Initially I suggested us getting into swinging. We started off slow and then gradually grew until we were completely open. We didn't have many rules except no cumming inside of the one your with (yes we went bareback). Keep in mind my wife has been unable to get pregnant for 9 yrs.
Well she was with a single guy and told him to cum in her breaking our one rule, and she got pregnant and had his child. I tried to deal with it but after 8 months I asked for a divorce and she has told the bio dad and now I'm without a son nor my wife.
Here is the kicker, she has gone back to the church and now is claiming that all of this is my fault because I suggested the LS in the first place and that I defiled the marriage. Although for the year prior I had tried to convince her to leave swinging, it just got old and she was constantly having her fun and I was sitting on the sidelines.
Any opinions or thoughts?