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  1. I was 20 and my wife 19 when we married and were divorced four years later. We were too young and grew apart following different paths. Our sex life was not the main reason but played a part. She was very inhibited and prudish. She had been raised to be very virtuous in her religious upbringing. She was a virgin until our wedding night. I had been with a number of girls, mostly teen conquests by a sweet seduction that brought out their sexual desires. I wanted her innocence. What a catch a virgin was for me in that time. She maintained her virginity by determination and closed legs. During our marriage never once did she initiate sex and never participated, being just a wet rag. She never had an orgasm except when I ate her pussy and that was a stimulation she couldn’t ignore. She never had an orgasm with my dick inside her pussy in four years. No other girl I had fucked failed to respond eagerly during sex play and I was sure they enjoyed it and wanted to be fucked. As silly as it may sound my respect for girls came early in life by an old verse taught to children. Girls are made of sugar and spice and everything nice. Boys are made of sticks and snails and puppy dog tails. I was taught to always respect girls and treat them nicely. Growing into my teen years, I always wanted girls to like me and never treated any girl in a dominating way. I was always about wanting to please them to earn their respect. I was that way with my wife about sex. I wanted to know I was pleasuring her by seeing her react to the sexual stimulation I always tried my best to give her. It was not about me but always about her. She never did show me she liked sex except for her orally induced orgasms, and when I would penetrate her and her eyes would roll back and she would softly moan. Except for that she was just that wet rag. She never gave me any feedback or compliments that I was pleasurably satisfying her. I needed to see and hear that from a girl even in a onetime affair and especially now from my wife. During our time together I became obsessed with wanting to see her fully sexually aroused from the pleasure I was giving her. I began to fantasize that if I could bring another man into our bed, he could take over and drive her into a frenzied state of sexual ecstasy which I had failed to do. Only fate determined if or when I would meet someone I felt could become my lifelong companion and surprisingly did a couple of months later. She was a 22 year old beauty named Joan. We seemed to be two pees in a pod on every social level and interest. She was as eager as I was to explore our sexual compatibility and shared pleasuring and our expertise in satisfying each others desires and needs. We were married a few months later after never having a single trial or trivialization occurring between us and after countless times fucking to each others total satisfaction. We both were as compatible and loving in all the ways we could measure and experienced being together. After two years of becoming so familiar with each other, her moans, groans and screams of delight like a porn star became more subdued, as if I was not exciting her enough to fulfill her sexual appetite. I knew I could never give her the thrill of our first sexual experiences. And that my dick would never grow to fill her all the way up. Having read a lot about swinger wives seeking other men to add variety to their sex life and experiences in their heightened state of yearning desires, I began to think again, as I had with my first wife, about another man fucking her and it soon became a full blown fantasy that drove me to want to suggest to her, hoping it could come true. I believed I wasn’t giving her the thrills, variety and perhaps performance and endurance I wanted her to have during our sex. I would be so excited to watch her with another man who was giving her that kind of sex and see and hear her porn star responses of excitement and pleasure. It drove me wild to imagine. We had a great rapport between us but I was not sure how she would react to my fantasy of her being fucked by a stranger. I had to find a way to engage her in conversation that would lead her into it, to do that I came up with a very subtle plan. I began to want sex in kinkier ways, doing it on the front lawn at midnight, on a nearby nude beach within view of others and anywhere we could play while taking the risk of being seen to make a future understanding clear to her. Then one Sunday afternoon I made a change to a different kind of sex. I made love to her very passionately, romantically and intimately. I made love to her with all the feelings and emotions lovers share. The contrast between our fooling around and making love brought her to openly realize the difference between making love and adult sex play for fun, thrills and the simple pleasures that came from it almost nightly. She agreed and saw more sex play than love making in our sex and in the future. Making love was already a big part of our marriage. Cuddling close in bed, our frequent kissing to show our feeling during the day and the looks of love we saw in each others eyes as well as our serious love making when we shared our heartfelt emotions about each other. I thought I had some shortcomings in our sex play. I was 5 foot 6 and frequently apologized that I had only a 6 inch cock that couldn’t fill her up and reach places deep inside her pussy where I had never been. She always replied that she couldn’t take any more than what I had. I knew she could, being 5 ft. 8 inches tall with a body men would fight over. I told her that again to open the conversation one night in bed. I told her I felt that she had become so sexually familiar with me and asked her what I could do to make her become fantastically hot and turned on like she hadn’t been for some time. She said that was how she still felt about our sex. So I swallowed my anxiety and just came out with it, ”Wouldn’t it be a fantastically thrilling experience to be fucked by a complete stranger 6 ft. 6 with an Adonis body, movie star handsome with a nine inch cock, very experienced and long lasting that could make you have orgasm after orgasm?” Her reply was “Well if you put it that way it would be the hottest fantasy I can think of”. Bam! I had put it out there and she admitted it would be the greatest excitement she could ever imagine to have sex with a complete stranger merely for sex in every way and position there was. But then added that she would be too inhibited and guilt ridden to know that I knew she was enjoying great sex with another man and she would never cheat on me to do it. I assured her it would be my fantasy dream come true to watch her being pleasured so completely that I would yell my encouragement for her to enjoy it as I watched her doing it. I am sure she loved me even more knowing I would give her that opportunity and support while having sex with another man for her pleasure, because of my love for her. I promised that I would find the right guy for her and make it happen. She didn’t say anything but the smile on her face and a passionate kiss said all that was needed and then some, knowing that I loved her so much that I would want her to be pleasured by the lust of another man. The next day I went on a swinger’s personal ads site looking for single men wanting to hook up with a hot beautiful wife wanting to be fucked while her husband watched. I also posted an ad of our own looking for a male with all the attributes I wanted for my wife. Within hours replies were coming in. By the next day there were several dozen responses. I weeded out most but replied with more details to a dozen or more asking them for a full body photo naked. Those who did and were attractive, I replied to again asking for a phone number. After talking to several I put Jane on the phone telling them how excited she was to be telling them what she wanted them to do with her and promised a nude photo of herself and invited them to call back, she wanted to talk to them again in more detail and possibly choosing them to meet for sex. After going that far and the possibility it would happen, I began to make our spare bedroom into a sex playroom that induced sexual triggers of indulgence. I went to a number of antique stores until I found two full-size bed springs lying rusting outdoors. They squeaked when I moved them even slightly. I took them home and wired them together to make one oversized king size spring. Then I built a wooden frame and headboard nailed loose enough to allow it to move back and forth. I put the large springs on the frame and covered them with just enough padding that it would be comfortable to lay on. The result was a bed that would squeak with every movement and would rock back and forth bumping the wall to emphasize the movement of sexual thrusting, making sounds that would make it even hotter, squeaky springs and the bed pounding against the wall. It added sound to the action and hoped it would make it even more stimulating. The room was painted white making the action on the bed visible by only a few electric flame candle lights for illumination. To that I added an audio track of sexual moans, groans, aaahhhs and oooohhhs from a porn video that would play softly in the background to motivate and add to the verbal exclamations of my wife and her sex partner. I also built frames to hold lighting to spotlight the hotspots of sex action and for lighting if we ever wanted to video tape. Within about a week Jane had narrowed down her choices to two men. I assisted her with the selection based on the size of their dicks. I decided size mattered and big was better. She was perfectly in tune with that. I told her since both of her final choices were so close in their desirability it would be like throwing a good man aside because she couldn’t make a choice. Her birthday was coming up and my gift to her was two men to do her. She liked that. A date and time was set. Meanwhile I emailed each to tell them what I wanted. I wanted all seduction to happen in our living room. I wanted them to warm her up slowly by complimenting her and touching her leading to her being undressed except for her panties. They could feel her pussy through her panties and run their hand inside them to feel and finger her, but not to take them off. I had a fantasy of her on the bed knowing when her panties were being pulled off that would be her most intense moment of anxiety knowing she was about to get fucked by a nine inch cock rather than played with. Taking her into the bedroom both males would strip naked as she watched, to see for real what she was about to be fucked with. Things would start with one feeling and sucking her breasts and the other would tongue his way slowly up her thigh to lick her pussy. From there she would be free for both to enjoy as they wanted. I suggested they take a Viagra before they got here. I wanted her to be fucked over and over and over and finish her by one coming deep inside her mouth, halfway down her throat forcing her to swallow every drop of cum he ejaculated and one balls deep inside her pussy grinding his pelvis against hers while he pumped her full. I wanted her to be used in every way, worshiping their cocks as grails of sexual endowments she lusted to consume inside her hungry body. To be used as a submissive whore obsessed with the hunger to be fucked into uncontrollable ecstasy. They would drive her into the most passionate desire ever to engulf her physical senses and produce a mental state of totality for sexual indulgence. I wanted to hear her beg for more, harder, harder, deeper and cries of fuck me! Fuck me! Fuck my pussy! Finally the day came and both men arrived together, apparently meeting first and coming in one car. She wore a blouse unbuttoned below her cleavage and a low cut bra sheer enough to see her erect puffy nipples protruding and the guys could see looking down her unbuttoned blouse. Her pants were zippered and tight enough to show a camel toe. She was so hot both men were almost drooling. She sat down in my lap in my easy chair while both men were invited to set on the sofa. We had smoked a joint and she drank two shots of straight vodka before they arrived. When they did, I suggested she get us all a drink to relax. She gave me mine and then stepped in front of the two guys on the sofa, bending over to hand each their drinks and gave them a tease as they looked inside her blouse. She then sat down between them and reached for a box on the coffee table full of large rolled joints of killer medical grade marijuana. She lit one up and passed it between the three of them, all taking a long hit several times. She had consumed two glasses of vodka and smoked over half of our joint of the extremely stony joint and was becoming so docile and pliable she would have fucked anyone. Both men had already brushed her hair back, their fingers lingering on her neck. One put his arm around her and kissed her on her neck. The other put his hand on her 36c breast. . They began to both kiss her and feel her breasts slipping their hand into her partially unbuttoned blouse and under her loose fitting bra and soon were removing them, each feeling and sucking her bare breasts as she responded with sighs and heavy breaths encouraging them. She kissed one with open mouthed in hot passion and then kissed the other as passionately, her hand feeling the bulge in both men’s pants as she did. A hand slid between her legs and began to feel her pussy through her tight camel toed pants. Then the other was unzipping them and she stood up for them to pull them down and she stepped out of them and kicked them aside. Now the hands were inside her pink panties, which I had bought for her a size to small so they were so tight they wouldn’t come off with her pants. They more or less took turns feeling her and fingering her while the other was occupied kissing her with tongues wrestling each other down her throat, almost eating each others mouths in wild abandon, and massaging each breast and then the other, rolling her erect nipples between his fingers. Her head dropped back against the sofa as he disengaged his tongue from her mouth and instead licked, sucked and nibbled her tits. She was overcome with the sensations each was arousing, Her enjoyment and reactions were obvious and they all moved like a keyword had been said but nothing was. All got up at the same time and she led them down the hall into the bedroom. She sat down on the bed, it squeaking as she did, to watch them get undressed and naked to see what the bulges in their trousers looked like. Seeing the size of their dicks she put her hand over her mouth to stifle her gasp of “oh my god”. She sat there in astonishment as the men walked towards her, their dicks bouncing as they walked the few steps. She climbed to the center of the bed lying on her back. Kneeling on the end of the bed one bent over to grasp the waist of her panties and she lifted her ass to let him pull them off. With a look of near fear and anticipation on her face, she suddenly knew what would happen next. She wanted to experience what it would feel like more than she feared it. Almost immediately a tongue was licking up her inner thigh, and her legs were being pushed open to let him lick her and she let out a squeal as his tongue suddenly flicked her clit and he began to massage it with the tip of his tongue before he went face deep in her pussy, licking everything his tongue could reach. The other guy kneeled beside her head, turned it towards him and she took his cock in her mouth, licking it and swirling her tongue around the crown of the dick head, then she put the head inside her mouth. It was the biggest thing she ever had in her mouth. So she went slowly, accommodating it deeper and deeper till she had all she could swallow her first time. She came up out of breath, and was suddenly gasping as the other guy’s dick head parted her pussy lips. He pushed it slowly deeper and deeper in increments he could see she could accommodate by the look on her face and shallow utterances of “it hurts”. He started a rhythmic thrusting in and out of her over filled stretching pussy and the bed was going thump, thump, thump against the wall in time with the squeaking. Finally she was stretched open wide and he went deep inside her, still not balls deep but further than she had ever been penetrated or stretched so wide. Sucking one nine incher and another nine inches inside her cunt, she was fully occupied with two dicks making her appetite grow and hunger for what else was to come. The guys swapped positions, as the bed squeaked and the thumping bed against the wall started again. The moans and groans of pleasure from the recorded video were barely audible over the sound of my wife responding to the pleasure she was feeling. There was another position change when she was pulled sideways on the bed and her head was pulled over the side and one stood, mouth fucking her. The other had her wrists pinned to the bed and was mounting her and began fucking her again. This time after being fucked three or more times by each guy taking turns, she was getting penetrated balls deep. She was getting a lot of action and she loved it, her highly vocal responses were proof of that. She had said before that she wanted to have sex in every position and every way there was. After more than an hour of fucking she was about to have it in another way. She was positioned on her knees as a dick was guided to her ass. He pulled her down till she made contact with his dick head and slowly put more weight on it and let it slipped just a little way inside her then stopped momentarily when his dick reached her tight sphincter muscle. She then felt the pain but continued hesitantly in very short increments that were still painful. The other guy watching asked her how she was doing. She replied “I ‘m taking it”. Then suddenly the dick was through it and the pain subsided and the tremendous pleasure with every movement deeper began. Again and again she stopped, feeling she had been fully penetrated but then it would slide in deeper with great pleasure being felt with every movement. Finally she was fully impaled. She raised her ass and brought it out, stopping before pulling it back through her tight muscle, then lowered herself taking it deep again, doing this over and over, being stretched to accommodate it. Finally she was comfortable with it and began to take it in and out in continuous strokes giving her the greatest sensation of pleasure she had ever felt. The guy lifted her off him having successfully stretched her to take a nine inch dick up her ass. The other guy was setting up in the bed and pulled her over, still on her knees and had her straddle his legs over his cock. She sat down on it penetrating her neglected pussy till she was balls deep on it and rode him cowboy. Her ass still felt occupied with after feelings of a dick in her. As she was self-servicing herself with his dick he leaned back on the bed and she lowered herself on his chest as he took over and began to thrust his dick up into her. Then she felt the other guy on his knees behind her closing in on her ass as the target for his dick. He pushed it all the way in to his balls in one slow steady penetration and began to fuck her in that hole. She was still being fucked in her pussy too but there was no comparison to the pleasures she felt being fucked in her ass. It must have felt a hundred times more stimulating. It felt so good she didn’t want it to stop. This is what I wanted to see from her, finding herself enjoying a new, higher level of sexual feelings, a lust for this kind of sexual pleasure hotter than she had ever had before, the mental thrill an incredible high that blew her mind. She had never realized how it made her feel to have men wanting her so badly. Her mind had been altered, trained to want, to hunger for the experiences she had found by being used by men to give her such pleasures, well beyond anything she ever had ever experienced before. In truth she knew she had used them to give her pleasure and they had genetically, as men, been trained to do it. She felt she got more out of it than men did. She screamed in pleasure and they grunted and sweated working their ass off to give her what she had just learned tonight she wanted to experience often and over and over in special sexual play with other men her husband had given her.
  2. My biggest fantasy is with a faceless wife. I would love to arrange for her to pull a train. The first swingers club I went to was a small group who rented a farm house and had a single males night. I watched and fucked a young woman in a room with maybe 15 men. All took turns with her, no gangbang, one guy after the other with only maybe 15 seconds between one guy getting off her and another guy mounting and penetrating her wet pussy. It drives me wild to think about watching her head being pulled over the side of the bed and being face fucked by a standing male. I fantasize about her going wild being fucked to orgasm time and time again, moaning, humping, screaming in pleasure from being non stop fucked.
  3. Guys you should be aware of the latest e-bay scam. I sent for a penis enhancer and received a magnifying glass. Instructions said it should not be used in direct sunlight.
  4. My wife and I went to a swinging campground and met a couple about 40. She said it was going to be her first swinging experience. During the evening we noticed she was going into the back room with a guy and returning over and over again to go back with another. She was not gangbanging but "pulling a train". One after another. In your hottest, horniest mood, how many men would most of you wives want to fuck one after the other before finding yourself not horny enough to want to fuck any more?
  5. I am 68 year old. Those who can do, those who can't watch porn Just curious about monster cocks and reality. Click on "Monster" on a porn site and 20 to 1 bbc comes up. Regardless of bbc or white, some are the size of my wrist and almost as long as my elbow to wrist In porn the girls love the big size In reality how many monsters have you seen, and wives, have you ever done one? Was it great because of it's size? Always hear if you go black you will never go back... Did it stretch you out for your husband in coming back together sex later that night? Guys.. are wives with monster husbands looser than a one with a "normal" size? Just horny about hearing wives experiences
  6. I was reading your post and was thinking, this guy lives too far away. Then I noted your you live near my folks in Mendota.

  7. WOOPS! I definately misread Dougs previous thread and thought for sure after reading it she had already had sex with another male while he watched. My BIG mistake. She actually cancelled a meet with a guy Doug arrangerd for her to have a mfm with. I read to quickly and am imbarrased at my mistake in mentioning it in my reply. I do guess he would have gone through with it if she haden't put her marriage first. Sorry Doug. I do stand by my replay if you disregard my error. I think he should give greater thought to enjoy watching his wife experiencing the excitment of a new sex partner and the pleasures she would feel having sex. It is a gift of a husband to his wife given in love. One spouse in a marriage wanting to swing with others while the other spouse does not has no happy ending. My misread made it even more difficult than it currently is by thinking she was sexually active when she only wants to be. I must say I feel like many are beating her up by saying you think she has cheated and/or has men lined up to cheat on him with. Her obvious attempted seduction in a bar does show her desire for sex with other men in front of her husband. That is certainly sending him a message he needs to read and fully understand it is what she wants. My reply was mostly about him overcoming his jealousy and fear of losing her to another male who does her better in bed than he does or maybe has a bigger cock may be totally an unfounded fear. Certainly she seems to have put her marriage first. There is no sign she hasn't but certainlt proved to him she wants to have sex with another man. It was only a mistake to think she already had. I guess if there was a seniors forum I would get more understanding as being a senior moment than I will get for my mistake. But it doesn't change the heart of my replay.
  8. I think you have gotten some good advice, maybe a little bit from several replies. Sunbuckus was very on point. The importance of love, trust, and respect for each others feelings and needs and a total openness between a married couple are minimum reqiurements. I am sure you recognize that, or first think that you need to feel that way before you move on. But... I don't think you have gotten any answers you are looking to receive as advice. First, I don't think counseling is an answer. It will be about morals and religion. I don't believe any swingers believe what they are doing is immoral or a sinful disregard of their religious beliefs. I just read your last thread about you and your wife's previous experiences and near experiences she sought with other men. Clearly she is out in the open and able to prove to you she wants to have sex with other men and has, while you watched. Don't you get the message? It may not just be as simple as her behaviour is obvious. Testosterone is important for both male and female levels of sexual desire. Look on line for brain chemicals responsible for sexual desires. Some are responsible for long term love and attachment and others for lust. It may be her sexual wants are not merely an interest in swinging but be in her sexual chemestry. It may well be that it is you who should change your thought process as a way to overcome your issues with what she has shown you she really wants in your marriage. Since she has had sex with other men while you watched, you show an ability to accept her sex intimacies but lack the ability to be comfortable with it out of jelousy and fear of loosing her. She is showing you another side of her you have never seen and that really throws you. I have read enough comments by husbands on this site to believe it is he who is turned on to watch his wife being pleasured and enjoying sex with another man. He is happy to see that she really likes it. HE is giving her that . It is more his motivation in swinging than his desire for sex with the husband's wife. There are about as many wives who say they enjoy watching their huband's pleasure with another woman and her delight with him. My first wife was a virgin on our wedding night as it was her adolescent fantasy to become a "woman" in her wedding bed. She was terribly inhibited and so innocent she never became sexually aroused enough for her pussy to get wet during the entire week of sex 4 or 5 times a day. It was kind of painful for her every time. Some or a lot of blame is mine in not properly introducing her into sex. But on our first night at home I began to kiss her slowly moving down on her. She stopped me when I went past her belly button. Her legs were closed but my head opened them enough. As soon as my tongue licked her clit she moaned and gasped, her legs opening wider and wider. I brought her to her first ever orgasm. She had been in a strict religion that tought her masturbation was a sin and she had never even done that. It was her first time and she humped and moaned, hands grasping the sheets as she got off. Later on I became really turned on every time I penetrated her and her eyes rolled back, her mouth opened with a hushed gasp and a moan of pleasure. It was the turn on of these two things, the pleasure and excitment of her first sexually enjoyed experience and the hot way she responded to being penetrated that made me think. I could never give her the excitment of a first time and how much a turn on it would be to watch her respond to a bigger dick than mine penetrating her. I saw that was something swinging or just another guy could provide for her. The first time excitement of being fucked by someone new and the feeling of being penetrated by a new and possibly bigger cock. I think you need to talk, talk, and talk about the difference between sex and love. I would guess maybe 90% of the time when a married couple have sex it is because of an arousal of desire. It is a married couple playing. Making love is much more rare. You may be in love but the majority of the time it is just sex for fun and pleasure. Making love is a special occasion when your minds are joined as one and sex is an intamicy that follows and is emotionally present. There is no difference between the physical and heat of the moment passion of making love and enjoying sex as adult play. That INCLUDES kissing and the "in heat" passionate use of saying "I love you". It is more possibly a sign of submission to engage in sex. It goes away when the sex is over and the bodies cool off. It then becomes I loved that sex. You two have been together a long time. If she didn't love you she would have already left you for the guy she wants to push her bittons. If you didn't love her you would not have let her, or stayed to watch her being fucked by another guy. Since you have given her the freedom to experience her desire to have sex with another man for her pleasure doing so while you watched and was more or less okay with it, I feel your matial relationship is more in danger if you don't find a way for you, Doug, to find yourself turned on by it. You have to be supportive and accepting. If she is so hot for this, you know if she is so hungry for it she has put herself out there to prove that to you, you will be the one who doesn't understand her needs, missing what she is telling you. You need to give her this as a gift of your love and she will she will know it. She will love you for giving her your understanding. If you are looking for a new angle to feel okay about it, find it in yourself. You need to realize how hot she can be for you, not how you can ignore her by getting into another wife's pussy. That is my advice to you. Come around, get into it. You have already passed GO. The sign ahead just out of your sight may say dead end.
  9. That is a subject I have been curious about. One spouse having the curiosity and desire to experience sex with someone else while the other doesn't want that to happen. Does the marriage vows mean that a wife or husband can't do something just for themselves, I repeat ... "just for themselves" in their life or must they always give up anything the other doesn't want them to do? Is cheating or a divorce the only answer when a spouse succumbs to a sexual desire to have sex with someone else? From what I hear on TV and what I think is true, the excuse for cheating is "it was just sex, I don't love them, I love you". The only answer I can think of is that the couple needs to really talk about it. Making love is NOT sex. Sex is adults playing for fun, nothing more. I believe before a couple can try swinging they must first talk and agree on that. It is not about doing something TO their marriage but doing something IN their marriage. Is about fun and adventure and satisfying their sex desires and fantasies. Sex is a very strong impulse, maybe stronger than love. Maybe that is what causes cheating in a marriage. If we could just change the label of sexual intercouse from "making love" to "enjoying sex" and keep them seperate it would be a sexually healthier world. I believe that is what swingers recognize. Love is about mutual exclusive feelings and respect for their mate. Sex is playing with someone else on the block and going home to love. Thats my IV cents worth, accounting for inflation.
  10. My fantasy is much like Tina & Bob's. My first wife was very shy. My fantasy was to tie her naked, hands above her head to the headboard, pulling her shoulders and chest to bring her breasts into a more erect uplifted position while she was held defenseless by her tied hands, but leaving her legs and body free to be moved into different positions to be fucked. I would blindfold her and also put earplugs in her ears to muffle voices. It would be a regularly occurring night of enhanced sexual stimulation and excitement for her to enjoy. I would tell her that the reason for the blindfold and muffling of voices was because it would be a man she knew who would fuck her, keeping his identity secret so she would not know who he was. A best friend's husband, boyfriend, or a neighbor's husband and she wouldn't be able to tell on him, a store clerk she saw often, someone from a restaurant, a gas station attendant, someone she likely would see on an almost daily basis who would have fucked her secretly without her able to know. Leaving her to wonder if every guy she saw and talked to every day had fucked her. Not knowing if she was face to face talking to the one who had HIS cock in her mouth and swallowed HIS pre-cum and had HIS cock in her wet pussy and had fucked her as she moaned in pleasure and felt HIS load explode inside her. Every day, every time she saw any man she had seen before, from the delivery man to the mailman , would reignite the excitement of her memories of being tied to a bed and being fucked naked.... and was he smiling at her because HE had ? Every male would cause an adrenalin rush thinking it may have very well been HIM who had enjoyed her most intimate pleasures. Leaving her blushing in shyness by the way he looked at her, and the embarrassing little smile on her face imagining it was HIM. It would be a fantasy she would relive every day and never forget.
  11. Many good replies. One that I have thought about is that after time sex between a couple looses a bit of excitement. Remebering the first time sex with someone, the excitement of the foreplay knowing it was leading to sexual intercourse, the feelings felt getting naked for the first time in front of them or being undressed and seeing your partner naked the very first time, the expectation felt as you got into position and the desire to feel penetration and the ecstasy of feeling entery begin and the tremendous pleasure felt at full penetration when eyes rolled and the oohhs and aaahhs were uncontrollable utterances from the incredible stimulation of the in and out thrusting and the lustful desire for it. All those feelings and the excitement of the first time cannot be equaled again after the familiarity of time with the same person. I think swinging is a gift of that sexual intensity the spouse can no longer give, but can provide, giving their love and desire vicariously to their spouse to experience again. I feel that is where a couples love for each other is strengthened. By knowing the love it takes and is felt in giving each other that experience. It is the proof of love for each other that is greater than any other that can be given.
  12. How about meeting another couple or looking for a single male for threesome ? I think she really wants to enjoy sex with another man. She did go to his house WANTING to be fucked. First you said he really pushed her buttons and she enjoyed it too much, now he doesn't and "petered out". She must be really frustrated ! I think things will get better for both of you with more experiences in the LS with others. Will she post a thread about this situation and what she wants and what is not going right for her ? We all are interested in your situation, we keep replying to your thread, (my 3rd time). We have heard your thoughts and unknowns. It would be a step forward to hear from her.
  13. I began to become curious because my girlfriend commented on how much she enjoyed the feeling of dick in her mouth. I was totally straight and still am, but the curiosity to see what it did feel like became a desire to find out. I reasoned I had never thought about it before and now that I had, I was confident I was not gay but only sexually curious. I reasoned if a female loves it, why can't I ? It seemed "cleaner" than licking up all the juices that come out of a vagina. Being certain I was secure in my masculinity, I tried it. It was the most exciting thing I ever did since I masturbated to orgasm the first time when a pre-teen, or maybe fucked the woman across the street in my first experience. As you, I was worried I would like it as sex and want to do it again and again. Seems I have and never once did I not find it excitingly naughty. I see threads about guys who enjoy licking their cum filled wife's pussy from another man. Seen threads from guys who like to lick their wife's clit while she is being fucked. What the hell is the different than pitting one in your mouth? To a large, large number of guys.....try it, you'll like it! As for anal sex, no I have not had a penis. Some things even I am too reserved (or hung up) about. But I have never felt anything so physically pleasurable as a dildo up there, and even more intense pleasure every time it goes in even deeper only a half inch at a time. Wives, men,.... get one for each of you! After all, if you haven't experienced both of these, you are missing out on half the pleasure of sex. MAN...am I going to get blasted about this! I know it is SWINGERS BOARD, not about gays. This is NOT about gays. It is about SEX. Like swinging is only about SEX. It is just about enjoying the things that are taboo to talk about. Like swinging is to vanilla people. Get over it. WTF....if it feels good, DO IT!
  14. Interesting situation. I replied to this thread when you first posted your discomfort with her getting to involved and enjoying it too much. Now your delima is about her reluctance. I hope you keep us posted on what happened after your last plans for her to go to play alone with him and the other wife coming to your house to play with you. If it does not go as planned may I suggest she posts a thread, instead of you, about what her (and/or your) problems are. Would like to hear her side. All replies are good that tell you to communicate with each other. Having done that, perhaps some situational / scererio suggestions might be helpful. It seems that you are tryning that out for yourselves by a full swap one on one in seperate homes. If successful, maybe a full swap, different bedrooms is next? Follow both by hot reconnect sex back home that night with all the hot revealing details and hopefully how good it was, to arouse your sex intensity with each other and put swinging where it should be in your lives, enjoying hot, even torid sex with another partner as exciting sexually conscenting adults at play. Having sometimes mind blowing sex. Nothing more.
  15. I think the thread was in response to the fact that so many men say they really enjoy seeing their wife with another man. It started with the question of whether the husband came into the LS knowing he would enjoy watching his wife being done by another man, or whether he discovered he enjoyed watching here after entering the LS. My wife was very inhibited because of her upbringing, but once turned on, and it took her a long time,every time, to became so hot that all she wanted to do was be fucked with wild abandon and in that state of sexuality would not have cared who was fucking her, she just wanted to enjoy it. That became my fantasy arrousal, to watch her come into heat in a situation where she would not be able to resist submitting to another man and so had a clear conscience to enjoy him. It was always my fantasy to create situations where she would be naked and other men would become arroused and use her to her pleasure as if she was not morally responsible for violating her inhibitions. With me it was about her becoming totally sexually submissive and enjoying it unincumbered by inhibitions and overwhelmed by desire.
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