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  1. It has been really hard to find the 4-way connection. And hard for me to find women I am attracted to. We are going on 5 years in the LS. It has taken a good four years to be completely comfortable with everything. Our preferred play is mfm or mfmmmmm lol. Wifey can take on more than one without problem. Seven in one night at a LS party. But it is typically a mfm with four regulars that she likes to play with and the I like to hang out with. I think the most exciting part is the anticipation, when she comes downstairs once she is all dolled up and we have to wait til she gives me the signal to start touching her. It's game on then lol.
  2. Yes condoms suck, no argument there. I realize most people have the HPV virus, we have both had "cold sores" at one time. But not down there. AND I realize if the condom does not go all the way down that exposed skin can transfer it. But the point is dude did not ask before doing, he just did it. We are not at the bareback point yet. Wifey still needs to get her self to the doc and get on some sort of BC. We have moved on from that night and he came over last night with plenty of raincoats LOL. Dude's a good guy, close and reliable and other than that time has been respectful of our limited "rules", rain coats and no back door for wifey. Other than that he has his way with her and she is nice and tired today LOL.......and a little sore!!!!!! in a good way. Dude is thick LOL.
  3. At a party a few weeks ago wifey got her 1st gangbang. 5 total. She was running around the pool nude looking for #6 when I got her. She found him but I was tired of supervising at that point and making sure all was ok. One guy was trying to go bareback, he was having the ol limp condom issue thing going on. She had a good time but was a little worn out the next day, she still had to take care of me when she got home so that was 6 for her. We were ready for it at that point, it had been talked about in the past how many she could handle. She felt pretty sexy, guys waiting to have their turn with her in the gang bang room.
  4. This guy is cut off, no visible sores on him either. But the not asking before doing has left both of us not really happy with him. We don't know him well enough to know what he was exposed to in the industry or how long in it, sounded like in the local Phoenix area industry. Whatever that is.
  5. Is what I read good for birth control but if you get an infection of some sort is not good when you have an IUD.
  6. Not aware of any testing in the US in the industry that is regulated by the government. Wife has been tested twice that I know of. Last year the most recent when in to go see the OB/GYN. But I don't know exactly what they test for as it was not an issue. Seven years ago when she immigrated to the US she was tested for INS but also don't know exactly what they test for.
  7. Just concerned that someone who has been exposed to a lot of STD's has nothing to lose. Someone that does not ask 1st does not care. It is probably nothing and does not matter now. From what I have read herpes, syphilis etc are all treatable. Just not something I was interested in finding out about at this time LOL.
  8. I know this is not a contraception forum but not sure I understand what's "harsh" about a IUD.
  9. Thanks to all for the replies. Wifey gets too lazy to go down to the OB/GYN. And says "the pill makes me fat" so wants to get on the IUD. I feel for dude, I can't stand condoms either, makes it hard for me to swing lol. And I have done some searching here on this exact topic and was covered, he could get tested that does not mean he is her "exclusive" boy toy so next week can be a whole different ball game. The him being involved in the porn industry really got me worried though. Males don't make a lot male on female, it's the male on male stuff where you get paid. He has not mentioned male on male. I did not know I would be wondering about what he was exposed to while working. Oh well.
  10. Did not really think she would get pregnant. It took us seven months to have our first and only. This whole thing got us looking for STD statistics. Which of course depending on the source will depend on the reliability. Yes we have not been around much lol. These types of issues are why we stopped exploring the "lifestyle" the last two times.
  11. I don't take it as blaming, problem is we live with wife's mother, so wifey runs upstairs with her boy toy while I get everything else together. We are in our 30's and 40's mom helps with taking care of our kid. So unfortunately wifey does rely on me to keep an eye on things a little too much. This is the 3rd time to play with this guy, the 1st and last time she told him condoms. I thought it was pretty clear. yes/no. I am not in the room when play time begins...3rd time with people means no rain coats?? No right...am I being too negative here or were we too trusting? Don't really want to meet up with the guy any more.
  12. Wifey and I were at a party a couple weeks ago and she ran into a guy that's close to us and seemed like someone that could be a regular. He was over last week and no issues. Last met up for drinks and headed back to our place. I was downstairs making drinks and I get upstairs and they are already going at it. All is well until tonight. Wifey asks if you can get a disease from a guy rubbing on your pussy without a condom on. At that point I asked "what going on, what happened?" She said they were in the room nude, him behind her, and he bent her over and was rubbing his cock on her pussy. I was all that has the potential to go bad, was he all wet? She did not think so but I have to assume he was as they were touching each other in the restaurant. Then a few minutes later she said he rubbed on her and actually slid in. It took her a sec to realize he was not wearing a condom.....it felt good and then she realized and pulled away. He said "you always wear condoms?" She was like yes so he put one on. That's when I get there clueless. Now it is all concerning. Wifey is not on birth control. He was in the porn industry. I read 66% of people in porn have Herpes. Am I correct in thinking you can't get herpes from pre cum? They are sores on the outside correct. I suppose there is the exposure to HIV (slim), and others but the contact was very brief. I am a little frustrated though. Wife had two drinks to loosen up and he tried to take advantage of the situation with me not there. Really not pleased, we were just getting back into this and makes us reconsider, just like the last two times issues came up that caused us to rethink the LS.
  13. thank you, yes were are definatly discussing everything. not losing any sleep over anything, just trying to sort it all out. I am a planner and wife is more of a go with the flow a mfm is easy for me to deal with, multiple partners over an evening is just something I will need to work out at the time and I will be good to go, I want wifey to have fun. She's really enjoying herself and alot happier, she feels sexy, and when she feels sexy and happy she makes me happy in all sorts of ways. So its all good!!!!!!
  14. Not that none of it is exciting just a little overwhelming!!!! all three points hit the mark at some level.
  15. I think I am the one who needs the hand holding lol!!!! I should have been more clear and meant multiple partners during the party, not all at once, when I mentioned that to wifey, she's like 2 at a time would be good. Too funny. Just need a minute to wrap my mind around it all. Will definatly be makeing sure she is OK.
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