We will be attending an on-premise club this weekend and would like to play out our soft-swing fantasy. We are hoping someone with some experience can tell us the best way to realize this fantasy or if it’s even possible to get others to participate in a fantasy that only involves anonymously touching and caressing my wife.
Here is the fantasy we are hoping to play out:
I take her into a cabana and close the drapes. Then, I blindfold her and tie her hands above her head. Next, I open the Cabana drapes and another couple (man and woman) or other couples come into the cabana and caress he body while I kiss her and whisper in her ear. We bring her to orgasm, and then I penetrate her while the couple continues to caress her body.
She does not want to kiss or be penetrated by any males other than me. Anything goes with the woman (or man). I do not wish to touch the other woman. Also, she would like the interaction to be anonymous, She does not want to meet the other couple in advance, so that leaves out meeting another couple and making arrangements.
To complicate matters, I am very heavy (5’9”, 240 lbs.), though my wife is beautiful and HWP. I am well-groomed, confident and carry myself well, but I am concerned that my size will discourage other couples from participating, though I have no intention of having physical contact with anyone besides my wife.
Any ideas? If we leave the doors open and people come in will they be expecting a full swing or can we set boundaries?