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pozega28

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About pozega28

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 09/20/1982

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Ohio
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. I do know that he has been with prostitutes when he was younger and before we met. It never bothered me and I have never judged his choices, especially things before we met. So it isn't something that he simply wants to try. I have thought about the possibility of addiction. We have been together for a total of 11 years and what I can't seem to understand is how we went for so long without these issues if he is an addict.
  2. I've asked him about the prostitutes and he said that he likes the idea of a woman who will sleep with anyone. He said he hasn't slept with them, just called to hear what they say. I am trying really hard to trust that but I there are times when I do wonder if that's the truth. He said I am too picky and he would like to see me have sex with someone just for the sex and nothing else. I feel like it's my right to chose my partners and for me attraction is a must. I am never looking for another relationship but there has to be a chemistry, in my opinion.
  3. I am not sure where else to look for advice but I figured someone on here might be able to help. My husband and I are swingers and have been for about 6 years. I love the safe and sexy environment of a swing club and we've had really great experiences over the years. It used to be something that we enjoyed together but recently my husband has become preoccupied with sex. He has begun asking me to engage in what I feel is risky behavior such as requesting that I go alone and try to pick up strange men at bars, truck stops etc. When I tell him that I don't feel comfortable he usually gets angry and refuses to talk to me for days. He spends a majority of his time looking at prostitutes online and I've recently found that he has been calling them too. It is beginning to interfere with his ability to be productive at work and at home too. He has lost interest in having sex with me unless we are swinging or I go out and meet someone to bring home. I'm sexually very open, prefer sex often and we have had many swapping experiences so I am not sure why he would do this. I really love him and want our marriage to work but don't know what to do. I can't talk to my friends or family because they don't know we swing. I was hoping someone might have some insight.
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