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  1. Can't comment on Hedo, but I know Temptation and Desire well. Temptation Cancun is a ton of fun, but it isn't what you would call a lifestyle resort. For sure there are always plenty of lifestyle couples, the resort is lifestyle friendly and you'll almost certainly find what you are looking for but there are also plenty of non lifestylers, some of whom are scared to death of 'swingers'. The emphasis at Temptation is on fun with a sexy vibe rather than out and out sex - lots of alcohol, lots of laughs and did I say fun. Full nudity isnt permitted at Temptation although it will happen in some of the organized games. Topless is fine as are micro bikinis etc. Compared to Temptation Cabo, the resort in Cancun has a much sexier vibe. Temptation has a huge and loyal following, and actually has the highest repeat occupancy rate of any hotel in Cancun. It's the only hotel in Cancun that is so popular with repeaters that it can sustain its own dedicated forum with recent trip reports and to meet other couples staying the same time as you. Link here: Temptation Cancun Forum For Desire Cancun, the first thing you need to know is prices are double that of Temptation around $400 per night as opposed to $200. If price is not an issue then you will find a lot more lifestyle couples there usually. It's a clothing optional resort but this can mean it is popular with nudists (who aren't necessarily in the lifestyle) so it can be hit or miss. There are many lifestyle club takeover weeks, these can often sell out fast so maybe hard to co-ordinate your dates and of course if you're not part of the takeover group you might feel a little out of it. Overall, I would say try Temptation You'll find the fun, sex if you want it and it's not in an isolated part of Cancun so you can enjoy some time out of the resort enjoying the nightlife which you cant do at Desire since it's in the middle of nowhere. If you need any more info about either Temptation or Desire please feel free to PM me, I live in Cancun
  2. We went! I think it's fair to say we have mixed feelings about the whole thing. It wasnt what we expected or had hoped for, but there were some moments that make us think we might give it another go. We planned to have a chat about limits etc over a few pre-game drinks at a local bar beforehand. As it turned out our babysitter was late and we needed to head straight to the party since we didnt want to be the last to arrive and walk into a situation we werent comfortable with. The only rule we came up with was that my wife didnt want me to have sex with the hostess, they've been friends a long time and it didnt seem right to her. Anything else was fair game though but we agreed we needed to constantly feedback to each other throughout the evening. As it turned out we arrived right on time (10pm) but everyone else was late. The hostess was still getting ready, the host wasnt there he was dropping the kids off at the grandmothers but came back before long. Things started slow, it was about an hour before anyone else arrived, we just chatted and drank with the hosts. First to arrive was a guy ® (the hostesses long term fuck buddy). We also know him from social vanilla parties so he was surprised to see us, although we werent that surprised to see him! He showed up without his wife and bought another girl along. Story was his wife was suffering from PMT and didnt want to come, she allowed him to take another girl but this didnt go down well with the hosts who thought the girl he invited was "low class" and they asked her to leave. R took her home and came back on his own. Then another guy arrived solo (H). He too was supposed to be bringing a girl but didnt. So now there are 4 guys and 2 girls. The 2 girls - one is my wife the other is someone I can't get involved with. Not looking great at this point! Another couple then arrived (A and E) they had driven 60 miles to be there, I dont think anyone had met them before. They were a good looking couple. We introduced ourselves, made small talk and seemed to be getting on OK until the lady said "I can tell you two are not swingers, why are you here? Just to watch?" which made us feel awkward and pretty much killed it. This was to be the sum total of people there that night. The single guy H then left, said he was coming back with a girl but didn't. He hadnt spoke to anyone all night and just sat there smoking weed so no loss really imho. Lights were dimmed and we started playing a spin the bottle game, it wasn't hardcore but light hearted fun which we were fine with, kiss someone, do a sexy dance, take off an item of clothing etc. that kind of thing. One of my turns was to tell 'A' a request, I forgot her name and called her "her". She didnt like this and rudely told me I should use her name. Nothing going there I thought. After about 10 rounds the hostess said the game was too boring and "lets get on with it". We were all either naked or down to underwear at this stage. There was a large couch where 3 people were sitting including my wife. I was sat on the opposite side of the table and the couch. What happened next seemed like a free for all, everyone (except me) piled on the couch and there were fingers and tongues going everywhere. I really didnt know what to do, especially given our limits and the cold shoulder by the only girl that I was allowed to be involved with, other than my wife, so I just sat where I was - like a startled rabbit. My wife was already on the same couch naked and was kind of swallowed up by the throng not really wanting to get involved but not wanting to look like a wet blanket and walking away. Someone forcefully put their finger up her ass (I didnt know at the time, still dont know who) and the guy host grabbed her face forcefully and tried to kiss her. She moved away to be with me, we spent some time away from the group together chatting and having a few beers and letting the others get on with it. Things subsided after about 30 mins and the couple that had driven up made excuses and left having been there no longer than 90 minutes total, leaving us once again with 3 guys and 2 girls. A little while later "R" was interested in my wife and started coming on to her - we went with it. My wife gave me a blowjob and he positioned himself at the other end. Although he made all the right noises it seems he was thrusting away between her thighs instead of her pussy so it seemed a little weird to us and she wasnt enjoying it. We (wife and I!) made eye contact several times to see if she was ok, she was. Host guy came up to the MMF and started offering his penis to her in kind of a rude manner (wife was already sucking me and he tried to get some oral action too), it wasn't appreciated nor accepted. Later "R" took my wife over to the couch and fucked her, in the right place this time (with condom). I was keeping an eye on things but didnt get involved. Wife later told me that she didnt really enjoy it and wasnt fucking him back - just going through the motions. At this time, I'm feeling a little left out. Although my wife was right now fucking another guy I'd been told I couldn't do anything with the only other girl there - the hostess. Hostess was with her hubby chatting and drinking and since my wife was otherwise engaged I chatted with them. The hostess spread her legs in front of me and I saw it as an invitation that she wanted some action. I asked permission to go down on her (LOL) and she kind of laughed at me in a way that said "why are you asking - just do it" So I did. We had an oral and fingering session (me on her only) and both enjoyed it. "R" then left and the four of us were on the couch stroking each other (M-F) without sex and chatting for an hour or so. This probably was the only moment I felt like the night was how it should be in terms of intimacy and seduction. My wife and I chatted when we got home and me 'breaking the limits' of our agreement was'nt a problem after all. Kind of disappointed that things seemed so forceful and with a "lets get at it" attitude. There was no chat up, seduction or flirting, which I think is more than half the fun. We will probably give things another go - we were both ok with the other being involved with other people. But I hope it works out better next time.
  3. Thanks everyone for the further replies. We are pretty certain we'll be going, I will report back how it went. Doesn't stop the nerves though. We are both up for trying new things so whatever happens at least we can say we gave it a go and then either pursue the lifestyle further, reserve judgment for another time or quit
  4. Thanks for all the replies. Seems like it is an interesting debate for others too. I'm starting to like the "bi curious" tag. As others have said it's probably not fair to label people with a solid definition - it's too rigid being bisexual or straight. My wife enjoyed her own FMF experience but that certainly doesn't mean female fun will be her priority every time.
  5. I see lots of experienced swinger couples describing their female half as "bicurious". What does this mean in practice? Surely if the lady has had sexual encounters with another woman why are they still curious? They either liked it or not so either bisexual or straight? Hmm, just a newb weighing up whether my wife is bi curious or bisexual
  6. Thanks for the welcome Michael! We did ask the host today about how things would be and were told it will be 4 or 5 couples and "extremely hot" - my wife didnt feel comfortable asking her to elaborate further. They've known each other for several years but it's through our kids going to the same school so not easy to take the conversation up to that level - at least for us. I think their description put us off more than anything. I kind of thought there would be more people (although it's quite a small house). More people = less pressure I suppose. And "extremely hot" well I'm not sure what that exactly means since we've never done anything like this before. Angelkin: thanks for your advice. As it stands at the moment I think we are still going to go. Like you say it may well open up new opportunities, friendships and future invites. We've both already agreed that we need to talk about each others limits although we haven't exactly got them nailed them down yet
  7. My wife and I have been married for 11 years, we have two young kids and it's fair to say our sex life dwindled a little in recent years. A few weeks ago after a rare drunken night out we ended up in a FMF threesome and wow did it add spice to our relationship! The sex during the threesome was just so-so. I was more than happy to watch my wife with another girl for the first time than get heavily involved, but after that we cant stop ourselves having sex. We realized after the threesome that sex with other people is something we want to explore further and wont jeopardize our solid relationship. I feel we are both comfortable with the idea and want to explore further but have no experience other than that previous recent threesome. We have been invited to a house party on Saturday, long story short - the host couple is a good friend of my wife (a very experienced couple and she is extremely hot!). We've known this couple were into the lifestyle for some time but we are both nervous about going. I think our main reasons for being nervous is we have no idea what to expect. We dont know how many people will be there, we don't know how hardcore it will be and whether it might be too much for us. We don't want to embarrass ourselves by not getting involved, but at the same time we dont want to look silly by making excuses and leaving if it's too much for us. As mentioned, the lady half of the couple is so sexy - a definite 9 or 10 and I certainly would! The guy I'm sure is considered handsome by girls. Neither of us are what you would call a 10, we are both reasonably attractive and in decent but not perfect shape but not wow! I'm ten years older than the couple who invited us although my wife is around the same age. A little worried nobody will be interested in us since it seems the couple hang out with only extremely good looking people. I should add that I'm an expat living in a Latin American country and the people there will probably be Spanish speaking. I dont speak much Spanish (although my wife is Latina and fluent) I'm thinking that may well not lead to the best in communication, and possibly lead to misunderstandings. So, our dilemma is do we go along to the party and see what happens or do we make our excuses and perhaps wait for an opportunity that seems more comfortable?
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