This is the Mrs here. As a newbie I'd prefer being with another newbie. I like being the slightly more experienced one leading people into temptation. I feel like I might be too tame for a veteran. I'm afraid they'd get bored and think, " wow- it's our third date and we still haven't sealed the deal on a full swing, DP, MFMMFFM, oral, anal, bondage, orgy- fest? Too tame for me!". While I know all vets aren't like that, it's like taking someone skiing for the first time. How much fun are you going to have with them on the bunny hill if you are used to the black diamond?
The Mr agrees ( did I tell you he was not just handsome but extremely smart?) and also added that the stuff we consider extreme would be very tame to others. For example- when a girlfriend of mine and I decided one night around the campfire to take a topless ATV ride, both the Mr and her husband were through the roof excited. (imagine cartoon wolf with eyes popping out and steam coming out of his head) To a veteran, this may have been disappointing because this is how it ended. This is a vanilla couple (so I've always thought but I'm thinking differently now) and it always seems like I'm corrupting with my sexy evil ways. That is much more appealing to me than to feel like I'm the naive one.