Emmywammy

I guess I have an absolutely tasteless sense of humor, but the thought of a girl getting pregnant from that puts an extremely hilarious picture in my head. Doctor: "To do the DNA check, we'll need to cross examine the possible fathers. Let's check your file. Ok, let's see, you listed..." *Long pause* "This might take a while."

Swinging is only fun if everyone involved is doing so on their own volition. While I do empathize your feelings, you're ultimately responsible for it culminating to this point. You should never agree to do anything you don't feel comfortable with, regardless of for whom it is for. You need to divulge these feelings to him directly. If he leaves you for not indulging in his fantasies, then the relationship wasn't built on much else. And that's not good for anyone.

Cheating should never even remotely be considered. It's nice that she fascinates you, however, sex is an extremely important aspect of a relationship. Not to sound like Freud, but it's sort of the entire point. Sure, you might be friends. But in the long run, the entire reason you spend so much time together is because one of your chromosomes differ (Unless, of course, you're gay. Then you're attracted to the same sex...due to sexual orientation). People like to give the same advice, "Don't base a relationship entirely around sex", which is advice I would advocate; but by the same token, a relationship without sexual interest isn't a romantic relationship. It's a friendship. Long story short and semantics aside, you need to either divulge your sexual desires and proclivities to her and see how it pans out, or you need to severe the tie. Just speaking for myself here, but if I were to ever contract an STD from my partner due to their sleeping with another person without my knowing, the repercussion would be dire; IE, you'd probably lose your penis.

I agree with the OP. I also notice that open minded individuals in regard to anything, not just sex, seem to be more intelligent than those unwilling to experiment. I've honestly never met a brilliant homophobe. Internet hate-mongers usually seem to be grammatically challenged.

Kind of simplistic, but I have always been fond of the idea of being led into a porn theater on a leash by my significant other and having all the strangers in the venue anal gangbang me and all ejaculate in my ass while my SO films (He has an affinity for watching me with other men). Go figure mine is one of the most outrageously dangerous fantasies concievable, hence its status of fantasy. Fun to think about. Never would I ever.

Definitely cleanse, as previously stated. I find the idea of just diving right in to be repugnant. Shudder.

I've always required a full panel test less than a month old with their real name along with their ID (Seriously) before any activity. Having a rubber barrier between sexual contact makes the experience seem superficial. Plus, I have a thing for cum. Sex with a man wearing a condom is extremely anticlimactic.

Craigslist is a nightmare. A long time ago, I tried to use it to find a single guy for a MFM, and the most sketchy people on the planet replied to my ad. If it wasn't a bot, it was some guy replying with nothing but a picture of his penis and a phone number. I know it's not the classiest thing to look for a sexual partner on CL, but good god, those people have zero tact. And even mentioning an STD test basically halts any further communication. I'd rather go to hell than use that site to find a swinging partner.