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  1. Zumanity is an obvious addition - why didn't I think of that! You're a genius. I've been meaning to add Bolero too. I also like the beginning to Prokofiev's "Romeo and Juliet". Well, I like all of it, but it's mainly the beginning section that is very throbbing and sexy. We watched "Easy A" last night and there was a good one on there too - "Sexy Silk" by Jessica Cornish. If you don't know about grooveshark dot com you should check it out. It's a site where you can listen to just about any song for free. I don't think you can download them, but at least you can check it out before you go buy it on iTunes or Amazon.
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  3. Oh Honey -- join my sad little club. I also like being the girl who will do anything...the girl who has few limits and an insatiable sexual appetite. I have an erotic blog with over 400 fans and I teach classes in sexual technique at a local sexual health organization. I jumped into MFM threesomes last year with gusto! But I could not tolerate my husband being with another woman no matter how hard I tried. And believe me, I tried hard. If you look at my past posts you'll see my angst over our encounters with another couple. During that time I actually got a couple of messages from people here saying that I was being selfish by not "allowing" my husband to have sex with other women and that I should not even be on a Swingers' Board because I am clearly too vanilla for the Lifestyle. I think that we all have our different "kinks" and I've come to accept that mine does not involve full swap. I'd love it to be otherwise, but it's not. I would encourage you to value the fun relationship that you do have with your husband and be thankful, like I am that you have a husband who loves devotedly and who seems to be happy with you just the way you are.
  4. I have two playlists - one for slow romantic love-making, and one for pure, sweaty FUCKING (I call that one my stripping playlist). They are both long, so I won't list them here but you can see all 9 hours or so on my blog at Bedtime Stories: Sex music
  5. I love my Rabbit, but I think the best $6 I ever spent was on a "Butterfly's Kiss" on Drugstore dot com. That site as well as Amazon have the best prices on toys and lube. We also really like anal toys that you can DP with, anal beads, and we are planning to get an "Aneros" prostate massager. Cock rings are also good, and my husband prefers the thick, stretchy kind instead of the leather kind that snap on (those look cooler, but they pinch him).
  6. Nice album!! I believe I could fall madly in bed with you...

  7. I started a thread about this same thing not long ago because we had some awkwardness regarding how to move from the dinner table to the bedroom too. Many people suggested just saying "hey - let's get naked!"! Suggesting some massage with everyone on the same bed worked well for us. We started with our own partners, then swapped mid-stream and things progressed from there. Another fun idea is to have everyone play a truth-or-dare like game, or one of the sex themed board games that are out there. I have looked and looked for a good game or set of conversation starters that all revolve around sex but couldn't find exactly what I was looking for so I am working on developing my own set. For us, talking about sex usually leads to it.
  8. Tom - I recognize many things in your story. If you look at my past posts you'll see several dealing with the difficulty I had after our first (and second...and third) encounters with another couple. We had previously only engaged in MFM threesomes which is what my husband likes best. We decided to try full swap with a couple and to make a long, long story short (you can read all about it in my other posts) I had a completely unexpected and unwanted reaction to my hubby being with another woman. I wanted to be ok with it...thought I would be ok with it...but was definitely not ok with it. It was a very visceral, hormonal kind of reaction that I had no control over no matter how much I told myself that it was all fine. We ended that relationship last month and I still wake up in the night seeing images in my head of them being together. I hope that you are able to get past this if full swap swinging is what you want. For us we just had to accept that we are not built for it. Maybe that will change in the future, but I kind of doubt it. Good luck!
  9. I would just like to reinforce the fact that many of us really don't care about the size of a man's penis. Big ones create more of a "fullness", but smaller ones can really hit me in spots that the big ones don't. I've probably had some of my mind-blowing intercourse with a tiny little Asian dude. And I do mean tiny. Also,it's common for the big ones to have a more difficult time getting erect. It takes a lot of blood to get those things up!
  10. My husband has had the same experience. His brain doesn't feel nervous, but other parts of him clearly do. He does take Levitra (gets it online much cheaper) but even with that he still can't get hard if anyone but me is in the room, so far. We are hoping that this resolves with some repeated exposure. He feels turned on, he LOVES seeing me with someone else and he loves pleasing another woman. So even though the medication helps with "normal" ED, anxiety can still get in the way. I understand that this is a very, very common issue for men in the lifestyle. I also understand how women can take it personally, even though it is NOT about them.
  11. You sound a lot like my husband and I. He always had these juicy fantasies about seeing me with another guy and I thought they were just that until I was propositioned by an old classmate and my husband said "you should go for it!" We talked about it for about a year after that. I knew that he thought he would like this, but what if I went through with it then my husband felt horrible? I couldn't un-fuck the guy! Once it's done it's done, so I think that if you get to the point where you are going to go for it, you have to agree that if there are regrets afterwards that you are going to have to let them go (easier said than done). No holding grudges or blaming each other for following through with something that you both agree to ahead of time. Then you can either decide to proceed or call it quits and say "well, that happened". We have just started dating a couple, but my husband's main interest is seeing me (or hearing me) with another guy. He belongs to an online forum for the "hotwife" lifestyle which is a little different than regular "swinging". If you'd like to get his perspective, I'm sure he'd be happy to get on this site and chat with you about it. One thing we did that helped ease us into things is chat with guys online. I've actually met some really nice men through a chat room I frequent and it turned on my husband (and me) for him to watch/listen/read me having erotic chats with these guys. It's a "safe" way to dally with another guy and gave us some confidence that we were going to like pursuing this lifestyle. Go slow...keep communicating openly and honestly.
  12. I agree with the last post - cuckolding involves some kind of humiliation or degradation of the husband while the wife is having sex with someone else. For example telling the husband how the new partner's cock is bigger...he's a better lay...makes me cum harder...etc, etc... The Hot Wife culture involves men who are aroused by seeing their wife with another man, then re-claiming her afterwards. Usually involves just watching and/or threesomes. My husband is very much into this which I think makes me an extremely lucky woman! We play with couples too, but he is not nearly as turned on by being with another woman as he is by me being with another man. I mentioned in another thread somewhere that a friend of mine has written a book about the hot wife culture called "Insatiable Wives and the Men Who Love Them". It's a very interesting, research-based look at this phenomenon.
  13. I have found that there are more "average" looking people than those who look like Ken and Barbie. Most people probably post their most flattering pictures (although actually - it seems like they don't most of the time!) but when you meet them in person they have crow's feet and muffin tops just like the rest of us. I am very insecure about parts of my body (other parts I'm proud of!) so I just offer a disclaimer to people when we are first chatting and if they recoil at the term "chubby belly" I know that we won't get along. I'd rather have people just say up front that they aren't going to be interested in someone who's 20 pounds overweight than see that "OH NO" look on their face when we meet. So far I've only been rejected by one couple after they looked at our pictures so I guess I'm not too hideous.
  14. I ran across this old thread and wanted to bump it up because I am always looking for good stripping music. I don't necessarily use it for stripping but for sex when I'm in a raunchy mood (as opposed to a romantic mood). I have a pretty good list of my own on my blog. If you're interested, it's at Bedtime Stories: Sex music . I've also added Rhianna's "S & M", "Closer" by the Nine Inch nails, and "Little Nikki" by Prince. I'm always looking for more ideas though! Bliss
  15. I had a boyfriend once who would make me cum while he had a pen slipped inside me. Then he would take that pen and write erotic poetry with it. My husband once put a kielbasa inside me while he made me cum, then cooked it for dinner!
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