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Crosswords last won the day on January 22 2012

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  1. I always assumed those statements were included to indicate that you are into pretty much anything and everything else. Mrs. C.
  2. This is not necessarily true. Counselors who are members of AASECT AASECT :: American Association of Sex Counselors, Educators & Therapists are particularly well-equipped to counsel couples who are swingers or interested in swinging.
  3. Have you checked into counseling thoroughly enough to verify this? Most insurance does cover some counseling. Most counselors have sliding scale arrangements to make counseling affordable. It's worth checking into it.
  4. I agree with those who say larger guys can be painful. In addition, it's much easier to give a good blow job to or have anal sex with an average or smaller guy. As a result, I personally prefer average or smaller cocks. Much more versatile. Mrs. C
  5. Sounds like I'm in the majority. I have natural 34DD's and I want to get a lift but without any implants. I'm okay with them ending up smaller. I just want some perkiness and some choice when it comes to choosing lingerie.
  6. Which chat rooms? The closest I see are the "Married But Looking" chat rooms, but aren't they mostly people seeking affairs?
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    Hood Piercing

    Soo . . . have you changed your jewelry yet? I'm allowed to now, but I'm nervous. :-)
  8. Thanks! Someone else PM'd me with this information as well. There is one therapist listed in my area, so I'm going to look into her schedule. I do feel secure in his love for me. I actually believe that he thinks I'm pretty etc. too, but I just want and need to hear it verbalized. I actually think I have a pretty healthy self-esteem. Also, I wanted to brag: on Tuesday, he forgot to take the garbage cans to the street before work. He came home to find that I'd done that, and also had secretly gone to get my clit hood pierced. He was beaming at me, and said, "You're the best wife in the whole world!" Not bad! Mrs. C.
  9. Sounds like you have done what you can. The only additional thing that pushed me over the edge is that we went to a few strip clubs and bought lap dances for me. Experiencing being touched by another woman, and later on, seeing that I was okay watching him being touched by another woman, kind of bridged the gap for me between sheer fantasy and swinging. Regardless of what happens, enjoy your wonderful relationship! Mrs. C.
  10. "Sex and Breakfast." From the Netflix summary: James (Macaulay Culkin) and Heather (Alexis Dziena) visit a therapist to discuss their passionless relationship. During their sessions, both realize they're as much mentally bored as sexually uninterested. That is, until their therapist recommends group sex. A partner swap with Ellis (Kuno Becker) and Renee (Eliza Dushku) leaves all four lovers realizing that a lasting relationship consists of more than just sex and breakfast.
  11. Did it. I emailed some that sounded fairly open-minded. Not only could they not accommodate his schedule, but their response to my question about swinging wasn't good. I asked in a neutral way what their position on swinging was, so that they wouldn't know what answer I wanted to hear. All of them discouraged swinging and mentioned how destructive to a marriage swinging is. True, although my breasts/his compliments of other women's breasts are just the most difficult issue for me because of my self-image. I am also unhappy that he doesn't compliment those parts of my being (physical and otherwise) that I have no issues with. Yes, I think he's working on that. Just realizing why he fails to compliment me was a huge breakthrough for him. That makes sense. He says (when I ask) that he loves my breasts, and I believe him. I have considered surgery, and he has said he would support me if I decided to have surgery, but he loves them the way they are. I am still still considering surgery, but if I do that, I would like to lose 20 pounds first so that weight loss doesn't impair the results of the surgery. I'm working hard on the weight loss right now, which will be healthy in any case. Thank you so much for your thoughts! Mrs. C
  12. Ordered it. Thanks for the suggestion! I've read that one. That (and others like it) are what inspired one of my (failed unfortunately) attempts to inspire him. However, he's still using the pet names! And I love it. Thanks for continued great ideas, everyone!
  13. Good idea! Most of the couples we know in our vanilla life don't necessarily compliment each other much in front of us, although in talking with their wives, I know they do give compliments. The most compliments we hear are in swinging situations. Hopefully hearing those will help eventually as we swing more. ;-) Oh, I'm good at accepting compliments. I always give him a smile and a "Thank you, Honey!" usually followed by "I love you!" I asked my husband if he was sufficiently impressed, and he said he is, no further impression necessary. I think intellectually he gets it completely. You are correct that it's buried in his psyche. But he is doing quite well with the pet names! So far so good. Maybe in a few weeks? months? we can ramp up to more verbalized compliments. Mrs. C.
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    Hood Piercing

    That doesn't sound too bad at all! Is it uncomfortable now? Have you been taking anything for it? Do you think you'll really have to wait the whole 10 days? (I'm such a baby when it comes to abstinence. ) Mrs. C.
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