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  1. IMHO: suicidal tendency personalities may be at play as far as the thrill of bareback is concerned. Risk factors are open to interpretation even by medical people. Common denominators perhaps are not be recognized accurately? Urban areas that have high alien to the US populations and sourced from high infection countries may be a factor in risk, i.e., Miami, perhaps NYC as well? Risk is lower perhaps by more people participating? One person infected in 1,000 is a higher factor then 1 infected in 100,000? The chance of winning the Mega Millions is very low but there were two that still one the last one so the possibility still exists. The answer is play at your own risk, and your mileage may vary. If you want to worry about being infected like Marilyn Chambers did for the rest of your life then bareback all you want. You may feel that you have no problem until you wake up one day and get the thought that you could be Typhoid Mary and live in fear forever more. Life is full of risks but make sure the ones you take are the ones you can control. Don't put yourself at risk chosen by a stranger. Chances are they couldn't care less about you. It's also the circles that you travel in. I have yet to see a real life gangbang and therefore haven't had to choose to 1)recognize an offer to participate and 2)consider joining in. Chances are that all of the above will come to mind or come rushing to the surface and my little friend won't want to come out and play. In all of my considerable years, I have yet to find a woman who was so attractive that I would be willing to die for her...but I'm not dead yet! LOL
  2. Absolutely. With the prevalence of Gay porn in use by women,many like to see two guys going at it hard and heavy. Best to be safe and get as many details as you can. I always say I will not go into any unknown situation with a blindfold and my hands tied behind my back even though it does sound good, doesn't it?
  3. At the risk of violating the seemingly commandment of though shall not cheat (after all you are likely to pick up a cheating wife) I'll give you my opinion. Leave the wedding band on. Particularly if you have a white mark left on your finger when you remove it. Taking it off and having the mark on that finger is a sure disaster warning to the woman. They seem to have radar. There are women that cruise the hotel bars too. Most don't like the club scene. Hotels are quieter and they may be staying there and are a little lonely to boot. Many feel safer playing with a married man. I suppose that there is logic to that? Many feel that married men are better on a one-nighter because they are sexually frustrated and ready to burst. Really you say...absolutely I say, and they tend to be right...big time. I personally hate being safe...and sexually frustrated. High class hotel bars in the cities are usually a good place to hunt sometime after 9 p.m. As many business women travel as men these days. They are also as open and forward as men. Look for ones with live entertainment also. Lots of unescorted ladies there staying over for the night. Personally I do best when they pick me up. My lines are lousy. Personally the only thing that works for me is saying "Hi" and giving a smile...a kind of a sad smile. Make sure you turn on your "love light". Women see it. It's invisible to you but they have a sixth sense about it. It's telling her you are available. Maybe she will respond? The line about your "wife sent you out to pick up a single woman for a FMF" is a pretty good one. Try it. Let is sit with her and she might get curious and start a discussion about the subject? It will probably cost you a few drinks of Merlot , but that is pretty good stuff to pass the time with anyway? Personally I think that some how the ladies are best at bringing back another woman for a three way but they will probably tell you they get shot down a lot too. Oh. Being in a notorious party town helps a lot too. Don't get all bummed out and say that you live in the sticks. The list of party towns is very long and the "burbs" around the big ones like New York can be pretty hot as well. The Rye Town Hilton in White Plains, NY, for instance is notorious for hooking up. You have to invest time there. It isn't wham-bam, thank you maam. You need to like the night life or better put, not minding staying up all night even though you have to work the next day. These also tend to be older crowds too. Personally I wouldn't invest too much time in the 20 something secretarial pool...although some of the college crowd is pretty forward. Just my two cents worth. Hope it helps.
  4. You said things feel weird now? OK. Here's a pretty dumb quote, from a silly chick flick (my wife finds it amazing that I watch chick flicks, LOL) BUT I really do think that it applies. It goes something like this: "how does a girl fall down a rabbit hole and come out on the other side unchanged? Answer: she doesn't". It wasn't curiosity killed the cat, it was jealousy. What does the swingers survey say is the most difficult and maybe the most leathal thing to over come? Jealousy maybe? I think so. Get over it and that's what sets you free, and instills trust in your partner. In my opinion. Some people can't get over it and it also means they are possessive and controlling. Hang in there. The truth will set everyone free, and I predict she will be back but remember YOU freed a previously suppressed part of her. It doesn't matter whether conscious or unconscious. She is a new person now too. Hope you will like the new her? Best babe.
  5. When you adopt a dog or a cat now there is usually an interview and an adoption fee. The fee is there not necessarily to carry the business, it is there to qualify you as being minimally capable of taking care of this animal. I think requesting action shots is the same thing. It is some sort of qualification confirmation. I think it is stupid. I would never ask for one. Now a nude photo is a little different. A lot of times you want to not waist your time and possibly avoid an award situation. When you are ready to get down to it and you see the other person naked for the first time, you don't want to puke now do you? I get requests from females a lot for nudies and the latest one, who is distant at the moment (yes, a new long distance romance I guess) is interviewing me and guess what she wants to see? Should I say? I don't want to be rude BUT she wants a cock shot with a tape measure AND she wants to see it cum. Since I am already having fun with this, how can this hurt? The head and the body shots are separate so they aren't going to wind up anywhere that matters. Just another picture of a naked headless guy and another dick cumming? Gross? TMI? Maybe, but to the point, no? Even Ladies ask to see what is most important to them these days. Remember, there are all kinds of swingers. Sometimes you need to negotiate the rules personally? Sometimes that's half the fun? Sometimes being just a little perverted helps? Normal is so boring...vanilla?
  6. When I was very young (early 20's) I didn't understand any of this. I would be concentrating on whatever I was supposed to be doing, like working, and I would get approached by a guy (older) and he would say something like, "I want you to f... my wife". I had no idea what so ever a swinger was at all. I didn't understand why they were asking me? Why did these pervs chase me? I would just very quietly freak out. "The straits still do". Many of the newbies do too. They are still not all over their insecurity and jealousy issues and maybe, just maybe this isn't what they expected. Having is not the same as wanting. Experienced swingers know that and hesitate with the newbies. It doesn't take much to ruin the entire atmosphere. Fools rush in where angles fear to tread. There is a degree of sophistication that experienced swingers arrive at eventually. Until they get there, they are unpredictable to say the least. Now to answer the question: I prefer to be in a MFM and not watch. I get turned on by the thought that this very hot naked woman wants to be filled with cocks and likely with cum too, and the husband understands that as well. For me that is the key, the ticket to this mental rush that we are feeling through our bodies is overwhelming the three of us. For those few moments, minutes, hours (yeah right) we are all in a different place. A wonderful place of not all body and not all spirit. MFM for me. Watching is for...well I don't know, but not me.
  7. I look at it this way. Every experience isn't a 10. Every bottle of wine is not the best. Not every lobster hits the spot, and most importantly if there is too much anticipation, you can't possibly live up to your fantasy. I know it sounds stupid to say but it is also the proverbial, "falling off of the horse and getting back on...as soon as possible". My problem personally is that my imagination is so vivid, that the reality can't possibly live up to the expectation. I constantly am cautioned by the ladies that don't be disappointed. In fact I have been turned away because the lady was afraid she wasn't up to my standards. One of the things I like about experienced swingers in gerneral is that even though they may not NECESSARILY have the highest of IQ's, they are all very sophisticated. This is not something that you do it once and you totally understand it. There is seemingly at times an expotential interation of personalities and the most important sex organ involved here is the brain. Seduce it and the body follows. All of your fears will appear at one time or another. You will think you are over something or more mature and low and behold, you regressed to a seemingly childish state that you never knew was there. Swinging is mind games with the body following. Some people will "see it", others never will and will feel hurt. Best to develop swing friends and leave it at that. These are human relationships and you are pushing the envelope and not everyone will work out AND everyone has different rules. Just my opinion. Not speaking for anyone else, and yea, some of them still scare me a little too. Makes me wonder what exactly "they" are talking about sometimes and does yes mean yes or maybe...
  8. No. I don't need reviews of my performances coming in from all over the world. I think most real amateur performances are pretty boring and if I think I can be a porn actor I am probably fooling myself and I'm gonna get hurt and put myself in the hospital? Of course I could go into training but would need some training partners. I wonder where I could find some?
  9. I personally love them on a woman as well as a labia piercing. The belly button is ok but I think a woman looks dressed best, or is that undressed, naked with jewelry in her piercings, maybe a nice necklaces, chain link belt, heels and a nice perfume. I'm just a simple kind of guy I guess? I have been known to send a little gift with my birthstone in the jewelry with a note that I hope it reminds her of me when she plays with herself. Me bad. I love body jewelery on a woman. On me I don't even have my ears pierced. I think that is pretentious on a man. Just my opinion. No offense intended to anyone.
  10. Doesn't the way data is interpreted play a big part? (I think you just said that in effect right Doc)? What I mean is the following. If we could come up with a comparative analogy like for instance equating the likeliness of one person walking in and buying THE winning ticket to the Mega Millions Lottery to contracting HIV from one bareback contact to a person of a pretty much well know controlled group? What are the odds that you are going to win the Mega Millions even with 100 tickets. Personally three tickets to the gang bang would most likely be beyond my limits? Intravenous drug users still scare me, but some of the people that are doing it, don't normally fit into a know risk group, and you would never suspect that a popular run way model would be sharing needles with other IV users. If you were doing even a full body physical on here, you probably would never even find the spot she uses unless there was some type of a rash? There are probably a hundred places she can hide it and if she uses them all it would be back to the odds of the lottery that you discovered it as a Physician? Anyway. That is the rationalization that I think of, i.e., that the odds are so low that it is next to impossible, but there is really no counter answer to...someone IS going to win that lottery? As a secondary thought that has occurred to me here, and I apologize in advance because I don't mean to insult people with my clumsiness of proposing questions that are hurtful, but since there obviously MD's that are "swingers", maybe even husband and wife MD couples, are Gynecologists and Urologists suspiciously absent from the life, about the same as everyone else, or in greater numbers, AND are there as many female MD's that swing as males? Like I said, I apologize for that question, but I had the thought that maybe the absence of one of these MD groups from "swinging" could be the unspoken truth answer that I'm looking for, i.e., the group of female Urologists essentially saying, what are you people freakin' nuts? Sorry if I'm not making sense here (I think that I am) but I might just be not delineating my points correctly or clearly enough? The last thing I want to do is turn off the MD segment. The insight by you is immeasurable, and yes I know, just like in all other medical decisions, the individual patient still has to make their own decision on weather or not to accept the professional advice or opt out. I think I understand that much, clearly enough?
  11. I want to apologize for some of the insensitivity in my last post. My excuse is that I didn't read everything above, or reread it or something? I wish there was an edit option here? I'm so sorry for the negative reaction that you got. What I am seeing now is that your friend thought you were coming out as gay, I think, for her. I don't think that she understands the "open" concept at all, or else she doesn't accept it and wants just you? Either way, there are so many crossed signals by her. You I think were clear. Maybe think of it this way, you know how some swingers can't get over the jealousy part right at the beginning, then because of that, can't do it at all any more? Looks a little like that. The only thing to do is "set her free...". No one died. It feels like it though, like a breakup? It's all TMI for her at the moment. Some people can only be monogamous. It's an insecurity thing. I think you had to do it to clear the air. If she is your friend, she will be back. All you can do is be hers? She needs time to digest all the information, review it, and re-review it, and re-review it, to get the picture. It looks though like she doesn't want to share you? Best of luck.
  12. I would want to hear from more then one of the ladies on that. I think it is a male fantasy, not female. Correct me if I am wrong though.
  13. There is a philosophy that stated very simply says, "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger." I learned partnership at a fairly early age. What I learned that 1+1=2, not 1/2+1/2=1. In other words it takes 100% of both of you and then some. It ain't easy but it usually is money that causes the grief, not sex. The only way I see it is I signed on for this willingly and "no one gets out alive". To me that means I do everything I can do to make it work. Some people just need to evolve into a greater being. Religion doesn't evolve, it is fundamentalist and cause guilt issues. What ever happened to that "We Fuck for Jesus" group?
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