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daleluv

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About daleluv

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 04/01/1971

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    USA
  1. First of all thank you very much everyone for your thoughtful responses! And Chicup I think you are very close...I've experienced that emotion pre-swinging as well and it is close to what I'm feeling now. I actually don't feel guilty about the "cheating" part of swinging, my wife and I are so (luckily) open that that isn't the thing I feel weird about. It is more, what was that all for kind of feeling, and feeling like it wasn't worth it, or it was a little gross. Bbarnsworth I think you are right that knowing this emotion and just letting it go will come with experience...so, I guess I'll just have to keep swinging! thanks again everyone for listening, and responding.
  2. We've been at this almost a year and so far have had some (mostly) wonderful experiences. But I've noticed (male half here) a certain trend in my experiences, and I'm not sure what to do about it. It usually goes like this: 1. leading up to a night out tremendous excitement, can't stop thinking about it, etc. 2. at club, or at date with couple, excitement, then, when I realize something is going to happen, nervousness to the point of feeling a little sick 3. during play time, awesome! Time of my life, for both of us. Big smiles 4. Afterwards, during the nighttime a feeling of, what did we/I just do after having sex with someone else. Swearing I won't do it again. 5. Wake up in the the morning, libido back, and back to number 1! Maybe it is a matter of getting used to some confusing feelings. Maybe it is that the lifestyle, or being with other people is great in fantasy mode, but too complex or weird in reality. I know I'll always go back to #1, I guess I'd like to figure out a way to avoid number 4. Anyone have similar experiences over the years?
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