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ihavesecrets

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About ihavesecrets

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 07/20/1983

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  • Relationship Status
    single male
  • Location
    Indiana
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. must of been painful pulling him into a brush
  2. shes now admitted it would be a turn on in theory. but that the idea of a girl turns her on more
  3. We have talked about it in a very coy way, more so from her part. She has a very good upbringing and has deep morals. What is important to remember is, this isn't my wife we have been together about a year. I do love her, but my ongoing unfulfilled fantasies have gone from relationship to relationship... always leaving me the desire for it to be fulfilled. I personally think despite it being a year its too soon to talk about it... perhaps ever with this girl. I've managed to talk and fantasise about the scenario with other girls. But this particular girl I don't really think she would ever go through with this, ever.
  4. I'm torn between telling her and risking losing her or telling her because ultimately I feel it's something I need to try before I die and if it's not with her then it has to be with someone else.
  5. My relationship status there says I am a single male, I'm not. I'm also not on these boards to find sex outside my relationship without my partners consent, that's not what I want. What I am looking for is advice on how to tell someone you love that you have the desire to swing. I'm a good looking male and I've had many good looking partners but I've always had this burning desire to watch my partners sleep with other men. I know its a common fantasy as I read about it a lot and I know I'm not alone. With the huge majority of girlfriends I've kept the fantasy a total secret for fear of being made to feel weird. The ones who I have gently suggested it to in the past have looked at me in sheer disgust when I even mentioned the possibility that I may not mind it so much. I wouldn't want my partner to do anything she didnt enjoy, but at the same no matter how I look at it I cant see what im offering as anything but a golden ticket. All I want is to be involved in passionate threesomes with the woman I love and for her pleasure to be maximised. I'm entirely straight too by the way. The fantasy for me is all about basically seeing my partner fulfilled. This fantasy has gone on for so many years and been deep routed with every partner Ive had, its like my fantasy NEEDS to be fulfilled to the point where I think I need to be with someone who would want to do this. But how would you meet someone you felt comfortable enough to tell them this? I cant even approach the subject with my current partner I can almost guarantee she would be outraged. Help and advice is greatly appreciated.
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