We have talked about it in a very coy way, more so from her part. She has a very good upbringing and has deep morals. What is important to remember is, this isn't my wife we have been together about a year. I do love her, but my ongoing unfulfilled fantasies have gone from relationship to relationship... always leaving me the desire for it to be fulfilled.
I personally think despite it being a year its too soon to talk about it... perhaps ever with this girl. I've managed to talk and fantasise about the scenario with other girls. But this particular girl I don't really think she would ever go through with this, ever.