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That is actually how hubby and I got into the conversation of the lifestyle. He told me that he'd like to see me with another man, and that turned me on. And then I realized how I would love to see him with another woman. And here we are! We love the lifestyle and everything it has to offer! I love seeing him be pleasured, and he loves seeing me be pleasured as well. How did your girlfriend react to you saying that?

Our first experience, the husband was 50 and the wife was 45. I was only 22, and Jason was 25. I loved it the fact that they were so open, honest and patient with us. We've mostly met up with couples in their 30's. Once with a couple that was a little bit younger than us (huge mistake). Our SLS profile says 18-45..although we would meet up with someone in their early 50's. We actually have a couple that are 60 that keep messaging us on SLS. And it's not really their age, but when looking at their pictures I'm not attracted to him in the least bit. They keep inviting us on their boat or to dinner. And I know sometimes people look better (or worse) in pictures, so I'm entertaining the idea of meeting up for drinks just to see if we all click. We aren't huge on age. As long as we can have a great conversation and we are all mutually attracted to one another, we go for it.

I agree with Powerglide. After reading Lucky's response...please stop swinging, playing solo or anything having to do with sex with anyone other than your spouse. You two need to work on your marriage first.

This is completely unfair for you. If you two are going to be in this lifestyle, you need to have rules and boundaries that are agreed on by the both of you. And if one of you doesn't agree, neither one of you play. Please don't just give her what she wants. This is a recipe for disaster.

I keep mine shaved. I'm thinking about trying a brazilian wax (any stories or advice???). J (the hubby) keeps his either trimmed very short or shaved.

We met accidently. There was a guy who liked me, and I didn't feel the same (plus he was and is still married). He wanted to meet up with me, so I made my best friend go with me. My husband just happened to be with him. We exchanged numbers, and the rest is history! Except I didn't put out for the 6 months that we dated! haha