girlfriend with whom he breaks up and comes back in a regular basis I guess... and that now they are on the pre-come back phase.. (??????), oh and who, of course, has no idea that he swings.. (even more ??????) So, supposedly, now he is incredibly offended and mad at me because of my 'latex' demands... Wow, was it really such a huge offense to tell him that I don't want to bareback with him anymore?? Is he just the biggest asshole I could have run into?? Please! give me your opinions!! Thank you V.
  7. Well, the situation now involves a guy I have been seeing from few months back. He is in the lifestyle (actually there is where I met him) Ok, to make the story short, at parties and with couples, etc. he always uses latex. However, since some time ago we developed a certain level of comfort with each other, so I accepted going bareback with him. I actually thought he was doing it like that only with me at the moment, but I just came to know that he also goes condomless with other 2 girls... 'of his complete trust' as he says... Honestly, I am not happy at all with the idea of going condomless with someone who also goes condomless with other people.. so I told him I would not go without latex with him anymore.. which made him really upset. What I want to ask is... am I overreacting? Should I be OK with continuing without latex because 'hey, I did it already, right?'... Am I wrong for feeling this way? Is my point of not wanting to bareback with him anymore valid or I am being too 'fussy'? The truth is that I am really confused here... Thank you for reading my post and I will appreciate all of your inputs. V.
  8. Hello all! thank you all for your responses Well, I tried to speak about it with him and solve it through talking, however his attitude always remained as "hey, why are you still nagging about this? I would never say anything about something you did" ¬¬ aand... still he didn't go down on me... and he was also getting some attitudes I didn't like (he did everything he could to show me he didn't really care about me) so, as someone here very wisely said.... maybe it´s time to get stolen from him... and so I did, I got totally stolen from him. and.. really happy I did actually Well, that is the update. Sorry for taking so long in replying guys. Thank you and take care
  9. Thank you all for your responses I guess what I should do is speak openly to him about it and see what it comes from there..
  10. Yeah, I have thought about that, and as far as I have checked (and trust me, I have checked) I don't detect any strange or foul smell... also, the guys we have interacted with gave oral to me with no issue, and even one of them stayed there for long time, so... I am assuming the smell is not the issue..
  11. yeah.. it does sound quite self-serving I must say... well, I guess I should speak openly about that with him to find out really what is the issue, maybe change some terms in the relationship.. I am not sure..
  12. Hello! Thank you for your responses Well, to be honest.. I didn't ask him directly, I brought the subject once when we were already arguing, and he said that he just felt like doing it at that moment, that some times he has done like that but then he said that we should not be reproaching what each other does, that he would never criticize or tell me anything about what I decide to do with other men we meet for swinging or threesomes, etc. Obviously, I am still bugged..
  13. Hello everyone! I am new at this forum, but I've spent some time reading posts and I am very glad to see that I have found a very warm and supportive community I have a doubt over here.. I hope I am posting on the correct category. To give some background... my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now, and we started swinging about two months ago.. It was something I was curious in doing and he already had some experience with threesomes and such, so we agreed on trying doing it together. So far we have met one couple, and also we made a threesome with another guy. Generally I have liked the experiences, however, there is one thing that bugged me... My boyfriend has never given oral sex to me, and the time I asked him to do it, he said that it is not something he really likes so I did not want to push him.. I would't like to be pushed to do something I don't like, so I did not put any pressure on the subject. The thing is that, when we went with the couple I mentioned, he gave oral sex to the other girl almost immediately without any problem, so I was like Honestly, I felt bad, because something he has refused to do with me, he could do with absolutely no issue with any other girl. Am I making too much of a problem about this? Is this something that regularly happens? Am I wrong for feeling maybe jealous or for reproaching him for any of this? I am sorry if my question is too silly... I guess this is still very new for me so I am not sure how I should feel or act. Thank you!
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