darmok

What would you , man or woman, do if you got pregnant or got someone pregnant in a swap scenario? Not all birth control is 100% effective. Also don you think that if this is going to be a long term lifestyle that the man should have a vasectomy? I did and its great What r the opinions out there ?

We don't have a situation yet as we are new and have never swapped before. I was just raising the questions to see if anyone had an answer. As I've said to my wife you can't help who you fall in love with. Maybe if one never starts the swapping they won't have to face the decision.

What im wondering is what happens if your partner and someone else's partner start to have feelings for each other? Should they tell each other or just try to ignore it ? Has it happened to anyone here ?