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  1. Interesting. My wife is very dominant with men, but not me, and very submissive having sex with other women.
  2. I dated a woman in college that after the second time we had sex, she got weird by saying "Hurt me, violate me." It went on to more explicit rape talk. At first I ignored it because I didn't know what to do. As she continued, I stopped dating her. I hope she found a nice, decent guy who satisfied her desires but was otherwise good to her.
  3. I think so, and I think you are approaching it the right way by making it about her. Let her have her fun, you only play with other women later at her urging to be certain she is secure with that side of it first. You're on the adventure, let her steer the ship.
  4. Not me, but I'd love to hear my wife tell the world her sexual history in one concise story. I don't know about women, but men have a strong interest in knowing the sexual activity of women that they know and seeing them nude. I always thought it strange that men who don't look at porn or go to a strip club where there are hot young women, want to know the dirt on and would eagerly pay to see Judy in Accounting nude.
  5. My opinion is that more men are into hotwifing where the husband is an equal partner in putting his wife out there, than cuckolding, which implies the element of humiliation. So when you are discussing your fantasy with your boyfriend, propose it as a joint undertaking in selecting the other guy for you to play with, what you do with him at first [maybe just showing/playing with your tits, giving him a blowjob], whether it's a threesome. Make it fun for him, explore along the way, and if all goes right he'll let you move on to alone play without advanced notice to him. For you that would be treating him as a cuckold, while for him you're just hotwifing. Lifestyle is a cooperative adventure.
  6. Does your partner wonder why you keep yelling "FORE!" ?
  7. A co-worker friend, non-swinger as far as I know, confided in me that he thought that his wife may be having an affair. Small things like leaving a little early and arriving home slightly late, possible text messages, smells, etc. His question was unexpected, so I didn’t have time to think it through at all. At first, I tried to investigate his suspicions of whether she was seeing someone else by asking questions like is she ignoring the kid, ignoring you, does she seem happy, fight with you, how’s your love life, do you do things together?? He said that actually, things are great in that regard. So I told him, then what’s the problem. If she is treating you well and especially your child, is not ignoring the home duties and is giving you all the sex you want, then what’s to complain about? Why should it matter if she is having a little fun on the side? He was puzzled with what I said, but had the look of “I never thought of it that way before” on his face. I told him that if things are good between you two, why potentially stir up problems with her. I’ve only met her a couple of times, and she is attractive, seems really pleasant towards him, and he says that she is a hard worker who contributes to the household. I told him that he has a much better wife than most men, so just focus on your relationship, all the positives, and even if she is having an affair, ignore it. Actually, I said when she apologizes for being a little late, tell her "no problem" and give her a kiss, show some affection. I don’t condone cheating and don’t know why my thinking morphed from “is she cheating?” to “are there any negative effects from whatever she is doing?”, but that’s how my thought process ran. Was I wrong to say what I did?
  8. My advice is to your husband. What worked for me and my wife was telling her that she could be non-monogamous on her terms, that I wasn't looking to be with another woman or even get anything out of it other than her being happy. I gave her total control over the way we went on this adventure. I confirmed this several times when we weren't engaged in sex. So my advice is if your husband wants for you two to get into the lifestyle, to let you take the lead and do whatever it is that you want. He shouldn't criticize what you do (even things you do that you don't do with him), who you do it with, when (before your husband, after your husband), where (a hotel, in your bed at home), how often, or whether you want to be alone or with you husband watching or participating. It will make you comfortable in the lifestyle and give him the most exciting and satisfying journey of his life. After a short time, my wife enjoyed it so much and enjoyed the lifestyle that she wanted me to play as well.
  9. Any of those kinds of things are best done, at least the first several times if you have post-orgasm reluctance, after another guy has cum in her, on her or whatever, while you're still excited for doing it. After a bunch of times you'll have no trouble doing what you want to do after you've blown your load.
  10. I noticed in the upper right "Pierre's Hole Upper" and "Beaver." More than titties there.
  11. My wife says that she's never had a cock that she couldn't orgasm with.
  12. There is no slicker lube than cum, but it doesn't feel "used", except in my mind. My favorite ss is a woman in our group who has a loose pussy. It is incredibly difficult for me to get any traction in that cunt. It teases me no end and I have to work hard to cum, but then my orgasm is unbelievably intense. A real ball acher.
  13. Face it, for most women getting into the lifestyle is a more complex mental process than for a man. That's why I suggest letting the woman lead the way and do what she wants while her husband or partner stays out of the game and just encourages her. Eventually he'll get dragged into it in the best way possible.
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