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mtneers

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About mtneers

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  • Birthday 02/11/1979

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    Married
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    West Virginia
  1. We are still really new at this, but we are lucky to get to play once every 3 months. We live in a very small town and we'd have to travel quite a distance to acutally meet people, so we take it as it comes...
  2. We dont really keep score, but I (mrs Mtneer) would like my hubby to have just as many experiences as I have. Lets say if we have a MFM I am then looking for a female for us to have a FMF....that being said, its very hard to find a female to join so I am the one who comes out on top
  3. Love it!!! I love your accent too!!! Just like mine....lol
  4. No its not like that at all. he knew about the single guy. He even talked to him with me. I didnt know he was even looking for a couple until I saw him talking to them online. I asked him how he felt about meeting the guy. He didnt ask me.
  5. Being a "man slut" isnt that bad is it??? I call my hubby that all the time....I do think hes just excited. We've talked a little, and i hope he will open up to me soon about what he wants.
  6. That is exactly what I was thinking!!!! Im the one with the problem so im the one who stopped the whole thing. and then later on, would he be angry with me cause I didnt wanna do it anymore? I swear if it wasnt so fun that Id say forget the whole thing.....
  7. The other couple didnt feel comfy in the same room together and I asked him if he wanted that and he said it wouldnt bother him, even though we both talked about same room only. He didnt push me into it, nor did the other couple. What happened was I saw how much he wanted this and I caved. I think he does feel guilty a little maybe over it because he knew it wasnt what i was comfy with but we went ahead with it any ways. I should have said NO. I have a real problem with wanting to make him happy no matter what. I do regret it and its something I'll never do to myself again. I have asked him why he assumes I dont want to try it again when I have concerns. He just gets kinda defensive. We dont communicate like we should about it or anything for that matter. I think, Maria, You are absolutely right when you say long term relationships forget how to listen. He has.
  8. You guys are absolutely right. We do need to communicate more. question is...How do I get him to do that. When I ask him to talk about it he says OK and then asks what about it I wanna talk about and i tell him certain things and his response every time is "if you dont wanna do it we will never do it again" I am not sure where he is getting I dont wanna do it again, but it seems to be his answer to everything. I guess my newbie mistake (separate rooms) was a killer to him cause i did cry afterward and knowing that i was upset and a little hurt he said he would never do that to me again. I just want this to be something we do together. Is my hubby a take charge guy? not really. He always talks to me before spending money or doing things. IDK whats gotten into him. IDK how to get him to talk to me about it. I try all the time, but he doesnt. Whats the best way to approach him about it?
  9. HELLO ALL!!!! We are new at this whole lifestyle and want to learn more. We have done MFM and a full swap with a couple in separate rooms....I didnt particularly like that part, since we talked about same room only and i let myself get talked into separate. Long story short, we are gonna try it again but stick to the rules we set right off. I am up for any advice anyone wants to give. One question I have though is this....My hubby seems very eager to find another couple and this weekend he didnt even ask me anything before he started chatting with a couple and asking to meet them. I have told him that I didnt appreciate that and Im not gonna just take one for the team to get him laid by a different woman. It kinda pissed me off honestly. Is he just eager because its all new to us or is this how he will be always? Thanks.... S
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