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About CouplesClique

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  • Birthday 06/16/1968

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Boca Raton, FL
  • Interests
    Skiing, Golf, Tennis, Fishing
  • Occupation
    Health Care Executive
  • Swinging Experience
    Since November 2000

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  1. This is how we handle it as well. I wish we didn't have to but because of our careers and other businesses it's a necessity.
  2. Quoted for truth! Running a board like this and especially a "social network " like an AFF costs a lot of money to operate. So they need a lot of paid members and or paid advertisers. No one is going to pay if there are not a lot of profiles from their area. So between the fake ones and the single men they market to on adult entertainment sites many of the "dating sites " are littered with profiles that will never lead to a meaningful opportunity.
  3. We are always looking for good swingers resource sites. Places that provide good information on the lifestyle. So in no particular order we would say: a. swingersboard.com ( Yes we really do consider this to be a great resource! ) b. couplesclick.tv ( still needs some work but great info ) c. Kasidie ( We love their magazine area ) As far as the dating sites each has their good and bad points. So we keep trying them all LOL!
  4. LOL! I almost spit out my coffee! Why do guys do that? I honestly could care less about the penis. When a "spark" occurs from across a crowded room.. it's not because I can see or imagine his penis Even in the heat of passion .. at least for me it's not about the penis. I guess what I'm saying is no penis pictures before face pictures please LOL!
  5. Kind of sounds like our experience. I think that's a great way to learn! btw.. what are your thought on St Martin? Suggestions?
  6. We've heard that AZ has kind of cracked down on swingers clubs? Is that true? And if so .. what are those who used to go to those clubs doing now? I ask because we had a similar situation here.. now we just have house parties and honestly.. that has worked out better.
  7. That's interesting! MFM right out of the gate. Now is this something you both wanted? Is it a rule? or ...? We ask because we must be an oddity.. we are both straight and enjoy the MFM and MFMF play. I will play with the right woman and in the right circumstance but I prefer guys. And this.. being "straight" seems to cause us issues sometimes.
  8. We have been in the "lifestyle" for about 10 years and have had some terrific adventures as well as some troubling ones. What we find is that when the experience is unplanned .. something that just happens ( Which seems to happen often in Vegas, vacation or at lifestyles conventions ) it is usually erotic, exciting and memorable. We have not had the same great experiences at the clubs or on "dates". they haven't always been bad, but there seem to be a lot more challenges to navigate through in those environments.
  9. We went to Cancun ( Desire Resort ) about a year and a half after our daughter was born for a much needed adults only retreat. We had zero idea that adults only, clothing optional meant... swingers lol! We were so naive that we really believed that this was just a couples only.. no kids... clothing optional resort. We have always been pretty wild together so the clothing optional part was exciting. It was on our first day that we noticed that things were not what we expected. An attractive couple came up to us while we were lying nekkid near the pool. She approached my husband and he approached me.. they were nude .. friendly and very flirtatious. It was flattering but since we didn't understand what was going on there .. we were a bit uneasy.. nervous. The conversation came to a close and after they were out of earshot we laughed our asses off and were like WTF was that? Later that evening the resort held a party of sorts around their huge hot tub which overlooked the Caribbean. The music was great, drinks were flowing and this hot tub probably held 40 people easy. Couples, both nude and in suits were climbing in and out of the hot tub. It was a pretty erotic scene. Torches, Caribbean breeze, hot tub and a large group of fun, attractive open minded couples.... we still didn't realize they were all swingers ... until ... The music changed from party beats to a very seductive Spanish sounding version of enya or enigma... All around the hot tub .. all suits started flying off and slowly but surely couples started switching partners.. not just casual conversation switching partners but much more. My husband and I looked at each other smiled and slowly slid out of the hot tub and onto one of the lounge chairs around the outside. The scene that unfolded was something that we still have never replicated. We watched as my husband slid inside me and we both exploded within a very short period of time... I can't describe how erotic this scene was. Once again.. back in our room we were like WTF! What is this place lol! We fucked like crazy that night... vivid images still racing through our minds. The next day at breakfast, the couple from the previous day approached us, sat down, and said... " you two don't really understand what's going on here do you? " It was the perfect ice breaker .. we laughed and said nope.. fill us in! These two were awesome. They basically taught us about the lifestyle over the next few days. They encouraged us NOT to participate until we really talked, discussed our feelings.. jealousy, lust.. the difference between playmates and soulmates... our fantasies etc. We took their advice and kept in touch with them... about three months later they were our first experience and it was awesome!
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